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If she's "lost without me" why did she dump me?

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Question - (13 February 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I have not been going out with this girl for very long but we are madly in love and can't go one day without speaking to each other.

A few days ago we had a really romantic night with lots of kissing and she said she is lost without me. We are planning to go out and everything's going fine but just before we go out she tells me on MSN messenger that it would be better if we are just friends. I ask the reason why she is dumping me but says there is no reason.

I don't believe her because there has to be a reason. I don't think that she has found someone else or anything but it may be because we live far apart and dont see enough of each other but I really don't know!

Please try and solve the mystery of why she left me and do you think that there is a possibility I can get her back?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2005):

Hi..I feel bad for you..you had genuine feelings for her. Anyone who would e-mail you with that information is not a caring person. Some people are shallow and enjoy the chase. They are incapable of really caring for another person. Only she can solve the mystery of why she did what she did. But, why would you want to pursure someone who evidently is flighty. There are a lot of other women out there..some genuine ones. Better to have a good friend close-by to here you live, someone "real"..where you could have a growing, caring relationship. goodluck

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A reader, Sarah, writes (13 February 2005):

Dear If she's lost,

I hate to say it, but your girlfriend wasn't worth it at ALL. In other words, she wasn't "the one." Just tell yourself that you are better off without her.

I can assure you that one of these days, someone is going to come along and they are going to love you with all their heart and soul and stay by your side no matter what.

Best wishes,

Sarah

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