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writes: Hey, Iv'e been w/my BF for almost 2 years now. The first 3 months we had a lot of love and affection until a cop caught us making out at a nearby park in our car, Matt - my bf - stopped making out with me since then, and I moved to Florida for a couple months where Matt came and visit me and we had so much fun and made out. I ended up comming home sooner than expected 'cause I was realy sick and he took realy good care of me. We made out for a couple months after I arived home, than he once again stopped. Matt and I took a break from each other a year ago and that helped our relationship. A year later-now- we are once again starting to have problems. He wont communicate w/me and he wont show any affection, Iv'e talked to him about it, but he won't tell me why he doesnt make out with me. Hes a virgin, Im not, and he wants to wait till marriage which I respect. He tells me he really loves me, and I know he does, Im his first love and he means the world to me. Last week I felt realy stressed out because of midterms and because Im taking my last classes for my associates degree. So, I told him I needed the week to myself and I would talk to him the next weekend when we hang out w/our friends. I guess he got upset about that and told everyone but me that he was going to call it off with me that weekend. Thats not what I wanted, I just need a break to get through school which gets done in April. I love him so much and told him breaking up w/him is the last thing I wanted. What should I do? please help Michelle
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reader, Sarita +, writes (17 December 2005):
 You must talk to him, and ask him the real reason why he wants to break up, because it can't be the time out you asked for. Be gentle, and make him tell the truth.
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