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He went round his exs to see his son and now hes dumped me. What should i do??

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Question - (24 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2006)
A female , *oucie writes:

Saw D on fri evening, we had a great time, he said he'd ring me sun, when he came back from visiting his son. We had also planned for the first time for me to go over and stay this sat night coming. I text him sat evening just to say Hi, but he didn't reply. So I waited patiently for him to ring on the sun eve. I decided in the end at 8pm id ring him as i had a quiet moment, there was no answer, so i just left a breif message. He then text back at 8.30pm saying he was still at his ex's house.

I thought that was strange. later in the evening I text back, saying, that I had text him sat and he never replied and he didn't call tonight and I think we need to talk. He then text me back saying " I was at my exs last night and im still here. Harvey is not well and im staying here until he is better. I think also maybe it's best we split as you keep on about how i don't care. Im sorry it's ended like this but Harvey will always come first. Please don't ring me or text me again, thankyou"

Ive known D since Sept last year, he always said he would tell me if he didn't want to see me but not by text. It doesn't sound like him. I have left a couple of messages but he doesn't respond. He always said we could still be friends if anything happend between us. Im so distraugt, we also got on so well. What should i do????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006):

He is still in love with his ex and of course his son. You was more like a rebound. And usually rebounds don,t work out. Stop pining and move on.

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A female reader, Aunt Audrey United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2006):

Aunt Audrey agony auntLet him get on with it, he's obviously made his choice.

Finishing with you by text was a cowardly thing to so, but he obviously doesn't want the hassel of you calling and texting him while he's at his ex's, sounds like somethings going on there. Of course his son should come first, he's ill and needs him, but if his ex is an ex a call to you to explain wouldn't have been too much to expect.

Find someone that knows what they want in life, this guy doesn't!

Good luck!

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