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Archived questions from: April, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I would like to stay in contact with my ex, but how much is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6807 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - My ex seems to contact me less and less, although I do make sure I send her an IM every now and then. When I do, we have some really good conversations. The other night, when I IMd her we only talked for a minute, but she seemed like she was upset ...

We're supposed to be getting married, but now she broke up with me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6809 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I hope this is the right place to put this post. My fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago. Well sort of.... She told me 2 weeks ago that she needed a break for now. She said that she just wanted to be friends for now. She is a divorced mother of 2 ...

He said we could work on our relationship, but now says he can't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Hi, Please help me with the way I'm feeling right now. Since 2002 I have been single. I have loads of guys come over to me to ask me out but most of the time i'm not interested, since I think Im too choosy! I met this guy, and felt like I...

I would like to want sex, but it don't happen...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6806 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - I am 22 and still a virgin. The problem is that I have never wanted to have sex with anyone. I was with a guy for three years who I never slept with. I am quite religious and I hid behind that but the truth is that although I loved him madly, and ...

I don't think I want to be with him anymore, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6809 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - i have been goin out with my boyfriend for 3 months altogether now as we have split up a few times. i used to really love him to bitz but now i am feeling as if i don't want 2 be involved with him. i dont want to finish things between us though ...

He totally ignores me, should I just leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6809 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I've reached a point where I'm very angry, feel used and emotionally abused, and although I've always made excuses in the past. I'm sick and tired. I've written before pretaining my problems and all the advice always points in one directio...

Should we have the official talk or should I just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6804 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Should I just ignore or initiate a final talk? I broke up with my bf because he always ignores me and hurts my feelings, one friday's night, I deadly missed him and wanted to speak with him, he refused to pick up my phone when he was partying. I ...

Is there any chance we can make good what was wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I'm a 34 year old guy who up until recently and due to a severe lack of confidence, have had no sexual partners. Through internet dating, this recently changed and I met a lovely young woman who I was blissfully happy with but our relationship was ...

Its all over and I wish I could erase the memories we shared!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I've been in a long distance realtionship for two years with my girlfriend who has a five year old son. I found out from someone that my girlfriend was pregnant for someone else where she works and she was at least 4 months. She never told me. I ...

I slept with my ex on the bounce. Now my most recent ex wants me back but he found out about the other and has changed his mind!1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Ok so me and my bf have split up for nearly 2 wks now, so on the rebound i went and slept with this guy that i used to go out with it meant absolutely nothing and i was single and my bf at the time didnt give a crap about what i did. Recent...

We broke up out the blue but i still feel we can find happiness!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6804 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Is "I wasn't happy so therefore I don't think we will be happy in the future" a good enough reason to break up after 5 years and buying a flat together? I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and we were happily ...

He was flirty and had affairs, now we have split and I am scared of making the same mistake!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I have been married for the past 26 years to one man, whom I adored. But I must admit I flirted with him back when I was 21 years of age. Needless to say I gained a flirtatious man! He ran around on with with many women through our entire ...

How can i show him that we belong together? We are soulmates. I cant live without him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Im 19 years of age, i've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. We were madly in love and planned a future together. We used to talk about getting married, having kids and getting a house etc. We both spoke about these things willingy as he ...

He says he loves me but is not in love with me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Hi, im 19 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. But now he has broken up with me. He says he feels different, that he loves me but is no longer in love with me. Help! What can i do to show him that we are meant for each ...

After 5 years, she just dumps me! She claims she wants space..what should I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

28 April 2006 (M) - i have just split up with my girlfriend of five years and she has moved out to her mothers house she says that she needs space its all come about when she was admitted to hospital with a suspected brain bleed i was beside myself with worry and ...

Broken relationships, I have a child to support and need a job... what do i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - We broke up and have a child, and I don't have a job what do i do?...

Broken down marriage, Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - i need to get out of my marrige but dont know how please help. ...

Can a guy change his feelings overnight??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for over two years. During our relationship we broke up twice. First time because he wanted his space, second time because he had someone else and now for the third time he says he wants his space and doesn't want the...

How do I break up without hurting him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6812 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a child and i am not in love anymore, how do i leave him without hurting him??...

All guys use me and I don't know if I should hate my ex, or get over it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6808 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I am female + 20 years old and I have "dated" guys since I was about 16. My question is, how do I stop being used by guys? This makes me sound like a slut, but I am not. I was a virgin until I was 18, met a guy I fell in love with (let's call him ...

If he doesn't really love her, why is he with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I'm involved with a man that has 2 of us on the go! He is 36 I am 40 the other woman is 58, yes 58! He met me 4 months ago 5 weeks after his 9 year relationship with her ended,she ended it. Everything between him and I was totally fine untill she ...

Thought I loved the wrong guy, Now I've lost my boyfriend, What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - I thought i was really in love with this 1 boy when i had a boy friend but my boyfrind finished me today and it made me realise how much i actually loved my boyfriend what should i do?...

Boyfriend is leaving me as a doormat, Any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6814 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - Ok my boyfriend and i did break up because he said i bugged him to much we had been dating for 4 months... now he says he doesnt want his stuff back because we will eventually get back together... i cant wait forever now this new guy likes me i ...

Trying to get over him...but it's painful. I'm texting him but am not sending. Good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - Im trying to get over Derek but what seems to really hurt is him telling me not to contact me again. We did say to each other what ever happens we'll remain friends. We did have a good friendship. When he has been with women in the past, he always ...

Girlfriend was acting strange, Now she has left me, What Should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

26 April 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm a 21 years old guy. I met a girl about 2 and a half years ago and we fell deeply in love. We used to do everything for each other and we got really serious. I even told my mum and my family about her after about 2 years down the line. She ...

We've dated for six months... And broken up nine times!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6808 days ago

26 April 2006 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend now for 6 months and in that short period of time he has broke up with me 9 times. Everytime he breaks it off and goes away for a couple days he comes back and wants to be back with me. He says that our breakups ...

I don't want to regret not doing something, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6815 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - Ok,i have been in a relationship for the last 4 years. When i met my partner i thought he was the one and couldnt ever imagen being with anyone else (bare in mind i was only 17 at this point)anyway over our time together we have had ups and downs ...

My boyfriend is slowly deleting me from his life, What can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6815 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating and we exchanged the I love yous and he told me he was falling in love with me more and more each day and he would be so upset if we didn't get to talk. We talked everyday for hours on end and everynight when he would ...

How can I stay in my ex's life, just in case for the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6807 days ago

25 April 2006 (M) - My ex broke things off with me. Does anyone have stories of reconciliation after being broken up for a while, and the either one or both parties saw differnet people? I love my ex girlfriend more than anything, but she's seeing someone else at ...

We broke up and he tells me I am too large for sex. Should I believe him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up.. It's kinda a long story so I won't get into it. Part of our problem was sexual. He started by saying that I am super hot..the hottest girl he has ever been with. He would watch me in the shower, masterbate while ...

I need space from my girlfriend AND there may be someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

25 April 2006 (M) - So, I need a little bit of advice...hope you can help!!! I've been with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years (i'm 25 and she's 22) and we've started to buy a house (nothing official yet) but i've come to realise that i might not be able to live with her...

He's confused about our relationship and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6815 days ago

25 April 2006 (F) - Hi, i've been in a relationship for almost 4 years and now we've started to discuss whether we're going to make a further step, e.g. marriage, or not. My boyfriend (34) is concerned that we're quite different and he's not sure if we would be happy ...

How do I cope with being dumped..by text! Any suggestions to get over this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - im so upset i can't function, I can't get my head around why derek suddenly out of the blue, dumped me, we were getting on lovely and he had planned next weekend to pick me up and take me to his and spend the night together. We saw each other fri ...

He went round his exs to see his son and now hes dumped me. What should i do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - Saw D on fri evening, we had a great time, he said he'd ring me sun, when he came back from visiting his son. We had also planned for the first time for me to go over and stay this sat night coming. I text him sat evening just to say Hi, but he ...

I pushed her away and finally dumped her but it is hurting my heart not to be able to hold her!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

24 April 2006 (M) - Here's the situation, I've been dating a girl for 8 months and I pushed her away by making her feel like other things in my life were more important, such as my job. I also talked to ex-girlfriends and said that that was important to me. At the ...

I lied about my first kiss, now I have told him and hes dumped me. Will he ever trust me again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

24 April 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old and have been dating my boyfriend, 22, for almost a year and a half. This is the first and only relationship either of us has had. We were both very inexperienced and have had a lot of "firsts" together. About three months i...

All we do is argue, Is there hope for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind who is 15 years older than me for 3 years- i moved to another part of the country with my daughter to be with him, he has severe sexual problems (premature ejaculatuon) we do nothing but argue and i am feeling like do ...

In love with my ex, Will her rebound guy work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

23 April 2006 (M) - I'm deeply in love with my ex and believe she is the one. She was the one who broke things off and I don't know how she feels about me anymore. She is currently in a relationship ( a rebound that I can't imagine lasting but I'm scared that it ...

My girlfriend is catholic and won't sex before marriage because of it. I don't feel the same.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

23 April 2006 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and i (both 20) have been together for just over 3 years now and we've hit a pretty big problem. She is Catholic and has a problem with sex before marriage. I am not Catholic so right now in the relationship my feelings are tell...

Should I dump my boyfriend before or after this holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

23 April 2006 (F) - my bf treats me like a slave, it used to be good but hes showing his true colours he is a sponger and has no respect for me. but i was out last week and a guy was flirting rith me and i spoke to him and he treated me like a human being, he is a ...

Children cant accept our family is breaking up, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6816 days ago

22 April 2006 (F) - Hi - I am so low and I just don't know what to do My wife and I seprated in last year although we only told the kids it was permenant a few months back and they have now started spening time over night at my house My son was in initially ups...

Boyfriend prefers to party than see me, What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

22 April 2006 (F) - Why he did not pick up my phone when he was in a bar? I have been dating this guy for 7 month already, after Feb., we had a committed relationship. I turned down all of other guys and wanted to be with him with all my heart. He is a big party...

Should I wait for him, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6819 days ago

21 April 2006 (F) - my long distance boyfriend of eight months broke up with me after i got tired of driving 10 hours per weekend and insisted he decide how he felt about me. I got the I love you but i am not in love with you and that was it....i thought. 2 months ...

If someone splits up with you, but still comes back for a bit of the other, are they using you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

21 April 2006 (F) - if a bloke you've been seeing tells you he doesn't want to be with you,yet keeps coming back knowing full well that u love him to bits,and you cant keep your hands off each other is he just using you or too scared to face his true feelings...

I know he doesn't love me so how do I stop obssessing over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6819 days ago

21 April 2006 (F) - i met a man last year and fell in love. we both loved each other and had some wonderful intimate moments together. he was the first man i ever slept with. few days later he moved back to him hometown and we stayed in touch afterwards. it was a long ...

We broke up out of the blue and now she seems so cold...is this the zoloft??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

20 April 2006 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend of three years have broken up suddenly..she says she wasn't happy anymore..although i know there might have been reasons for this..it was so out of the blue and in about 3 days after the breakup , she started saying "things ...

What do I do to get her back? She means sooo much to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6814 days ago

20 April 2006 (M) - My relationship is on the rocks... My girlfriend is confused about our relationship becoz one of her friends proposed to her. I know it all my fault coz i was never there for my girl when she needed me and now i have realised my mistake and i am...

We broke up over men at my workplace but while we were apart I replied to an email and my bf found out and is mad!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

20 April 2006 (F) - My serious boyfriend and I broke up briefly for a week, he was somewhat jealous and had a hard time with me working around other men. When we were together I had an e-mail from another guy business related. I didn't respond to the e-mail and told...

How do I get over my husband leaveing me for somebody else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

20 April 2006 (F) - My husband of 21 yrs left me for someone else just before christmas and i feel so lonely and unloved how do i begin to get over it? ...

I just have this deep feeling in the pit of my heart and soul that we are supposed to be together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

19 April 2006 (F) - Hi, first let me say that this question is going to be a really long one in order for you aunties to understand. I will try to make it as brief as possible. I was with a guy for three years. Three years of which, one we lived together and the...