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writes: I have a very strong dislike for my sister's boyfriend, and I don't know what to do!They've been together for almost 4 months, of which he was away for two months working in another city. My parents dislike him also, but they're good at hiding it. I, on the other hand, not so much! And of course I don't want either him or my sister feel bad!The thing is, first, he's 32, she's 21. So it's weird. Ok, he's 32 but he acts very, very immature. Sometimes he swears in front of my family. Also, he comes here EVERYDAY, and is here almost ALL day. He eats here, he uses the telephone, he uses the Internet, etc, etc...He just comes and feels like he's home or whatever, he goes into the kitchen, gets something to eat, just like that, almost without asking! I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and neither of us behave like this.My sister changes so much around him. She kind of forgets about us because she's with him. Sometimes my mom will ask her to run some errands, and she won't. But if he needs something, she's the first one helping. My mom has told me how much this hurts her.I don't know, there's something about him that I can't quite describe, and that I dislike ever since she brought him home. It hasn't always been like this, she has had boyfriends that I've liked very much because they've been respectful, and I've been happy for her.But now, I don't know what to do! How can I learn to like him. I have to, considering he spends almost ALL his time around here... Sometimes I feel my house is invaded, it's a really small place, so all I have is my room.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Have you told your sister how you feel? You could even speak to her boyfriend up front, tell him that he can't spend as much time at your house and he needs to be more respectful! X
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