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anonymous
writes:One of my friends told me that he fancied me and when I told him that I did fancy him too, he told me that nothing can happen between us because his family would not approve due to our different religions. He then says that this is not the reason and that it is because we have no future. He doesn’t want any of our friends to know he fancies me, so asked me to keep it a secret, which makes me feel like he’s ashamed of me. When we are out in a group, he seems to avoid me a bit but yet he says that he doesn’t feel weird around me. We’ve never had sex but on 3 occasions, he has got into my bed and started ‘feeling me up’. He will say that we shouldn’t do this but then carries on anyway, until he then walks out. We talked it through and he said that he wants to be friends, which I know is going to be difficult but when we are alone together, he acts more ‘couple-y’ and ignores me when other people are around. I used to feel like I could tell him anything, even after the first 2 times that he got in my bed. But after the 3rd time, things were different but he won’t acknowledge that. I don’t understand why he would tell me that he is attracted to me physically when he didn’t want anything to happen. I think that he is jealous of my male friends and if another man seems interested in me, he can’t even look at me but he will tell me that everything is fine. Should I talk to him about all this, even though he will probably tell me that I am being silly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis guy decided that he just wants to be friends and when i tried to talk to him, told me to get over it and that most guys would be fed up by now, even though i had him walk out on me! AND he got stroppy when i text one of our friends about something rather than texting him. and he has been kinda mean to me so I'm have kind of had enough but I don't know what to do or say anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): If you two love each other, religion be damned. What right has a set of rules designed for a world that no longer exists to tell you who you can and can't have a relationship with.
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