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writes: I met my partner 9 months ago and fell head over heels. I moved in with him in September 04 and then he told me that he suffers from serious depression problems that ended up being incredibly hard to deal with, hence massive rows and upset. Then on Sunday night (Feb) he informed me that all along he has been seeing his ex, as she gives him more emotional support than me. He has admitted having a affair with her for a while and has since moved out. He says he has not decided whether or not to live with her again yet, and is staying in a bedsit. I don't want him back, I'm not that stupid, but I moved 200 miles down country to be with him and every friend I have is back up north. I'm also left renting a property that my wages won't cover and credit card debt. I have a good job, but I'm terrified, lonely and can't envision my future at all. I am so hurt that I can't eat and can't stop crying. I have been off work to try and get my head straight. I'm 46 so should have known better, but I feel as if my life has just stopped, I'm so shocked by it all. Why was he so cruel?
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reader, princeess1111 +, writes (27 December 2005):
Sometimes men are just cruel.Trust me he is so not worth it.Leave him and go bac.Go to work and get back to buisness.There are plenty of men in this world.He took advantage of you and that's not fair.He isn't worth it.
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