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male
age
41-50,
*ardy
writes: I left my wife in january for my tenant. she has dumped me 5 times. she is pregnant with my child and I always treat her dughter like my own. I am constantly bailing her out of debt and she says were close friends yet sometimes she still gets close to me and we still make love . she always makes excuses when my daughter wants to visit her and I spent all chistmas day with her and her daughter but now she says shes too tired to let my daughter visit to open her presents. I'm just wondering if im wasting my time she knows i love her but everytime i ask her a simple question she accuses me of stressing her out so she dont give me a answer. All her family tell me to keep trying but im starting to get depressed over it help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): say I, will pay child support!If you want to say together we can.But we need to get along O.K.?pay child supporty, see the kid often, and dont be mad or have hard feelings against her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): Well if she's pregnant then she's going to be tired and possibly not in a sociable mood.You say you have bailed her out of debt and possibly you feel she owes you something in return? Think about that. Relationships are about give and take, let her have her time to herself. Maybe she feels everything is all too much at the moment single mother, a daughter and a new baby on the way. It's a lot of pressure for her. Take your time if you really care for her and I'm sure things will work themselves out for the best. You must be patient and supportive.
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