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writes: My ex is with someone else, and she keeps hinting about doing things together with me maybe one day. She seems like she wants to keep in contact any way she can. Is there a chance of getting back together? And is she on the rebound with the other guy?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (9 February 2005):
 I think she could be keeping her options open and trying not to burn any bridges along the way.Perhaps she is trying to figure out whether it will work with this guy but because she has a few doubts, is keeping you in the wings.Obviously she still has feelings for you but she isn't being entirely fair on either you or the man that she is with. I wonder if he is aware that she is keeping in contact with you. Perhaps you need to ask her this. Also, maybe you need to suggest to her that she should really choose between you and the other guy because she is being unfair and that you would like to get back with her. I am assuming that you do want to get back with her but you must also ask yourself whether you want to be with someone who may or may not deceive you also in the long run. I'm not saying she is doing this purposely but you must make her aware of how unjust the situation is. She needs to be true to herself.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2005): Your ex is obviously confused and, frankly, immature when it comes to affairs of the heart. It sounds like she wants everyone to adore her unconditionally and then, when they do, she pushes them away. Every female goes through this stage of wanting men to want her, but then pushing them away when she gets them. Thankfully, most females grow out of this stage. I think your ex has low self esteem and doesn't value herself. If you feel torn and attempt to get her back, just remember how it will look to others around you... you'll come off looking desperate and Evil. Not just evil, but Evil.
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