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writes: At what point in a relationship do you go begin to follow your head and not your heart? How do you know when it is the right time to give up on a relationship? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (16 February 2005):
I think you would need to consider giving up on a relationship when you really can't see a future together. You need to think about how you really feel for the other person and whether it is genuinely reciprocated. Is the relationship evenly balanced? Is there enough affection and love or is it just a habit you may be too frightened to break?It takes a lot to branch out on your own but sometimes it is better than flogging a dead horse. You have to also consider how the other person feels, whether they think there is any future for the both of you. Can you be persuaded by what they think?Sometimes it is a case of loving someone but realising that no matter how hard you try, it just isn't going to work because either they won't change or circumstances won't alter. You could be happy with someone else but you have to give yourself the chance to find that out.I hope this helps.
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