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writes:ok this guy and i met like 2 months ago we started talking and decided to go see a movie... well we did and it was fun and everything but i wasnt sure if we were b/f and g/f so i asked him and he was like i dont want to screw anything up bcuz i drink and everything and he said we were already doing good when he doesnt want to ruin things... well after that day we kept talking but he never called we always text messaged and sometimes when i calle dhim he would say he'll call back but he never did. well we liked each other alot and told each other we did so he was like when are we gonna do it? i wasnt sure i mean i kind of wanted to bcause he is so hot and sweet and even though sometimes when i talked to him i acted dumb and stuff but he still liked me and that meant alot.. but im only 15 and i dont know if i should give it up to him or not? i need alot of advice im so confused....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): Honey, you're not ready to give it away to someone just yet. You have got so much time to find someone special to share that once in a life tim experience with and this guy definately doesn't seem to be the right guy. You have doubts about him and you should you two are still getting to know each ther and you have to take it slow because if you have sex with him trust me you will regret it. I lost my virginity when I was quite young and I still regret it. I wish I was string enough to have waited. Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): My advice to you is Don't do it unless your absolutly certain, It's rare that a person stays with the one they lost there viginity with but That doesnt mean that that person should not be the right one for you as you are now. You will change allot as you get older but don't give yourself anything to regret about your first time. Ask yourself this question, Do you feel pressured by this guy to have sex? If you do then don't. It sounds like he's only interested in sex with you since he avoids you and lies about calling you back. Just because you find someone attractive does not mean you should have sex with that person. Wait for someone who treats you with respect and one more thing, Why do you feel it nesseccary to "ACT DUMB" around a guy. This is a sign that your not mature enough to take this step yet. Trust me you should never, ever feel like you have to play down your intellegence to be attractive and maintain a socially good standing with that person. That is wrong. You are you and don't ever compromise yourself to please another especially if there only interest in you is sex. Your playing right into what he wants you to be, A quick and easy, no strings attached lay. Have some self respect and wait for someone you feel comfortable with and you can be yourself around. Good luck and remember your only 15 there is no rush. All the best hun
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