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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I finally told a deep, dark secret....and now I feel empty and hollow! Why? And what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - For about 10 years, I carried a secret in my family, since I was 15 years old. It was very heavy for me, but I thought from some maybe obedience that I can’t say it, as I was told that I just can’t say it. Then I broke the silence after 10 years an...

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... i...

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

Am I wrong in being paranoid about my party-loving bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting ...

Why am I not married yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - While I wait and hoping to marry someday, as to I'm in my mid 30's, seems have decline. Next thing I knew, everyone asked, why am I not married?? I want to tell them, I'm ugly, miserable bitch that nobody want. All I could said, I don't have the ...

He wants to keep our relationship secret.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I like this boy but his mates don't like me, he said that if we do go out then we would have to keep it secret. I'm okay with doing this. What Should i do ? Help !!! ...

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together...

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life qui...

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

Will having a child make things worse in the long run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - im 25 and pregnant. Its been a bit of a rollar cosater but i have got over the hurdles of telling my parents etc and i thought i was on the roasd to happiness. But now me and my boyfriend are arguing. I have gone off sex and been feeling a bit ...

I know I shouldnt be with him but I am so alone and only answer his calls so I have someone to talk to....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay, you all probably heard all this before! I have been with my ex for about 2 years! We have been going down hill from the second month! He treats me like I'm worthless and brain less and so much more! It has got to the point where I cant ta...

Did she only marry me because she got pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I have been in love with this young woman for 2 years. We had been schooling in a local college training as P1 teachers.Accidentally in one of our happy moments she concieved while in college but since we were near to graduate and l loved her l ...

She doesn't want us to split up, but she does want a break and to see other people which I cannot tolerate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. It was my first real relationship, even she had relations befor with both girls and boys. Actually first with boys and then girls in which she decided that she is a lesbian. Before, we h...

Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy pet...

What do you do when you want to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am very confused, please help. What do you do when you find yourself in a situation whereby you feel you have to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse? I feel we should work on our issues, go through ...

Is it ok to tell your girl that you masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Since masturbation is selfless and innocent act and all woman know that single man do it and also in there mind they feel relaxed that the guy she would be knowing or is going out with is masturbator and doesnt exploit woman just for release etc etc ...

How do I forgive and let go of an ancient relationship that still haunts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with a guy 6 years ago. He was my first love and I can't let him go. I have tried etheric cutting of the cords, I have travelled, I have had children since and many other blessings in my life. The break up was sudden and unresolve...

Flirty friends and double standards....what would you do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok i'm really unsure what to do and would love some advice. Here goes: My fella and I have been together a year now. I have this group of so-called friends (so-called because they never really bothered with me much when I was single unless th...

I really love him but his attitude is hurting me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I and my bf have a lot of fights these days. we both belong to different religions and he wants me to get converted which i do not wish to.... he does not allow me to talk to any of my guy friends either. He never accepts his mistakes and always is ...

Should I worry about his relationship with his cousin?

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28 February 2011 (F) - i love someone very much.he is very lovely and talkative. but recently i got to know something which is disturbing me a lot.that is my lover is very much close to his uncle's daughter.both of them share their personal matters to each other.personal ...

Does stress affect morning erections? Or is he not that interested in me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice, esp from male readers, about morning erections. Usually, when my bf of 6 months wakes up when I'm with him, he has an erection. But for the last 3 times we've woken up together, he's been soft, and we haven't had sex the ...

If a man is always talking about extra-marital affairs, is this a sign that he might be having one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - What are the chances that a man would be talking about the wrongness of adultery and the mistrust of the ones having an affair, that he would also be having and affair? Would he be talking about it in such bad terms if he is doing it as well?...

Guys: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - This is a very short question aimed at men/boys, and I'm hoping for a straighforward answer: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)...

If a couple breaks up because one of them didn't want anything serious, yet that person marries someone else in a few months...how and why does that happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Just wondering when you hear about a couple breaking up , because one of them didn't want anything serious. Then you hear about that person getting married/ having a baby to someone else, maybe months down the line. Why do people do that?...

My stomach grumbles and makes these funny noises...and its SO embarrassing...its killing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I have a big problem at. My stomach makes noises all the time in class. The cause of it is because I get so nervous and worry about it growling or something and then it does it. When the classroom gets quiet I start getting nervous and worrying and ...

Should I leave him, sleep with him or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, ...

Performance anxiety!! On the verge of losing my virginity and couldn't get an erection!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 17 nearly 18 and was on the edge of losing my virginity a few nights ago, but I couldn't get an erection! When there was foreplay, I got one, and even when were just making out and shit. But once we both got naked (first time i've gotten...

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around ...

I'm planning on running away with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm Taylor* 20, smart, high ranking job. I have a boyfriend, Adam* 20, smart, high ranking job. We are madly in love, we first met when we were 14, more mature than most our age, we had a moment, nothing physical, both slightly not sure what to ...

Does a sociopath know that he or she is a sociopath?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - For those who have dealt with sociopaths, I have a question: Does a sociopath know he or she is a sociopath? In other words, a person who lives off using other people, seeing them as tools and objects, feeling no guilt...do they know they are...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

How do you know when someone says "I Love You" they mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - How do you know when someone says "I Love You" they mean it? ...

Recently engaged...but scared to tell me parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating the same guy since i was 14. My parents never liked him but I stayed with him. 6 months into our relationship I found out he cheated on me so I ended our relationship. After being seperated for more than 15 months we got back ...

What do married men think of women who are friends with his wife, but flirts with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife? ...

After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...

He's so mysterious, is that bad? How can I get him to open up more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Thanks for reading. There's a guy who's been really patient with me and persistent to know me and I've become interested in him. Here's the snag, he's a bit mysterious and doesn't talk much about himself. I really have to think of things to ask hi...

My husband works alone at night, and someone caught him masturbating. Please help me understand why he did this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well,the last time I told all about my husband playing with himself at work and losing his job. He worked at night by himself, but someone caught him and he has done this before. Just never got caught. I asked him time after time and he is ...

Oral sex or a hand job? Guys, which do you prefer, or are they just the same?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have a question for the guys here. This is so embarrassing because I'm a female, but which one feels better and why? Hand job or blow job or is it just the same? ...

I googled my girlfriend's name and found a homemade sex video that may be of her. Should I ask her about it, or just drop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - So, I regularly play on Google just randomly googling up stuff and I tried googling my girlfriend just to see what came up, all ordinary, Facebook, Myspace, etc. Then I took off the filter and after going through many of the main pages, I found ...

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together...

After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of ...

Does body size matter to a guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom a...

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've...

I'm crazy about him, but I don't know what I'm doing..

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27 February 2011 (F) - I posted earlier that im in a relationship with a guy in prison for 13 1/2 years to go.... I'm competely infatuated with him. He is the most caring, sweetest, sexiest guy I have ever met in my life, and it was my idea to hook up, because long afte...

Agressive partner or scared child??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they ...

I'm not that experienced but my boyfriend is, I need help..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend has been pretty sexually active before and I haven't. I want to know how to practice giving a blowjob before I do it on him?...

I just want to know if you can or not....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a virgin but my boyfriend has been fingering me a few times. I was wandering if there is any way I can make my vagina hole smaller again???...

Baby on the way, when is the right time to.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) - I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part ...

He says "I increase the value of his life?" What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - A man i have been seeing Since Nov told me I was a valued friend and he told me I increase the Value of his life. Does that mean he loves me or likes me as a really good friend? We are not exculsive and I know he sees another girl. He does no...