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Big Questions: Help and advice

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9 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I met this girl a few weeks ago in my course and managed to ask her for lunch one afternoon. We had a nice chat, talking about our families and interests etc. Following lunch she said we should get lunch again the week after, so I asked for h...

I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship! As I get older I get more and more desperate, turning to internet chat sites etc. Please advise me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hello. So I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship. Is that weird? It's not that I don't want one, trust me I do, but it just hasnt happened. Also as time goes on I find myself more and more attracted to men who are older than me by 5 to 30 years...

My step-dad is emotionally abusive to my mother, half sister, and myself. How can I help my mum leave this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need advise desperately! This question isn't really about me it’s about my mum. My parents split up when I was 7, and when I was 9 my mum found someone else. He wasn't really the perfect step-dad for me. I didn’t really like him much, never ...

What female habits do guys find attractive/unattractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - What habits do guys find attractive/unattractive? I know every guy is different, but I'm interested in what guys agree on when it comes to a woman being attractive. I'm interested because certain habits I have annoy some, but interest others,...

I wasn't ready for a relationship after our first date, but now I am ready. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Hello, I asked a girl out about a year ago. She accepted and we started out well. I didn't take the date seriously because I was actually not ready for a relationship at that time. The reason is that it was my first date and it was distracting me ...

My married lover's wife found out about me, so I went over to their house and confronted him. I told her everything, and now he won't speak with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hiya, I'm Sharon, I'm 41 and broken hearted. I was seeing a married man that I've known since school days. He texted me and called me for years. Then last year it became intimate. He is a lorry driver and I'm a door step collector. Our jobs have ...

Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. Should you be honest about your feelings or let the past go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I just have a short question. Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. I am aware that he cannot change it, and perhaps I am over-analyzing or exaggerating things. I am not sure if the answer from him would affect my feelings or not. ...

I found photos of my husband at a big fancy party that he attended without telling me! He said he was going to play pool with friends! I'm I crazy to worry about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My husband went to a birthday party for his friends' wife without me (I knew some of the party attendees, but have not socialized with them in over ten years, not because of a falling out or anything, just because of busy lives). He went to this ...

My Clingy Ex Boyfriend Won't Move On! Please Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay so about 6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. To be honest I should not have gone out with him in the first place, because I only really ever saw him as a good friend, but I was only 16, it was my first long term relationship ...

My best friend took my boyfriend's number from my phone while I was sleeping, and now she's texting him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok I guess I'll just get to the point. There's this guy I REALLY like I even think I might be falling in love with. I will call him “Steve”. I was at my cousin’s house along with three other people (one of which is my very best friend). I showed m...

My boyfriend threatens to hit me, and breaks up with me when he wants to sleep with other girls. He wants me to move in with him. Can he really change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I hope that you can help me. I can't trust my family or friend’s opinion because they're obviously going to take my side. Alright so my boyfriend of a year is asking me to move back with him. I love him very much but he has done so many awful things ...

I don't understand these feelings I am having. I'm don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't know if my feeliings have faded. I need some guidance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help... I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know wha...

I feel like a ghost and my life has been swallowed up by being married, living my wife's dream

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I am in my mid-40's, successful, have a pretty wife, 3 kids - but it feels like I am living someone else's dream, not mine. It seems to me that many, perhaps most, of the men in my situation, at least whom I know are in the same boat. We are living ...

Is he playing mind games like my exes?

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9 March 2011 (F) - Hello, hope you can help me.This may be long so i apologise in advance. I have been with my boyfriend now for just over two months and so far it has been quite a bumpy road... I'd known him for three years previously and we got along well enoug...

My fiance dated his cousin in the past, and I think he is still in love with her. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi! I am 24 years old. My fiancee's past girlfriend is his cousin, and as she is his cousin he is still in contact with her. I think they were in a serious relationship and he has not forgotten her yet. I don't feel loved when he says he loves me. ...

I have an intense urge to wear female clothes when I'm having sex with my girlfriend, but she is fed up with this. I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I’m a 23 year old guy with a very normal life. I have been quite lucky with a number of gals I have had in my life and I’m completely straight. But I have this great urge inside to wear sexy female dresses, and this started during my college days. I ...

I feel my teacher is being two-faced, and she will be writing my resume at the end of the year! How should I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, any help would be appreciated. I'm from Singapore and am currently preparing for my national exams. Recently however, I've come under fire with my civics tutor as I did not inform her about an upcoming service learning event. To make a long ...

I want more of my boyfriend, but he says we can't fall in love. What should I do to be with him more, make him happy, and keep my mind off of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I have my first boyfriend, and I have taken the initiative to maintain this relationship. There is a 7 year age difference between us. He is charming and loving, but insists that I not fall in love with him and that he can’t do the same for me. We ...

This question is for the guys. What does it mean when a guy says "I never meant to...(e.g. hurt you).)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - What is the meaning of "I NEVER MEANT TO"? I thought I knew the meaning of the phrase, “I never meant to”...but now I realise that I don’t. This question is mainly for the MALES. Guys, what is the meaning of the sentence, “I never meant to...(e....

What does this body language mean?

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9 March 2011 (M) - I have a question about body language. What does it mean when a girl stands up with her legs crossed facing the opposite direction? ...

I have a boyfriend, but I kissed my long lost crush. I feel guilty now, and I need advice!

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9 March 2011 (F) - Hi. I am a 24 year old girl. I fell in love with a guy named Anubhav when I was in high school. Neither could I tell him nor was I able to forget him. After high school I lost all his contacts and never found him. 3 years later I went for a ...

He forgot so much, so I ended it, but now I want him back.

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9 March 2011 (F) - Help me please, i just did something stupid. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for five years now. Recently, he started giving excuses with being together. He stopped texting,forgot my birthday and I got paranoid. I asked him why and he ...

My boyfriend is still visiting prostitutes - help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years is still visiting prostitutes despite us both going to counselling and him promising it is in the past. He left his email open recently and I saw a contact in there which was written on a piece of paper last year.... ...

Is he a genuine guy? Or does he just want to get in my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok so their is this guy, we are best friends. Only for the last couple months. I have been very stressed out recently with school and friends, I have panic attacks and stress attacks, and he has really helped by pretty much just being there But in...

Is love for real?? What did you feel the first time you fell in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I wonder if love is real. I mean is it? Seems that we all just end up in bad relationships with people that dont care.. I was wondering what other people felt the first time they fell in love with someone special?...

I have a boyfriend, but I'm crushing on a guy at my new job! Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very ...

How do you know if a boy is jealous?

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9 March 2011 (F) - How do you kow when a boy gets jealous? I have a boyfriend and I was wondering if hugging and talking to other boys makes him jealous? (I hug them because I've known them since preschool and I squeeze them really hard to hurt them. Like playful ...

He doesn't trust me, I'm pregnant, and now every tiny thing turns into a fight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i'm from tennessee, i just moved to new york to be closer to my mom. i met this guy up here, we started talkin and hanging out...ended up gettin serious fast..in the mean time, not ready to settle down i was Texting other ppl also not thinkin ...

I found an email that proved my husband lied. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I had a situation with my husband a while back about a women and some lies that he had told me. We tried to fix the situation as best as we could and moved on with our lives. It still hurts once in a while but I try to not let it bother me...

I am helping to raise a child my girlfriend conceived while we were broken up. She needs me, but I feel used, and want to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So a little history about my relationship. It's been really rocky. My girlfriend and I have never had an easy relationship. We've dealt with a lot of lies and cheating, and we've been on and off for five years. In a month that we broke...

How do I get my friend back? We were friends, then dated for 2 weeks, and then she dumped me! I desperately need some good suggestions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I need help. I have posted a few times on this issue, and I am still mentally and physically destroying myself over it. I'll summarize: We were good friends for a year and a half Ended up dating for 2 weeks (sex included) Had no issues...

I am having an affair with my friend's wife! Is it okay to keep on with this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently ...

I have a boyfriend, but I am falling for a guy in one of my classes! Any thoughts or suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him dearly. We have had our issues and we even broke up once (only for a few days). However, we have managed to form a pretty healthy relationship and we are in a really good place right ...

Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what ...

When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?

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9 March 2011 (F) - In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy ...

My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!

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9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...

My boyfriend is always busy with work! I feel like second place. What should I do?

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9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is always very busy as he runs his own business. While we have had our problems due to him practically ignoring me and backing away from promises we have worked them out. As we always try to communicate our feelings and concerns. T...

Every time I come out of a relationship, I'm never truly happy again until I find somebody else. Why can't I just get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I've not long come out of a relationship that I was very sad to lose. My most recent ex is a lovely girl who made me very happy while we were together, but I must accept that unless a time comes where distance and university are no longer obstacles ...