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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

What does my "being chased" dreaming mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Does anyone know how to interpret dreams? Recently I'm being chased in my dreams. I wake up with sore legs and wonder if it has anything to do with real life??...

I can't leave him - there's hope he'll change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - kris and I have been together for 6yrs and we live together. We both own the property together. Kris used to smoke dagga and he became lazy and sloppy, I found myself doing every thing around the house, well he just sat on his computer playing ...

Do men really think stretch marks are okay ? Or do they say they dont mind to be kind ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - i just wanted to know what men truly think of strech marks?? i had my second child 6weeks ago, my first child is 15months, as you can see i didnt hang about, and from having two 9lb babies close together and a miscarriage in between them , i have ...

We both live in Lousiana and not sure if its illegal for us to date ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - ok please dont judge,i have been seing this girl who is 16,i am 21, we have been seeing each other for the past two yrs,we have not had sex,she wants to wait till marriage and i respect that.her mom has decided that she is too young to be ...

Cant stop this insecurity of his past girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and everything is going well except that i cant get thoughts of a girl he slept with before out of my head...they were good friends and are no longer in contact because she 'used' him while she ...

Is he just being freindly or does he want something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - How do i know if a guy like me or not.? Recently I've moved back home after being away for six years, I'm staying with my family until my place is ready. So I'm around the house alot and see old family friend nearly everyday. But awhile back I ...

We talk and chat alot, but she didnt text, not sure if this a big deal or not ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I met this girl at the gym who I liked the look of. She was on her own and I went over to her, havign seen her there a few times before. We got talking and seemed to get on really well, and considering it was the first time I'd spoken to her, we ...

One minute shes flirting, then she pulls away, Im not sure what to do anymore but I really really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - This is a pretty complicated relationship problem that has been bugging me for the past 2 years or so. There is a bunch of background details, so bear with me. I'm 17, a guy, and I just can't get over my ex. She lives in a city next to mine, and ...

He slept with his ex.... Now she says shes pregnant!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for three years now ,he loves me and i also do. Lately we have a problem which is fading my love for him but he still loves me The problem is he saw his ex girlfriend and due to lust he slept with her, and n...

Does this comment mean he doesnt want to get married again ? or did he feel on the spot ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I was at a party on Friday night with my boyfriend when one of his friends said he reckoned I was going to be his future wife. His other friend agreed and said he could see us either being married within 2 years or at least engaged by then. My ...

Whats going on in here head, why did she just drop all contact ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - Ok, was going out with this girl for three months and all was going great I had totally fallen for her and I actually felt that she was the one, but then two weeks ago out of the blue she didn't respond to my messages (which she had always done like ...

He's afraid to love again, should I hand in there or move one ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. He has had a bad experiance in the past (about 4 years ago) where he was in love with a girl, and was going to marry her. However she cheated on him with one of his best friends, they broke up ...

Is this spot of blood normal ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i were making out and it got a little hot and heavy as far as making out goes....and we were dry humping, but this time it was different. we do this routine often and all is fine after the fact but tonight when i went to go change ...

How can I really stand out, he went from being really into me then all wierd!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I don't understand what happened, but he seemed like he liked me lots and l liked him. We were together almost a month. Then he went away for a weekend came back and it was all weird, he said he was really busy working etc and we couldn't get ...

He said im a tease and asked for sex, im not ready as im not sure if I've mistaken friendship for love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Sorry, so long... I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now(Friends for 2 yrs in col before got together) and we are extremely compatible in many ways, except he has slightly different interests to me when it comes to careers, as i am...

Was I right to forgive him so easily ? I cant now get the image of his cheating out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years, and have had our ups and downs like most couples do......... Lately a lot of things have come out into the open as he has had a tendency to bottle things up and try to handle them ...

We are both from different backgrounds but like each other alot, should I though just stick with his friendship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely infatuated with my “friend” and him with me. We met while I was working abroad (for six months) and quickly formed a friendship. Three months later, we began to date, knowing too well that my time overseas was limited. Four weeks ...

Im in love with a married man, I know hes unhappy with his wife, but people are telling me to stay away!!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. I've had so many ppl tell me to stay away from him..that he will never leave his wife. But he is so unhappy with her. He only married her because he thought that was what was right for their child. They do NOT love ...

I'm having gay fantasies; what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am definitely sure that i am straight! but sometimes i have dreams of doing sexual things with other girls (some i know, some i don't). Is this normal even when you're straight? I was thinking, maybe it's because me and some of my friends always ...

What exactly is a "strong" man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - A lot of women I have heard like a man who is strong but sensitive. I have the sensitive part but I don't know what it means when they want someone who is strong (not physically). can anyone help and tell me what women mean by strong (like I said ...

My daughter wont talk to her father after his affair, but I want her to talk to him, how should I tackle this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - hi there please help how can i get my daughter to commuinicate with her father.? she has refused to talk to him since she was made a part of his affair againsnt me (he took her along with him while he had his last affair on me) she now feels she ow...

We broke up but said we would be friends, out of the blue he turned nasty, I dont know why ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I recently spilt with my ex we were in egaged and lived together. My partner was loyal and loving and I know for sure he loved me more than anything. When he ended the relationship I was and still am devastated. He took my engagement ring and ...

Ive taken two tests and they both say negative.. what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - dear cupid, im having a bit of a problem,i am an female and my problem is i think i might be pregant. i have missed two periods well nearly three now. i have taken a pregancy test well two actually and both came back negative. what do ...

Im pretty shy around women, and know how to tell if they fancy me or are flirting ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - Hi. I am a 20 year old male and resides in the UK and i am having trouble with the opposite sex. I have never had any females friends, let alone girlfriends and i feel left out when my friends go out together with their girlfriends. I am a very sh...

We planned to go out then he couldnt go, I still went he says I now dont care...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had aranged to go to thorpe park together and some how it was called of . me and my friend decided to go and he now thinks i dont care about him and he is really angry with me but i love him so much !!!!...

Still thinking about my friends husband.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Still thinking about friend's husband (March 28). Now he is my friend's ex-husband. My feelings have deepened for him and we still talk/text nearly everyday. He never initiates the contact but always responds immediately to my calls/texts. It has n...

Pain and bleeding...not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - dear cupid i need help. i finished my periods about 5 days ago but 2 days ago i started bleeding and i dont know what it is. Is it possible that my hymen thing has broke, even though i haven't had sex or like done anything like ride a bike etc...

Confused as to why it didnt hurt me when I had sex for the first time ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Dear cupid i really need your help cos i am really confused. About a few weeks ago my bf fingered me and that was the first time i had ever been fingered and it really really hurt and i was sore the next day and it hurt the first couple o...

My girl of 10 months as just told me shes coming off the pill and doesnt want sex any more ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - I just recently had a problem with my girlfriend of ten months and its a problem i never expected to have. I just got back from a week long vacation and she told me close to the end of the day she was going off the pill and didnt want to have sex ...

Ive been with my guy for 2 months, I know hes not the one but hes head over heels what do I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - hi please help im having problems falling for my boyfriend....ive been with him 2 months now, and hes a lovely lad. he'd do anything for me even if he went out of his own way to please me he would, he deseves the world.....hes that head over heals ...

My fiancee feels we should live our own live for a while... what does that mean!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - my fiancee of three years broke up with me last month and i am still completely in love with him and i feel he feels the same way. we have gone on some dates call and text all the time, he says maybe we should live our own lives for a while and ...

Did I not show enough interest because I was studying, make him change his mind ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Hello My name is Astrid and I'm 29, This year I have been working and studying to sit national teaching exams, I met a guy who was interesting to me and we went to dinner a couple of times. I was very stressed studying so I didn't go out very muc...

Can a relationship work out if you each have different religions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - Hi, if you and your partner have different religions but are madly in love with each other.. would the relationship work out?...

I wasnt sure if we were an item, so I asked him and he said things were great as they were but then asked when were going to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - ok this guy and i met like 2 months ago we started talking and decided to go see a movie... well we did and it was fun and everything but i wasnt sure if we were b/f and g/f so i asked him and he was like i dont want to screw anything up bcuz i ...

I could stand lots of kissing in the beginning but now my gf wants to kiss and kiss and I dont want to as much, is this normal ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - When I first started going out with my girlfriend we kissed and kissed and kissed all day and whenever we saw each other i could stand lots os kissing. We have been going out now for just over 8 months and I find kissing slightly annoying at time...

We crossed the line of just being roommates, she has a BF but I like her alot and think shes likes me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - ok, so i live with this girl, right? which complicates things a lot. she's a good friend of mine, but a little over a week ago we crossed over the friendship barrier and she cheated on her boyfriend with me. we decided time apart was the best ...

My mum is charging us more than we can afford on rent, and is now threatening to evict us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Hello, I'm in a bit of an emotiosal time right now, you see, my mother bought a condo, (mortgaged it, actually) and moved me in after I was on the streets for 5 years. I lived here with my first BF, and we didn't have a car or anything like tha...

Why do guys say im a good girl and they are bad guys ? Is it so they can break up easily ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Should I tell a guy I recently dated how I feel? I dated a guy for about a month, and then he left for vacation, then he never called me when he got back. When I saw him at a club he acted like nothing was wrong and asked me to dance. I told him ...

Can I still have children that wont get infected even though im HIV postive ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - I found out that I had HIV 3 months ago. Even though I'm taking medication, the thing that really upsets me is that I may not be able to have children. Will I be able to have children who aren't infected with HIV?...

He says he wont get rid of the pics of the ex until we are married, why cant he do it now!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Me and my fiancee are planning our wedding. We have been together a little bit over 5 years and 1 1/2 years engaged. But he still has an album in his bedroom with pictures of his ex girlfriends,(8-15 years old pics). I saw these pictures when we ...

Im thinking of doing an MBA but it costs alot of money, could someone advise me please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Hello people... I am thinking of doing an MBA from Cardiff University, England. I am from Aisa... I'm getting into the International Students quota... could anyone tell me if the Univ is one of the best in the UK. This course means a lot of money ...

His divorce was declined.. anybody know why this could be ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Why would a divorce not be granted for my boyfriend? My boyfiend of a year was cheated on by his wife, starting a few years ago. When he found out, he immediately left home but then went back to see if they could work through their differences. They ...

My mum has hit me and in the past thrown things at me, what does the law state on this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - What is the law when it comes to violence towards your children? My mother has an appauling temper and she hit me. However i don't feel as though i can do anything about it as i hit her back. It wasn't deliberate exactly, it was just on impulse, ...

We broke up 2 months ago, he said he could never look at anyone as his gf, but hes got someone new, how can I deal with this!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Hi Ppl. Myself and my ex bf broke up on the 9th of june which is almost two months ago now and I still have not got over him. We were together for almost a year and were engaged (he proposed. Now we have broken up and his friend introduced him to ...

Ive met a guy who my parents say is "out of my league" should I do what makes them happy ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Have met a guy who my parents consider out of my league. They think i can do better, maybe i can but i've fallen for this guys kind caring ways. At same time i don't want to let my family down - do i just move on in the hope that someone better ...

Could someone help me interpret what this means ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I have known this guy at work for a while now and although we both work in different departments we bump into each other on a weekly basis and we have talked in the past. Everytime I bump into him by accident he stops in his tracks and stares ...

We took all the right precautions but im still worried I could be pregnant!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - This Saturday, I had sex for the first time (It's Thursday now over here). My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we used the Durex Extra Safe condoms which, as far as I know have spermicide included. We took extra care to make sure the condom ...

Is alot of Body hair normal ? And does it stop growing ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - i am a 15 yr old boy and i would like to know is it normal to have a lot of body hair, meaning chest, stomach, back legs and bottacks, and i would also like to know when does the body hair stop growing????? plzz help me as im worried...

How could I go about rebuilding trust, I really didnt do anything intentionally wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I finished up a practicum at the Ministry if Child and Family Development some months ago in a counselling role. Since the ending of my practicum I have sporadically kept in touch with a 15 yr old girl via email who was having a p...

How do you know if someones fallen in love with you ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Guys and Girls:- What are the signs a guy is falling in love with a girl? Do you have any stories of how you fell for a girl? or ladies, can you tell me how you knew your man had fell for you? Thanks xxx...