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writes: Well I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years and for the past year the relationship has been going downhill but I can't see a way out.You see iI met him when I was still in care and fell in love with him straight away. Before long we had a council place but now I want to get out, but with no friends or family that is like chucking myself onto the streets.What can I do to get out of this relationship as soon as possible as he's refusing to leave, saying he has the right to be in that house as much as I have, as both of our names are on the tenancy agreement. So with no work of any kind or income I'm basically stuck and need your help. What can I do?Can you please point me in the right directions just to start me off please and thank you.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, R.C., writes (8 February 2005): Have you completely exhausted your options regarding council housing and the like, or even trying to work things out with your partner? You say you have no income - have you tried finding work of any kind? I'm afraid there may not be any quick fix solutions to this one. Finding work will be an important step for making friends etc - a person can't get far without support from people other than your partner, as I'm very aware you don't need telling. I'm sorry my advice isn't providing you with a way out as quickly as you'd like, but I wish you the best of luck, and remember that you need to surround yourself with people you can trust and rely on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2005): hi there, first of all you need to be able to get it in yr mind that you can do it on yr own. no one else is going to make that important decision, sure others can offer advise, but at the end of the day, u need to put a step down. why dont u try to look for a work first, im sure once u r able to support yr own self, u can alwys move out. u will meet new friends and all and u will feel better..get out before yr life is a hell .
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