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I'm in love with a married woman, and it is interfering with my life! How do I rid myself of these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I am a guy who has fallen in love with a married woman. I’ve known her since 2003 when I started working at the same organisation as her. I’ll call her Michelle (not her real name). In the beginning I had no interest in her at all. I was in a ...

Is it normal for a man to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"? I would think its okay but I guess I just wanted to question it just to make sure I feel okay about him not wanting to spend time today.Well ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to ...

We've been dating for a couple months, but he won't tell anybody he is seeing me, or call me his girlfriend. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm wondering if anyone can offer advice on the following problem I'm currently experiencing. I've been seeing a guy now for a couple of months and it's only within the last few days we have been intimate. He arranged for us to spend our ...

Is this childish banter or chemistry? Are they one and the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - By asking this question I must already have guessed my ending answer, but want to clarify some things if I can do... I work with a large group of people and have done so for around a year, the majority of them have been there for two years. I g...

My boyfriend and I have been offered to join another couple for a foursome. I want to do it, but I don't want to ruin my relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - One of my biggest fantasies is a foursome and recently some friends of my fiances saw my photo on his phone and basically asked straight out if we would consider doing a foursome as they love those kinds of things. The moment he came home he told me ...

My husband drinks, lies, and hides things from me. Should I stay? And is there hope that he will change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My husband is a big drinker that hides his alcohol and drinks in private. He started lying to me a lot as soon as things were not so good between us. He hid things from me-even a phone call he got from his friend-simple things basically too. He ...

I just had a date with an old friend that I've had a crush on! Is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I had a crush on an old friend of mine. After many years, he recently wanted to 'hang out' as he ended up working in the same city as me...so we went out for coffee yesterday. It was like the date with a guy that I'd always wanted to have...finall...

I'm trying to be more old-fashioned, so that he will be more interested. How do I get through this experiment without going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our early/mid 30's and have been together several months. I could easily fall in love and being around him just makes me happy, but he is less into me. We both see dating as being about searching for a marriage partner, ...

He lied to me about going out with friends, and now I feel like he wanted to get rid of me. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been a couple for almost 2 yrs. We love each other very much and we trust each other and we're getting married. Thing is, we went out last night and he told me he needs to be home earlier than usual because he's tired. Plus...

My team mate and girlfriend are close, is it all in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Okay, I don't really know what to start but its a very long and complicated problem between me and my partner, mainly around me struggling with trust issues. I have been with my girlfriend for 2, coming on to 3 years now. Everything was p...

How can I gain the confidence to be a better partner for my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - How do I gain confidence when it comes to sex? (if your only going to look at my age and say I am too young leave don't even answer I want some help, not people criticizing me!) I know what I want to be like and what I want to do. But the seco...

Her past makes me question whether I really want to lose it with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - So basically, before we met, my girlfriend was sort of a slut. Because of this, im questioning if I want to lose my virginity to her. As a summary, by 16 she had slept with 2 guys, given oral to 5, and used sex toys, such as dildo's and vibe...

I miss my home, I miss my mum, I miss being in the countryside, but there are commitments that I have to fulfill in London....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi i just dont know what to do! I'm a 21 year old girl from the countryside in a small town, i live with my mum as my dad died when i was 4 and i have no brothers or sisters so me and my mum are very close. i grew up there until i left home to go to...

He says I'm crazy and insecure and I need help yet he is the one who cant get over his ex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start.:( My boyfriend has this ex who he can't let go of. She has been a big problem in our life. She lives far from us but that doesnt seem to matter. When I found out I was pregant he promised me he was done talking ...

I told him I loved him and he said he loves spending time with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Please take the time to read I would really appreciate ANY advice... I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who does a lot for me and I've fallen in love with him. We've been together 5 months, get on great and have a good physical connect...

Why do I miss someone who I was allowing to tear my life to bits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - okay so i broke away from a girl a couple months ago who was a liar, entitled, promiscuous and bloody selfish. finally my life is getting back to normal. but then....why do i still miss her??? i mean, i know in my mind that i am conjuring up an ...

He gave me hopes of a future together and a lot of love...and now its all zilch. Have I been played?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Long story short. I met this guy last year in an airport, we connected and didn't see eachother for 8 months but from time to time facebooked. Then in January he found out I was visiting his home town for a friends birthday and suggested he take ...

Life is passing me bay and I'm just standing still.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I know there are a lot of pleas for help on how not to be so lonely and how to make more friends but here is mine, another to add to the list! The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with m...

Does she think I'm insincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Okay, got a small problem. I have never been in a relationship, but I am getting close to one of my good friends. I make it my policy to tell her everything that I do, be it seeing my other female friends or things i have done in my day. However I...

When is the right time to stop flirting with her and finally ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I recently joined a club at uni and got to know the committee members. All of them are very friendly and very nice. I didn't have any problems talking to all of them and being my usual self by laughing and teasing them. I felt very confident and ...

He has a girl friend. He flirts with me. Could there be a chance for us? He's two years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, This guy and I have been friends for a few months, and we've already gotten close. He makes me laugh, and it's just so much fun being with him! But he's the kind of guy that would say flirty stuff, but you have to know that he's just jok...

I'm 33, never dated. and my social skills are poor. Is there any hope I will ever get a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I am 33 years old and have no real social skills and have never been on a date. I had really bad OCD when I was a kid and couldn't talk to people without repeating myself so I just stayed alone. I've been on medication since I was 13 for depression, ...

He calls me mean names, says I do not love him. What should I do about my married lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a married guy. He has been married for six years and we have been having an affair for five years. He has two children with his wife. but he says that he loves me a lot. i also love him a lot.. i need him. i really need him and ...

Is she interested in me? I do not see it, but would like other opinions please

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3 March 2011 (M) - I am a single who has a married couple as friends I am more friends with the wife, who calls me a lot and invites me over for dinner and with the both of them. She likes to drink wine with me she says I make her laugh and even says she saves my pho...

I want to lose my virginity. But she is adventurous and much more experienced. Is my disgust at this acceptable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Although I am semi-religious, I have never accepted the idea of saving yourself to marriage to have sex.. That may have worked back in the old days, but now, society has evolved in a way that sex is almost mandatory for a healthy relationship. ...

Is it fair for me to date other girls, knowing full well that whatever feelings I have for them, can never match up to what I felt for the girl I truly love(d)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I'd really appriciate the benifit of everyone's oppinions and experiances on this :) Appologies for the length. The problem started when I developed an unrequited love for a girl across the best part of three years and things didn'...