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*oredofit92
writes:I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting off his face when he goes to university. He always does stupid stuff like saying he will come to mine but then leaving me for his friends, a few big lies like when he said he didn't go out but I found out he was out till 6 in the morning in a nearby city. He's at a university near to me but he's just told me he's moving to a one about an hour and a half away from me, in a major city. He will be going out ALL the time, he will be living with girls and I will see him about twice a month. I'm trying to decide whether to split up with him because I know that I will be so paranoid it will make us both miserable...every time he's out i have this sick feeling in my stomach and no matter how many times he says he loves me I just feel so down. anyway ....what do you guys think?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 I think you need to talk to him about it. He has lied to you in the past therefore he has only made your insecurities worse. You need to tell him that and ask him how he feels. If you are feeling this way already then I really dont see this relationship working for you. I understand that you are paranoid but I guess he wants to go and live the student life. Therefore talk to him and ask him what he wants. Tell him exactly how you feel and see what he thinks. Maybe a break will do you good and give you time to sort out your issues.
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