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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

HOW do I find the right guy???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I need some advice ! :) you see i tend to get used a lot, either that or guys just want no strings attached sex with me. i cant seem to attract guys in the way they want to go out with me or go on a date with me . They just want sex or a thing wi...

What matters?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - So I've been around with confusion, what matters to a girl? I've heard size. I've heard Technique. I've heard Stamina. Which one is the one that actually matters, I heard size doesn't matter too much as long as you're around 6 in, Technique I have ...

Has too much time passed for me to tell her how I really feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks ...

How can I regain self confidence so she'll be excited by me like she used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been having issues in the bedroom, she's "not sexually excited" by me anymore. We discussed the idea of sleeping with other people on a trial basis to see if we liked it. We both love and trust each other very much and so we ...

Should I block him on Facebook and move on...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I really need some advice. I met a guy a couple of months back, we started seeing each other until a couple of weeks ago. He is in the military and based 400 miles away. He did not want to have a long distance relationship as he thought ...

Please help... how do I get my life back on track???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Before I begin, let me apologize in case I sound like a complete baby. My life is nothing but a huge mess lately, and I don't have anyone to talk to about it so I thought I'd turn here for some advice. I guess it all started when I transferred to a ...

We have a beautiful daughter and a nice house, why would he want to put that in jeopardy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My Fiance and I will be together 8 years in May, we have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in March, we have a house together that we bought 4 years ago. My Fiance recently found an old girlfriend on Facebook and he has be chatting with her for ...

We're toxic in a relationship because of the stuff going on around us. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I started seeing a man a year and a half ago. He was separated but not yet divorced. It was and still is a messy custody battle, and his ex has been diagnosed with personality disorders. This man's life is not stable at all. We have broken up a...

I feel they are divorced so they should act like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for well over a year, we are both divorced with kids. He still hangs out with his ex to do "family time", they go to dinner, movies all day outings and even sometimes they stay at each others houses. The other day he told me ...

How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my ...

I'm at a loss and stuck between my boyfriend and my future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I am 25 have been with my 28 year old boyfriend for a total of 6 years, (we dated for 3 years, broke up for a year, and have now been back together for almost 3 years). Most of the relationship has been long distance, as I was going to school in a ...

Boyfriend at uni 200 miles away and I rarely see him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend moved to uni, 200 miles from me.. ever since his been down ther ive always asked him to come down or ill go down to him.. its been 5months since he left and in that time ive only seen him twice... ive spoken to him about this and h...

Am I over thinking this or is he not that serious about us and doesn't see any real future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I am in my mid thirties. I am seeing a guy with the past year. He is very reluctant to meet my family(my sister lives up the road) I did meet his family at xmas after alot of fighting on my behalf. On one occassion he was dropping me off at my ...

I'm a mature student and I am attracted to my college tutor. He seems interested, but I am confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Help needed please! I am a bit confused by the signals that this man is sending out to me...I have been extremely attracted to someone for about four years, but never told him or really showed it in any way. He is four years older than me and my ...

He's 23, I'm 40, we had a fleeting relationship, but now he's suddenly decided he wants space and has taken off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok in october 2010 I moved into a new neighborhood, directly across the street was a gorgeous younger man. I have been living with someone for 2 1/2 yrs in a "relationship" but he treated me crappy but was helping me pay for college, so I exsist...

Is his heart open for me or is his ex still in it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - New relationship - 2 1/2 mos. - background he was in a 17 yr relationship, she broke up with him due to different interest/finding herself. Its been 2 yrs and he still has photos of her on his phone and computer. Seems to me that would remind him ...

Scared of intimacy and commitment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I'm scared of intimacy and commitment. Every time I like someone or someone likes me, instead of getting closer to them, which I want to do so much, I push them away. I haven't gone further than dating because I just scared of going to the next ...

If a guys denies his love for you is there a possibility he may start loving later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i like this guy. we know each other since childhood. but he treats me more like a friend / sister .. he likes me, cares for me etc . . everything a guy can do make a girl feel spl. however, when I confessed that I have feelings for him he ...

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...

How do I meet someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid..... hi, i'm 16, i'm lesbian and i need a girlfriend! How do i meet someone??? i've crushed over loads of girls now, older and younger and i'm feeling really really horny a lot of the time. I touch myself a lot, but i want more now, do ...

Am I gay or............?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - not sure how to start this, i cant help chatting to men on gay websites when i am away at work for weeks at a time i have had 1 or 2 sexual encounters with the same sex in the past and want to try it again. i do have a girlfriend and i have been ...

How do I get taken seriously in social and professional situations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - How do I get taken seriously in social and professional situations? I am 33 years old, though I look younger than I am. Recently something has been bothering me. I have always been a good listener, and people tend to open up to me. However, th...

Why doesn't sex mean anything anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Nobody seems to believe in waiting for that one special person anymore. As a society we have come to expect sex all the time, and people don't care if it's with someone they truly care about or not, all they really want is thrills and excitement. ...

What can I do to solve my emotional problems, and why do girls seem to dislike me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I am a 20 going on 21 male living Indiana. I have a problem, ive never had a relationship really. I have had 2 girlfriends but they were just toying with me, and all it did was make me feel bad. Im attending a commumity college, and have been for ...

Are men and women really that different in terms of our sexuality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Perhaps I'm wrong, but it seems to me there's a tendancy these days to want to think that men and women are identical, or close to it, in most or all respects. As an (obviously unscientific) experiment, I created both a fake male profile and a fa...

18 & pregnant: I'm scared of being alone, but I don't think this relationship can be fixed either.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have been with my fiance' for over two years now and we just found out were having a baby.we have been on and off for uite some time and i think its because i don't want to loose what we had when we actually had it.... everythin that goes wrong is ...

A man trying to love a once abused woman......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is 20yrs old and she just recently got out of a physcially abusive relationship about 1yr ago. How do I get her to understand that I love her and would nevet hurt her the way she has been hurt by her ex. I also dont wanna have to keep ...

How can I stop being restless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - This isn't a love or relationship question, but I hope you will help me nevertheless. My problem is that I'm very restless in class. I'm always moving; whether it's crossing my legs, playing with my hair, resting my head on my hand, just all and ...

Money over love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Do all men value money over love? ...

My ex girlfriend's ex husband wants to date me, and I like him too. How should we go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok so right to it. My ex gf's ex husband is interested in dating me and I want to date him. Him and her have 3 children and he's a good father. He sees his children almost everyday and her also because the children live with her. How should we go ...

Pregnant by narcissistic ex, he doesn't know...but should he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I will try to keep this as short as possible. My ex has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (he was never diagnosed, but I've read about it and I'm positive that's his problem). He has abused me in every way possible - emotionally (tha...