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anonymous
writes:i was out with my boyfriend last week having a few drinks when a gay man sat down and started chatting to him.he then preceeded to rub his hands over my boyfriends face and through his hair and admired his voice. the gay was asked to stop, but my boyfriend said it was ok...i was very upset.is this normal behavour for a straight man in a womans company? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle  +, writes (30 September 2008):
Maybe it was s set up to see how you reacted? I don't think ANYONE out with their partner would accept that from a stranger, if it was a friend maybe it was a bit of friendly banter? In my experience (not all believe me) but a lot of gay people (men in paricular) tend to share and share alike in relationships.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (21 September 2008):
 i'm gay and this is not on-your boyfriend should know better. if this was a woman it would be unnacceptable so why should this arrogant display be any different. your man want to make you jealous by allowing it to make him seem more desirable (i would guess) and therefore turn you on. it clearly failed to do that
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): im sorry to say any straigh man would never of allowed that,even if he told him either politely or agressively,he obviously enjoyed the attention he was getting,but was also not to eager to inform the gay male he was infact straight,keep an eye on any future events involving gay males.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): I think the gay guy should have had the manners to realise that you are the guy's girlfriend and that he shouldn't have starting touching your boyfriend. If you were a gay couple, he wouldn't have tried to make a pass at another man's boyfriend. I can understand how this would have upset you.
Your boyfriend may have been embarrassed and rather than causing a fuss, just said it's ok. I don't think it means he's gay or confused but maybe you should tell him that you were a bit surprised by his reaction.
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