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writes: i have been separated from my partner for 6 months now after an 8 year relationship. my ex has had several partners during the split but comes back to me in between.i think i still love him because i always give in when he comes back. he says he still loves me and it's always him coming back to me, but then he goes off with someone else again. i have to go through the pain of letting him go again. when i don't see or hear from him i'm fine but he keeps coming back and my feelings for him return as strong as they were when we first broke up. what should i do? do you think he still loves me? could this work? I have two children with him and would love to be a family again but if he's not gonna change i need help getting over him. please help i am on antidepressants but feel they're not working. thankyou
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, brutal but truthful, writes (13 February 2005): You really need to forget him. You cannot let him do this to you, you need to get a grip on the situation and tell him that it's all or nothing. It's not just you who you need to consider, you have children to consider. If they think their father is returning every time he fancies a bit on the side it will affect them badly. Get some independence and you won't need any antidepressants; the satisfaction that you are doing the best for your children will be enough.
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