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writes: i have been in a relationship for three years, recently we broke up, due to me sleeping with somebody else. However, i do truly love this person with all my heart. It has been six weeks since we have broken up, and i want to get back with him more than anything in the world. I feel lost without him, and i feel like something is missing, I've tried telling him how i feel, but he says he is not going to get back with me out of pity. When i ask him if we have a chance even if it's a little one, then let me know, he says he don't know. He is having the time of his life without me, well that's what he tells me, and he hardly ever calls me, but when i don't call or text him, he tries to get hold of me. I dont know what to do to repair our broken relationship, i feel that he's my soul mate and I am willing to wait, however, this is killing me. I dont know what to do to show him that we are meant to be together, no matter how hard i try. i try not to think of him, and tried to convince myself that i was over him but i do miss him and im not over him. I want to be with him and I know that deep down. What should i do? because i cant take this any more.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Emma, writes (22 February 2005): Hello my dear.Your ex partner is feeling very hurt, betrayed and confused. He may be thinking "Do I love her" "Dont I love her". You have to understand that you broke his trust and his heart. You cannot build a relationship without trust.Try getting him to meet you. Give him a reason as to why you cheated. Tell him what ever it is he want to know, because he is intitled to it.At the same time you have to ask yourself why you cheated, did / do you love him as much as you say / think you did? You have to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with any one else.Call him, and ask him is he would like to meet for a drink, or in a cafe. at yours etc, all you can do is try, but dont act suprised if he needs time as he is licking his wounds. Try and come to an understanding.I hope it all goes well, but if you do get back together, he will take a long time to learn to trust you again.
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