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My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would ...

He accused my son of theft but thats not the only issue..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I love my bf and we have been together on and off for the past 4 years. Recently he is spending a lot of time with me except when he says he is out of the country or business meetings at night. He says he spends time with me to prove to me that...

How do I explain to my parents that even though I am with a man, I still am bi-sexual ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and I am Bi-Sexual. Ive been bi since I was 13. It was rele easy to tell my mother and after telling her I have always told ppl the truth about myself. Though my sexuality was confusing to myself. I was bi ...

Can you really forget your first crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for over 11 years and he used to have a crush on me for a very long time, but I never felt the same although we became best friends! But we haven't spoken for 3 years because I went to Uni and we drifted apart. Up until ...

Why does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want ...

No one knows how unhappy I am. I'd appreciate some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have been feeling very lonely and upset lately. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and everything is fine with him, but in the last while I have become really self conscious about how I look and I feel really awkward around people. I think that people ...

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...

I think I have an eating disorder. It's making me miserable. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hi, i know this site is mainly about advice on relationships but mine is slightly different and i would really appreciate the help on this... ok, so i am worried in case i have an eating disorder. I am constantly thinking about my weight as in an...

I'm not sure how to read my American boss. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I’m a foreign student and working in my university while I am studding, Today I finished my job and it took 5 minutes longer than I suppose to work. I was cleaning my desk and putting the stuff on the places that they should be quickly to go because ...

Do I need space? Or am I subconsciously pushing myself away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months, after an on-off relationship for two years. I am 28 and he is 26. The timing was finally right for us to be together, and we are so in love. He is the one, we already have plans for the future ...

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see peopl...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

I still really love him, I'm just bored, and so is he!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hi im going with my boyfriend for 3 years. we are getting married in 2 years but im finding myself really bored and so is he. we do the same thing everytime im over just sit and watch tv i try and do other thing like asking to go for a walk or go ...

My older friend has put my self-esteem at rock bottom. How do I cope with this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Many thanks to couple of people who responded to my problem of boyfriend looking at other women. I was talking to a male friend who is 64 years old to see whether I am being silly or what. He turned around and said "well, you are very attract...

Confused on this whole stiuation, is he playing mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should...

How to make long distance relationships work. Is this one worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - im from other country but living in india and studying here , i met a girl who was from other country too and she was came here just for visiting . i met her and we talked couple hours about general things , during that i asked her age , and she ...

Am I addicted to masturbating? Will this cause problems for my health? And will it reduce my sexual desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - i want to know if a can masturbation habit reduce sexual desire in males? i am 27 virgin but i masturbate almost daily from age of 14 with watching pornography, but watching porns is voyeurism (peeping tom), which is one of the type of sexual ...

Newly married and unsure what I should be doing when having sex.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I m a newly married person. please tell me when to have sex and whenever I do sex, is it necessary to make her wet and I wanna enjoy more during sex. How is it possible???...

I hate my course and I am homesick, but my family have invested a lot of money into this! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and ...

Why is she behaving like this with her new guy when she never did with me? And will she ever come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Alright so im new to this but here we go. I dated a girl for a month treated her very well as all my friends said always was there for her. I always sent good morning text's. I left her video messages on her facebook. We didn't get to see each other ...

A young, troubled guy, already.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

He feels the situation is ok because we are not married yet, apparently I need the 'wife' status first before he helps me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My fiancé and I were going to get married this year. Then he got a job that involves being away from home for 4 to 6 weeks at a time. He’s been doing this for 5 months now. He only gets paid at the end of each contract. I’ve got to manage our home ...

He wants to keep the baby, but we hardly know each other and I don't want to be a single mom with 2 kids....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - i am pregnant and have told the father, he wants to have the baby but i dont because we barely know each other, i got pregnant on the first time. what should i do? i dont want us to stop being friends but i have a child from my previous marriage and ...

A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. How can I improve my success with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. Okay, I know that clubs are not a great place to meet women, but it has worked for me in the past and I know it works for a lot of guys. I just feel like women aren't att...

Will he think I am not as good in bed because he has been with lots of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - This guy "derek" has always been the hook up type. now he has changed and says he wants a relationship, that he likes me and can see it going somewhere. i know he doesnt just want sex because hes told me he would wait if i asked him to. im not ...

40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men ...

My step father is getting a bit too close! Does he just think I am a child? Is this part of his culture? Or should I tell my mom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hello. I am a fourteen-year-old girl. My widowed mother just recently married again. My stepfather seemed very nice. She's attracted some sleezy men in the past. But he seemed great. I'm an only child and while they were dating, they'd often take me ...

Should I bother with the guy of my dreams, even if I know he's a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I know this is really really long, if you ever even end up reading it, but I literally just spent 3 hours reading your column and I think you're absolutely brilliant and would love your advice. You don't even have to post it, just a reply would mean ...

Embarrassing birthmarks.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - does anyone happen to have a birthmark at certain part of their body where they wouldn't want it to be? i have a strawberry red birthmark on my upper chest, bit lower the neck, and people always mistook it as a hickey. because of the location, it's ...

How do I get rid of these stupid thoughts about something that happened over 30 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a horrible dilemma, probably more medical but I'm even beginning to wonder about that too. I have been married to the same beautiful woman for the past 28 years and been with her for over 32 years. We met when I was 17 and she ...

What do you find attractive? Opinions wanted please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hello :) My question is personal opinion! Feel free to answer! I really have been curious about what everyone is attracted to in a woman physically. Full figure, small hands ext. This is not shallow, and I KNOW personality plays sometimes a bigg...

I care about you vs I care for you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - In a relationship, what is the difference in these 2 statements? "I care about you" and "I care for you" Correct me if I am wrong, but if a man says I care ABOUT you, that is more a friendly statement. BUT I care FOR you, that is meant more...

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working ...