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writes: My boyfriend and I were dating and we exchanged the I love yous and he told me he was falling in love with me more and more each day and he would be so upset if we didn't get to talk. We talked everyday for hours on end and everynight when he would go to work, he would call me on his breaks. He was even going to move closer to me and we were eventually going to move in together. He was going to give me a key and everything. He even told me he saw us together for the long haul. Then this past thursday we talked in the afternoon, time for the call during his break and nothing. I txt msged him, nothing. Friday, I called him twice, no answer. Saturday, I called him and left a voicemail, no call back. Sunday, called and left another voicemail, asking what was going on, and still nothing. It went from being perfect to him slowly deleting me out of his life. He has even blocked me from two instant messanger services. What is going on? I'm heartbroken and I dont know what to do. I just want some resolution to this. All I think about is him to the point where I can't even sleep or eat. I'm so upset, someone please help me.
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reader, jimmy2  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 Hi,
I know exactly the way you must feel. It breaks my heart to hear how he has blocked you out of his life for no apparent reason. It would devastate me if my girlfriend did this and I would NEVER ever treat someone like this. If I'd fallen out of love with them I would tell them and end things there and then. The fact that he has not done this means that he is a coward and you deserve better. Get over him in whatever way you feel you can and however long that takes, speak to sympathetic friends, release all of your emotions and move on. I hope this helps
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reader, loucie +, writes (25 April 2006):
My boyfriend text me out of the blue on sunday and dumped me for no reason, I saw him fri and we were perfectly ok, he tells me not to contact him at all. I know what you mean by just wanting an explanation to WHY!! . So you have tried calling, what about calling him on another mobile, so he may pick it up as he won't recognise the number, or put 141 infront of your number and call him.You have done all you can. Could you call round to his house and see whats going on? I always find writing worries and concerns down on paper, even write him a letter, put everything in it thats bothering you about him, you don't have to send it. Its a great therapy. Maybe there is a genuine reason why he isn't calling or can't call. You have done your best, see if he does respond back, he may do yet. If he doesn't then you have to move on, it wasn't meant to be. I hope ive helped you sweet heart.
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (25 April 2006):
 I don't think he's going to worry much about you unless you stop paying attention to him. Then see.
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