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What do you do when you are 'bi' and like a 'straight' girl?

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Question - (19 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this girl who's straight and i'm bi. I told her i liked her and tried to be her friend, but she said i was weird and blocked me.

I really want to just be friends with her, but i don't know. What i should do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

If she doesn't like you and avoiding you, you just have to accept it and move on. You did your part and that was her reaction. Though a part of you may still want to try and be friends with her, it's alright. But if you did try and she's still like that, don't bother. There are many fish in the sea. Hehe. Do your best!

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A male reader, Bryanz United States +, writes (20 September 2008):

Good. You did tell the truth, thats the way to go.

But try just letting time pass and not be so upfront. You need to find out if she likes to meet new people, a lot of stuff that go on in the female brain and male. They start to stop wanting to meet new people around the age of puberty. They only really meet other people if they grow to meet them. Not upfront asking if they want to be friends.

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A female reader, clairewillhelpu  +, writes (20 September 2008):

Hi, I think you should move on from this person, If she was a nice person she would be happy with your friendship and NOT call you weird. Be true to yourself and you will find great friends who'll accept you for who you are!

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A female reader, A Cappella United States +, writes (20 September 2008):

A Cappella agony auntGood for you for being honest. Now give her some time. She'll either get a grip and stop blocking the friendship, or she'll continued to be freaked. If the latter, her loss. If she can't unwind you're better off without her. But just remain casual, give her some space, and don't press. Good luck.

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