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writes:Okay I am a 19 year old college student I was going to be in my junior year of school. But I had to drop out a semester because I could not afford it, I plan on going back next semester. I am so stress because I was looking for a job ever since I came home this summer, I am tired of being rejected over and over.I did 3 internships but that counts as no job experience oh and I was working for this one company which was my first job I had since I was 16. I was a very good employee and the got mad when I quit to go to school, I can't put this company as a previous employment because they are known for giving people bad recommendations on top that. My mom is hastling me to get a job but my father says he is going to take a loan out for me that I will have to pay back. It is just so hard to find a job I have been on interviews and I even filled out applications online and still get no where. I am very tired because on top of that I have to clean up the house that my sibblings keep tearing apart, cook, help eveyone with their homework, wash their clothes and I was doing this since the day I got home for summer break. I haven't been going out at all unless it is grocery shopping for the house, or going on interview. Everyone say my mom is being to hard on me I have to much responsiblity and I am the oldest, I make good grades in school a 3.2 but not high enough to get scholarships. I am not lazy I don't think I am because I worked from 3 p.m. to 3.a.m at my old job and came right back in the work the next day and did a nine to five because my boss begged me too, others said employees said the would have told my boss no. When at school I never miss a day and go to tutoring every single day and not come in more dorm till ten, and step up until atleast 1 a.m. or later just to get my work done to wake up for my 9a.m. class. I try to think that I don't have it hard because atleast I have a roof over my head and family but its getting to much for me to handle , I am also in bleiver in god doesn't put more on us than we can handle but how much is to much? Most of the things I do average girl my age does not...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the advice, I already listen to my ipod and write, and I think I surpass the sugar intake because feeling depress, but hopefully I can cope due to the advice you all have given me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): okay i have this same problem but haha different situation, this is what you do.
if you feel like your going to freakout!
-stop what your doing, take deep breaths, and say "i can do this" "im okay" ect.
try to keep the sugar intake to a minimum.
-sugar increases nervousness and the shakes
only take what YOU CAN DO!
-if someone asks you to do something for them and you dont have time, DONT! say yes. yeah sure its nice to help people out, but think about yourself for now.
find something that relaxes you and "puts you in your own little world"
-for me its my ipod.
keep something to write in
-i personally dont like to express my feelings with others, i keep stuff in so sence that is dangerouse keep a journal or diary and hide it YOU HAVE TO GET YOUR FEELINGS OUT!!!
well just try that and take care!
you know theres always people that care...
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