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writes: my long distance boyfriend of eight months broke up with me after i got tired of driving 10 hours per weekend and insisted he decide how he felt about me. I got the I love you but i am not in love with you and that was it....i thought. 2 months after the break up he is telling me that he loves me, but that he has issues to work out. He is not asking me to, but am i being a glutton for punishment if I stay in his life hoping that he will realize I am the one for him? Or should i cut the strings and move on as quickly as possible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): It's hard for long distance relationships. Those that I have known would work out are those with strong spiritual and emotional bonds - very defined resolutions to doubts, and very refined maturities in the growth of the connections that hold two people together so far apart from each other.
The key factor as many should know in a long distance relationship is about wide-variety communication. This doesn't JUST include emailing every day, texting, and phone calls. There are many criteria's that must be met naturally and with ease, even if it may be difficult to see/feel positive results.
If your relationship with him isn't mature enough and haven't been growing and bonding enough - despite 'being in love' supposedly, then I suggest you leave and go on with your life.
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