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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Is it worth trying again in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - How do i know if it is worth trying again with my relationship? I am in the process of splitting with my girlfriend of 6 years! In the begining we were amazingly intense and together, over the past year we are really having troubles, since ...

Can I trust him not to cheat again next time we argue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I had been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years. He has cheated on me twice. Once when we very first started seeing each other with his ex, and last weekend with some girl he didn't even know and can't remember what she looked like. We had, h...

I want to start again with him. How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - I am in college and there is this boy. He went to my comprehensive and we went out for a while in the last year of school for about three months. We broke up but I still love him and he still likes me. What should i say to him?...

She broke up with me and says she doesn't want anyone. Can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - My girlfriend just recently finished me on tuesday, and I haven't got over it. Every day everything seems to remind me of her. we are both only only young but I feel so strongly for her but she says that she wants to spend the rest of her life ...

He dumped me because I questioned his drinking... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he is 53 i am 47 am. I'm in love with him but have found out he is an alcoholic and a drug user. He hid it so well, but 4 mths ago he got hepetitus and went yellow he stopped drinking but i really t...

He broke up with me, when all I wanted was a break.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6913 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Hey, Iv'e been w/my BF for almost 2 years now. The first 3 months we had a lot of love and affection until a cop caught us making out at a nearby park in our car, Matt - my bf - stopped making out with me since then, and I moved to Florida ...

She says she loves me so she "wants me to go"..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7204 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - My family are moving to australia, so me and my fiancee decided to go look at flats etc and found one. But to cut a long story short,we were arguing a lot for nothing and she developed this sudden attitude change and felt the need to go out all the ...

When I came back, I thought things would be different, but they're just as bad now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - How do I know if I made the right desision? I have been in a 7 yr relationship. We both had a child each when we met and have since had 2 together. I recently left him for almost 3 months, taking my belongings and all that I owned, along with the 3 ...

We married in January, but I'm in love with somebody else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - I need help. I'm married but I don't love him. I'm in love with someone else. I have two kids and need to tell the man im married to I don't love him, but we just got married in Jan. please help me ...

She went back to her ex, but I know she loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7178 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - I'm 38yrs, met a girl of 21 yrs a few months ago, was worried about age gap but once I got to know her it was'nt a problem. I fell madly in love and believed she had too, everything was going great. However she did have a recent ex, after a few we...

Can we fix the relationship after I cheated on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - Dear cupid I recently cheated on my girlfriend of four years! For a while she went through a state of depression. She had been cheated on in every relationship before me, and i was supposed to be diffrent! I dated the girl I cheated on her wi...

My bf left when I wouldn't tell my dad about his race...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7143 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 5 months who I love dearly has just left me. I have met his mum & Dad but he hasn't met my Dad yet. He lives away from me and we both have no cars, so I would always stay at his weekends. He is half Jamaican and my father is Itali...

We broke up after I slept with someone else, but I want him back, badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7211 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - i have been in a relationship for three years, recently we broke up, due to me sleeping with somebody else. However, i do truly love this person with all my heart. It has been six weeks since we have broken up, and i want to get back with him...

She didn't waste time finding another guy. Do I forgive her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - Hi. I've been with my gf for 2 years now and we broke up a few weeks ago, but on valentines day we decided that we both love each other and were going back out. Since then I found that day we broke up she went out with another boy. They broke up the ...

How can I miss him when he won't go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7191 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I have been going out with a man who works at the same place as me since July 2004. He recently told me that he was an illegal immigrant and is using a false passport. He has done nothing wrong to me but I don't want to go out with him anymore....

I feel I overreacted to his texting someone else. Now I want him back, but he says it's too late.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6105 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - February last year having convinced a friend to do a fringe show, through his cast I met a gorgeous, genuine, guy; we instantly clicked and fell in love. We had wonderful dating time together, talked endlessly and just got on well. My employment and ...

Did we break up..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - I was with my boyfriend for a year we moved in together & last week we broke up. He said he was going to sleep in the living room until he found some whereelse to go but he hasn't hes been sleeping in the bed with me. Everything is like it was w...

Should I stay or should I go..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7217 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - At what point in a relationship do you go begin to follow your head and not your heart? How do you know when it is the right time to give up on a relationship?...

Six years together and we have a child, but I don't feel a spark any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I am having problems in my relationship. I have been with my partner for 6 years and just don't seem to have any feelings left for him. But the main problem is we have a baby. I need help and advice on what to do. ...

It "isn't the right time" to get back together. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7216 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - Hi there, I've just split up with my girlfriend after 5 months. It was a mutual agreement to split but now after three weeks I've realised I've made a terrible mistake and want her back. The thing is, she says at the moment it isn't the right ti...

He might be seeing someone else, but then, so might I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7029 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - HELP!! I'm currently in a relationship and have been for two years. But I have my suspicions that he is cheating on me. He recently said to me he needs his own space and doesn't want to see me as much! But to be honest I'm not that bothered ...

He'll be back in six months. Do I take him back then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend left and went to Virginia. We broke up, but he said he is willing to get back with me in when he comes back in 6 months. What should I do? ...

Why did things turn so cold between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6910 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. He graduated from college last December and moved away while I tried to stay behind without him and finish my schooling like I had always intended. Well, I was lost without him. I ...

Did I drive him away... and can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - Me n my boyfriend were togther for about 6 months. I love him so much and he feels the same. A lot of things have happened to me the last year and I sank further and further into depression, things such as a miscarriage and my grandma getting and ...

As soon as we slept together, he said I was "too close" & dumped me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7219 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - When I started working in my job about 4 years ago, there was a guy who tried it on with me, as I'm married and I hardly knew him I brushed it off,but then he became really nasty towards me. This carried on for about a year, I didn't know why as I ...

If she's "lost without me" why did she dump me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7220 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - I have not been going out with this girl for very long but we are madly in love and can't go one day without speaking to each other. A few days ago we had a really romantic night with lots of kissing and she said she is lost without me. We are plan...

We broke up & she dragged my professional reputation through the mud. So why do I still care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7221 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - A girl from work and I were in a relationship for 6 months. For a time, we thought we were in love. For various reasons, however, we agreed about 3 weeks ago to stop seeing one another. In practice, that has not been difficult, as we work for a ...

My girlfriend's behaviour is confusing, but I want her back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6908 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - Approximately 3 months ago my girlfriend finished our relationship after almost 4 years together. Although we lived apart, this never seemed a problem, and we had a very loving relationship. She is 29, and I am 38. She says that she develope...

Do I take my husband back, even though I'm in a better relationship now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7219 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - I have been married for five years. My husband has walked out on me three times. This last time I had enough, we've been separated now almost a year and he wants me back. Meanwhile, I met a great guy who buys me things and treats me like I'm someone ...

Should I stay with my great girlfriend, or keep looking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

11 February 2005 (?) - Hi, so I've been seeing this great girl for a year and a bit. We get along great and have fun, but recently I've become unsettled, and interested in a few people around me. I'm now getting to the stage where I'm becoming worried about what I ...

He says 7 years was wasted with me. Is it worth saving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7101 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend seem to argue a lot and he left yesterday. I just rung him to sort things out and he said he's wasted the last seven years on me and he's not wasting anymore. Should I keep trying to sort things out with him or leave him alone?...

He's unreliable and says he he doesn't want to get serious...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7222 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - I am seeing a bloke on and off, he says he will phone and text but never does. He told me a few weeks ago that he does not want to see me anymore and after 2 weeks of not hearing from him he starts phoning me up, he told me once that he does not...

Moved 200 miles to be with him, now he tells me he he had an affair with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6904 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - I met my partner 9 months ago and fell head over heels. I moved in with him in September 04 and then he told me that he suffers from serious depression problems that ended up being incredibly hard to deal with, hence massive rows and upset. T...

Don't like the way he treats me & not sure I'm in love... Is it worth keeping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend Ben for 14 months now. I am only 15 and I have fallen out of love with him due to the way he treats me. I know I do not treat him as well as Icould but he has hit me a few times. I have stuck by him through ...

Feel I've picked the wrong man, and now he won't leave me alone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7222 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Please help! I am so confused. I had been with my ex, J, for nearly two years and felt true love. However we changed over time and I felt I wasn't happy anymore. I left him for another man who was giving me everything I missed. It broke J's hear...

Would my ex drop hints if she wasn't interested in getting back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7224 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - My ex is with someone else, and she keeps hinting about doing things together with me maybe one day. She seems like she wants to keep in contact any way she can. Is there a chance of getting back together? And is she on the rebound with the other ...

I stick around even when I'm lukewarm. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7224 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I am seeing this lovely guy for the past 3 months. I do care about him a lot, but that's all. I went out with a guy for a year because I didnt want to hurt him by saying I didn't want to see him any more. Why do I stay with someone that I really d...

Not in love any more, but feel guilty for leaving

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7225 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I cant have sex with my boyfriend anymore. im in love with another man but i feel guilty about leaving my boyfriend. he will be devastated....

He doesn't want commitment or a girlfriend. Am I either one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7226 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I've been seeing this guy for over 3 months now and before this we were good friends for two years. His divorce has only just come through although he has been seperated for a few years and he has one child. Everything has been great between ...

We started off hot, but in six months it's gone cold...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I met my girlfriend last year on holiday & we hit off immediately. In fact it is very fair to say that in the beginning she was far keener than me....she did most of the chasing & was the one that asked me out. The first 4 months were fantasti...

When my ex keeps coming back, I can't get over him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7220 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - i have been separated from my partner for 6 months now after an 8 year relationship. my ex has had several partners during the split but comes back to me in between. i think i still love him because i always give in when he comes back. he says he ...

I see him every day since we split, but he says it's over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7226 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - i went out for a nite out with all my freinds and big brother. One of my big brothers freinds came out with us. We had a realy good nite and on the way home me, my brother and his freind got a taxi. Me and mr x was in the back and we started ...

Until he gets "closure" with his ex, he won't give me a chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7008 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago, as he is still in love with his ex and wants time to get over her. They were together for 7 years and were engaged, but she slept with someone else and he fininshed things with her about 7 ...

It hit me what a crappy boyfriend I've been... How do I prove I won't hurt her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7065 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I went out with (we'll call her marie) for about a year, but the last three months I started to get more distant to the point where I just wanted out. I would begin to go off on weekend breaks with mates and expect her to put up with it. Then...

My girlfriend made me promise to stay, then dumped me for her boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6901 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I met a girl through work. We were both in relationships. Over time we became very close, and the inevitable happened and we started an affair. At first we met for an hour after work, then progressed to spending our days off together. Over time we ...

Lost interest in my ex, now I'm going out with his best mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I was going out with someone for nearly 1 year. We broke up and 6 months after got back together. After another year we got back together. We was really close but I didn't see myself as his girlfriend for life and I knew if I spent the rest of my ...

Want to split with my boyfriend me, but he doesn't get it, even after 3 tries!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7223 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend used to be so happy and I loved him so much, but I moved away to be with my family. I'm only an hour away by car yet he's never come to see me. I don't drive so it takes me longer to get there by train and more expensive but I go ...

Tired of life with my boyfriend. How do I get him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7225 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - Well I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years and for the past year the relationship has been going downhill but I can't see a way out. You see iI met him when I was still in care and fell in love with him straight away. Before long we ...

We're cheating on our partners and I love him, but we've been sprung!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7224 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - Well about three and a half years ago I moved to my new home with my boyfriend where I met the local caretaker in which I took a liking to but didn't pursue with anything or do anything about it until about a year ago when we started seeing each ...

She's drifting away from me. What happened to our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7227 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I fell in love recently and the person loved me equally. She wanted to change some things about the relationship, which was for the best. Then after the change she felt differently and said she had to try to hard to love me. She is so special to me ...