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Archived questions from: 5 March, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I let him see his son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years has agreed to let his ex-wife move back in with him. she left him and the kids and moved country. he gave up his job to raise the kids. she now wants back into the house and he has agreed for the kids sake to share the ...

I lent my sister's family money when they were suffering, but I feel used and I'm ready to break ties with my family! Am I right or am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My problem is my family (this could be a long one!!). I’m the youngest of three and come from a traditional background. Unlike my elder sister, I rebelled in every sense. I broke boundaries as I refused to be treated differently because I’m a ...

When did I become the shell of who I once was?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - After Google Crome history pointed out to me this evening, that my top visited websites are Lamebook, FMyLife.com and Facebook and that the time I spend on each of them laughing and saying "life could be worse" has just made me realise I should be ...

How can I become a friendly person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - To all the wonderful agony aunts out there with actual life experience, for I have little to none: A friend (by circumstance, not choice) recently told me that I was mean, extremely rude, inconsiderate, etc. and that I need to work on this. Sh...

Recently, I've reunited with a boyfriend after 3 yrs apart. I struggle with the fact that I just can't trust him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Recently, I got back with my partner after a 3 year split. I love him with all my heart, but I don’t trust him. He’s been ringing his ex girlfriend and I don’t know if he’s meeting up with her behind my back. It’s driving me insane. I’m ...

Should I continue to reach out to him, should I give him more space, or should I drop this thing altogether? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - So, I've been seeing this guy for a while. He has extremely low self esteem and thinks that I'm better off without him. He opened up to me last weekend about a number of things, but now he's acting like I don't exist, which is sort of confusing. He ...

Has acting out on our sexual urges (and achieving disappointing results) ruined what might have been a promising friendship? Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - (Disclaimer: Apologies, this might get a little too long and quite detailed, but it's been bothering me non-stop for months.) Last August, I met a 34-year old musician who, it seemed, I shared similar interests with (We got to talking when he sat a...

Has my boyfriend lost interest? If so, how do I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - We've been dating for five months, and our communication has become pretty sparse. For the past week or so, it's become so that if I don't initiate the conversation, we just don't communicate at all for days. And he's always online on his ...

I am developing feelings for a man that I know I can never be with. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hello I hope you will respond. I have a friend, he is 4 years older than myself and we have been friends for four years. However, we are not friends in the normal sense. We have never hung out, gone for coffee, a drink etc. He is a player, he lik...

I want to get married, he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him and want to get married but he won't. Basically at the beginning of our relationship I messed up by talking to my ex and lying about it and now he doesn't trust me. He says he loves me and ...

I'm not a virgin, but I've decided not to have sex again til marriage. This seems to drive men off! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My problem seems kind of funny, so laugh if you want, but I'm getting a bit frustrated. Although I didn't grow up religious, I'd had a rough time in life and turned to the church. This was a few years ago and I'm now a devout Christian, and have ...

I met a guy at a party and we've met up to have sex several times. Now he is ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at a party 6 weeks ago, we chatted for ages and ended up sleeping together. We exchanged numbers and texted each other during the week. At the weekend I went out drinking with friends and ended up sending him a text to meet that night. ...

I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I got pregnant and my parents will kick me out if I don't have an abortion. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hello my name is Jane and I am 18 years old. My parents are from Nigeria and I was born and raised here in Alabama. I am 17 weeks pregnant and my parents want me to get an abortion. I don’t want one, so they are going to kick me out next ...

I don't have concrete evidence, but my gut tells me my boyfriend is cheating! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years has gone from having some porn on is pc to something like 16 porn sites. I don't mind that, but I’ve found him on a dating site. I challenged him and he's no longer on it, but I have a feeling he's cheating on me. Over the ...

Sex toys vs the real thing. Which one is more satisfactory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - Hi people I'm just curious. Sex toys (dildos) and the real thing (penis), which one is more satisfactory?...

How do I deal with betrayal that ruined my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - Hey guys ,why do people hate people? I am thirty. I met different kind of people in my life. I didn't have that many problems with the people that I met. Even if I had, we solved the problem, forgave each other and moved on. Lately I met bad, bad ...

What do girls think of a guy who flirts with a number of girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - Ive been consciously trying to improve my flirting skills with girls. At uni, I went out with a new group of friends and i dunno whether it can be called flirting but i was just basically practicing my teasing and being funny skills on a couple of ...

I have let myself be "molded" into what hubsand wanted in a wife,and now I don't know who I am or how to find me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I am turning 30 in a week. I cant help but look back at my 20's and think the only good that came of them were my 2 kids. My relationship has been more rocky than happy lately. I only have a high school diploma no further education,no job in the ...

How do I increase my sense of security in my relationship??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I am extremely jealous of my boyfriend's ex. We have been going out for a year now and have lived together for 6 months. It all started before we were living together she came to his house at 4 in the morning and made a huge scene cops were called ...

I really want to get this girl's attention, any suggestions??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - There's this girl at school and I try to get her attenden but it never seems to work how could I get her to like me ?...

When I have sexual intercourse I feel nothing, is there anything I can do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I'm 16, and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. He fingers me a lot, and I love it, it feels really good. But when we have sex, I don't really feel anything. Is there anything I can do, or he can do? I'm always on top, does that ...

My boyfriend may be into transexuals, based on a few clues, what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - THiS iS VERY iMPORTANT!!!!!!! i NEED SOMEONES HElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -My boyfriend is very much straight,i believe.Hes such a manly man.but over these passed 5 months ive experienced things that make me think hes somewhat bisexual or maybe has a certain ...

Am I ready to settle down with this girl who's sexually more experienced than me or do I need to go away and have more sexual partners?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - I am in my early thirties. My girlfriend is in her late twenties. She is my first real girlfriend. Sad I know but I just hadn't been in the right places at the right time to meet that somebody special until last year. Basically I am not exactly Mr ...

My boyfriend says I act like a kid, how do I act older??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend says i act like a kid. So how can i act more my age?...