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writes: Over 24 hours ago, I tried to contact my gf four times. Each of those were failures. I called her twice. The first time it rang then went straight to voicemail. The second time it didn't even ring, it went straight to vm. I texted her twice and been over a day without a responce. Its unusual for us to go this long without talking at least once per day. Everything seemed fine prior to this development. Infact, we celebrated our one year anni' just two days before this situation. We made little speeches to eachother about how we were happy we met eachother, that no matter the ups and downs, we wanted to take it to the next level. We were even planning a getaway for her b-day. So i'm extremely confused on whats happening now. Did she dump me??I'm a big boy and she knows she can talk to me about anything. I just don't understand what's going on. I can handle if this is a break-up, what I can't handle is the fact that she ran out on me without saying anything. I believe if someone wants out then all she had to do was say so. Even now, im getting use to the idea of not having her in my life anymore. I think all I really need is that last bit of closure. Some of you guys perspective can help with that.Also, I know some of you will say 24 hours is nothing to worry about. With us it is. She has gotten mad several times before just because I didn't call her when I woke up. So her not replying to a message, even though we talk everyday, is a big deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2013): I would be more concerned that she is safe and well.
You have been dating a year, you contact every day, I would ring her home and check she is ok. Either find out from her or someone, that she is safe. When you know she is. Relax and wait patiently for her to reply. Enjoy the space she is giving you. Use it for yourself.
It is unlikely she would dump you like that. The fact that you think she might is maybe highlighting a fear you have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2013): Nope not yet. She's just mad to you over something. but eventually she will also talk to you if you persist trying to get in touch with her.
I'm not sure what ''s the exact reason why she ignored you.
Perhaps she discovered something she should not know.
Everyone has a dirty little secret. Figure out what's yours.
That could be it. Possibly your getting near end of the road, though.
If your pissed, then just ignore her but its too cold and immature. But its better than arguing. I believe silence means a thousand words. Talk to her.
Good Luck!
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