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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How to bounce back and move on after lots of disappointment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - In late October/early November 2012, I ended things with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years. To be honest it was an up and down 4 years where he cheated on me and I worked to forgive him only after I did and fell in love with him again he still ...

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. I...

How can I look out for my foster son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I fostered a child three years ago, and the child is now 6. He was abandoned by his parents when he was a baby. I got him before I got married. Am now married and my husband has had a hard time accepting the boy. He is just plain cold towards him, ...

How should I handle this situation at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - How should I handle this situation with these girls? So I recently got a new job and the girls I started with dont really talk to me and aren't friends with me like they are with each other. Today one of them started talking to me about...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2

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28 June 2013 (M) - Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2 Separation does not automatically lead to divorce unless you let it. It is up to you and your partner to put in the work so that it does not happen. In the event you are the only one trying to work on yourself and ...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

My Ex asked me to marry him. I am happy but why do I feel nervous at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a middle aged woman who loved this guy sometime ago we were in a relationship on and off for sometime but now our daughter is grown now he is in another state and so am I .Now that we are getting older there are no more babies he ...

Uncomfortable about what happened, should I bring it up or pretend it never happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hello cupids. Last night a family friend asked me to spend the night at his house, his mom whom Im very close with wanted me to stay as well because it would be fun.. I am twenty two and thought it would be a little weird since he is sixteen. He a...

Single, pregnant, and moving out from my parents. Where do I start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - hello everyone, well i am 7 months pregnant and single and soon im going to start my maternity leave as i work full time and i get abut 8.90 an hour. i currently live at home however i would like to get my own place as we don't have enough spac...

Getting extremely depressed over graduating - university feels like home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm on a four-year course and due to graduate uni next year. Before I came to university, my life was completely different (single mother with abusive boyfriends, often had nowhere to stay, no social life at home to speak of). This affected me when ...

She left me because I don't want kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I've been with the same girl for 12 years. She would like to have a baby. I really don't want kids. She has left me now to carry on with her life. It was a really painfull breakup. And I feel really guilty about my choises. She chose me to have a ...

My best friend was molested as a child and has deep emotional issues because it. I'm in love with her, but don't know how to help her. Please tell me what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - I'm struggling with a problem that's destroying me. I'm helplessly in love with my best friend. She's everything I ever wanted in a girl. Unfortunately, she's extremely broken. She was molested on different occasions by her brother and her uncle and ...

Should my friend's children be allowed to walk around nude at the ages they are?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - I have a friend who lets her kids (a boy age 12 and a girl age 8) walk around the house naked. I have watched the kids on occasion, and they had been naked when I got there and their mother never told them to get dressed. Is this a problem? It ...

Is it possible to make somebody love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I've been dating a girl for some time now and I can fairly say that I love her. I've known her for more than 6 years now, but we started dating only recently. We used to be very good friends back in high school and I had a crush on her. I'm 100%...

In love mattesr, should you follow your heart or your gut instinct?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - That's my question really, ii love matters should you listen to your heart or your gut and what do people generally listen to? There is a guy I really like whom iv been friends with for years and we.ve been getting close and talking a lot vi...

Single Mom, please help - why is my daughter behaving like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I am a single mom... I have a daughter who is 13 yrs of age. For the past year her behavior has been really unusal. She walks around the house with a robe all of the time...And its like 80 something degrees, it seems she uses this robe as a clutch s...

Will therapy help me to learn to trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I've just started seeing a therapist as I am suffering from anxiety (chest tightness, nausea, stomach pain, diarreah). Unfortunately all of my energy has been focused on my boyfriend of 9 months. I was emotionally bullied for many years as a child, ...

After 4 years silence and no support, my son's dad and his family want to get involved .... how should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I had my son when I was 17 and his father has never been around. We were not in a relationship, it was more friends with benefits. I wasn't surprised he didn't want to play a part but I was hurt. I struggled like mad, and only this year have I been ...

I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And they talk with their friends about how "hot" these women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I am curious to get a man's perspective on a few things. I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And ...

Benefits of an accounting degree?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - I am currently studying accounting at university. However, I failed two important courses which each add a year to my completion date. Right now I am considering quitting the degree and going to study CIMA or switch to another school and change ...

How do you keep yourself from falling so easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - So the thing with that guy didn't work out. I have a problem with falling too quickly in love or having a huge crush on someone, then it ends up sucking. All the guys I've liked have only liked me for a short period of time or not at all. They lead ...

What does it mean when my mate doesn't sleep in the bed with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4209 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - What does it mean when my mate sleeps on the couch or sometimes living room. When my mate wants sex he would sleep in the bed with me?...

Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it? I'm asking this question in reference to my dream career but I'm interested in all general opinions on this too. Thanks!...

Is marriage the right thing for me to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I just want to share my story and I would Love your opinions. it was about 8 or 9 months ago I was walking into church for a revival when I laid eyes on the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. He was well dressed, the cutest smile with pe...

How can I make him feel more at ease around me after what happened between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I knew this guy two years ago but he didn't give me the time or place. Just recently he contacted me and wanted to be friends. He's been going threw a hard time, so I have a lot of empathy for him and want to be there for him. I have to admit I live ...

She shows no interest in me except pushing her arm against mine when standing close. Is this a sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

18 June 2013 (M) - In my experience, if a woman is interested in me, she flirts heavily with me, laughs at my jokes and all the other usual things. In this case, there is this girl at work who seems a bit cold to me in general and hardly even responds to my flirting. ...

To move or not to move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I yet again turn to you dear agony aunties and uncles. I am a 33 year old women who lives at home with her parents. My family has certain rules that I have to follow, they are not comfortable with me coming home late (my mother basically stays ...

She is projecting her eating disorders on to me. Why would she do something like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I'm truly at a loss at the moment. My girlfriend just told me tonight randomly through a text that I've gained a lot of weight since we met and that she's worried about my health. That she felt she needed to tell me. Thing is, I'm almost 100% ...

What are your opinions when it comes to friends having surgery

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - If someone say an ex girlfriend, someone you're friends with, or know really well got a nose job what would you think of them? Taking into consideration that their nose was bumpy, hooked and too big for their face... Would you think any differ...

I want to lose my virginity with her but will I regret it later because of the circumstances?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm a 26 year old male virgin. I was offered by a air hostess to 'be' with her next week. I do have to pay so she is offering sex as a service. I am seriously thinking about it and was just wondering if I should do it. I just want to get...

HELP! How do I tell my flatmate she rude, without being rude myself???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - Moved into a great new place 3 weeks ago. My new flatmate is a 45yr old Russian and I am 25yr old British, so I appreciate that perhaps there could be a cultural thing with the difference of how things are said/done in our different countries. ...

Am I being too pushy because of my past relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - This is a question related to my other question: Why is it, that when I see a girl I like, she replies back to my message, she texts me, that I go over the top and text her with multiple messages? It's only human nature to try and rush things....

Should I wait until the divorce comes through before I pursue things further with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - After a 6-year wait for a possible relationship, 3 months ago I finally got a reply from the advert I placed on Match.com, one thing I liked that she mentioned in her profile was B movies (and her advert seemed a little keen: it said: if you thin...

I feel like life is dealing me a bad hand and can't see a way out. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - I'm feeling like such a failure in life. The last time I felt truly happy was 8 years ago and I've been dragging on ever since. I graduated highschool early at 16 and back then I saw a bright future. My grades were good and I'd received acceptance ...

Is the friendship platonic or does she see it as something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - Hi just a quick question. Is it possible to have an emotional relationship with a member of the same sex? I am a straight female but lately I have been rather close to a woman who is older than me. She has become a sort of friend, she con...

What is love really meant to feel like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

16 June 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for just over 6 months. This is my first relationship and basically I had no experience prior. In the first few weeks I felt like I was in love, but I thought that it was probably an infatuation and because she's my ...

Would you dump a nice guy that makes too little money?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Im in my early thirties, I have to think about starting a family. I barely make any money and would prefer being a full time mom. I went out on one date with a nice guy that seems interested. He told me his job.... I think he makes very little ...

We want kids, but I'm terrified of pregnancy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - My partner and I are in our late twenties and our relationship is perfect except one thing .. the absence of a child. We both desperately want to start a family, he wants nothing more to be a father and we would start trying immediately if i...

Has she finished our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

15 June 2013 (M) - Over 24 hours ago, I tried to contact my gf four times. Each of those were failures. I called her twice. The first time it rang then went straight to voicemail. The second time it didn't even ring, it went straight to vm. I texted her twice and been ...

Do parents who coddle their kids actually love them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy and everything was going good and it seemed we were becoming serious until I started finding out more about him and his family dynamics. A few months in I found out he lived with his mother (he was 36 at the time). I was ...

No physical attraction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - Can a relationship work if you get on well with a person but don't have much physical attraction?...

My brother's girlfriend is out to get me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, iv got a huge problem with my brothers new girlfriend and i dont no what to do. the bottom line is that she hates me all because of a misunderstanding that she wont forgive me f or. My brother is 21 and she is 39, and has 3 kids, one who ...

The Frank Break Up Formula

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14 June 2013 (M) - The Frank Break Up Formula By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Breaking up with someone is rarely an enjoyable or pleasant experience. In fact, there are those individuals who stay in less than satisfying relationships, and even can go all the ...

Do I end my long term relationship overseas due to homesickness??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I moved from the US to Australia to be with my boyfriend over 2 years ago (he's an Australian citizen). I am currently debating ending my 7 year relationship with him, whom I love very much, because he doesn't want to move back to the states with me ...

My address and personal info is listed online. What should I do? Does it matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - How do I remove online information about myself? I admit that I'm quite the curious person, and have searched many acquaintances by their name and city. All that have come up are social networking websites and old blogs which are harmless. I was ...

My fiance's behaviour with the bosses daughter is out of line

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - My Fiancé is friends with his boss and the boss's wife. I really like both of them, but I noticed that the boss's daughter who is 14 years old has a huge crush on my fiancé. Which is fine and normal but at a group party at the boss's house she would ...

Boss says "I like you" - what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - Since I started working in my office 5 months ago I'm getting along quite well with the director. He's single, 7 years older and always very kind to me. He's very polite but doesn't flirt with me in an offensive way. Some days ago I noticed him ...

My boyfriend is distressed after meeting his birth mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I would appreciate any help you could give me. Here goes: My boyfriend has been searching for his birth mother for years. (She gave him up for adoption and he never met her) A few months ago, with help, he tracked her down. So anyway he met her ...

I don't want to have sex at this point and this upsets my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

13 June 2013 (M) - i have more of a circumstance that i'm unsure how to address rather than just a question. my girlfriend and i have been together for nearly half a year. casually we engage in physical activities but not sex. i can tell just by the way she suggests...