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writes: I need help. I'm married but I don't love him. I'm in love with someone else. I have two kids and need to tell the man im married to I don't love him, but we just got married in Jan.please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, roxy09  +, writes (27 July 2010):
I do know its hard...i feell the same way...i love my husband ,however we just rushed in...and cannot bare the thought of never seeing my ex long distance lover again....its hard...
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reader, AnnalovesJrock +, writes (18 August 2008):
 I totally understand you. I'm married to a NICE man for 4 years, I felt I had to marry him back then. I've learned to live with him but I fell inlove with someone else. I figured either or we'll hurt one of them. Though call. Sometimes I wish you can teach the heart how to love the person you married to or teach the heart to stop falling... you're no alone...
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 February 2005):
 I wander why you got married when you were in love with someone else? Did you feel pushed into marriage?Whatever the reasons, I am assuming you no longer wish to remain married. You will have to tell your husband in as tactful a way as possible. This will cause a lot of pain however.You could take the easier way out and write him a letter or you could try to talk to him and write him a letter also as you may find yourself unable to express everything you want to. Your husband will probably become angry and upset. In a quieter moment he can read your letter.Perhaps you could explain that you made a mistake and you feel your marriage isn't likely to work. I don't know whether it is wise to include the other man in this, perhaps not. That would have to be up to you. Suggest that you will have to live apart and how sorry you are for this happening. Explain how you do care for him but that you aren't in love with him.This isn't going to be easy but I'm afraid you will have to be direct.Good luck.
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