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I just want to know if he actually loved me, or was he playing me?

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Question - (19 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Did he really love me,?

This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he said he didnt tho.

he stayed with me becos he realised he really did love me and didnt wont to lose me, so i forgave him and we were normal again. Then a week or so later i got a bit annoyed with him becos he always called me short and made fun of me, it wasnt nice, it was just past a joke, so i said i didnt like it and we nearly broke up about it, but i forgave him and it got back to normal again.

Then a week or so after that, he was talking behind my back to his ex-gf,tht he was going to dump me for, saying he and her should try and get me and my m8 C together and i got mad at him when she told me wot he had said, and i confronted him, he said he was sorry and wud i please for give him, i asked him 'if he really loved - me y wud he say tht behind my back that he wonted to make me get with another lad?'

He said 'he loved me and he was sorry' so i forgave him, AGAIN.

And it carried on like normal, he ocasionaly called me a whore, slag, gimp, div, bitch, but i forgave him becos i loved him, then the other day he dumped me and got with his ex-gf, he was going to dump me for b4, then dumped her and came bk to me asking me to take him back, becos he realised i was the one he loved and he wonted to try again and make it work

My answer was no!! i have had enough of you !!, messin me about, its not fair!

then after a few days he told me he still loved me, but also told my best mate he fancied her. i dont wont to get back with him, i just want to know if he actually loved me or was he playing me ?

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