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writes: Should I tell a guy I recently dated how I feel? I dated a guy for about a month, and then he left for vacation, then he never called me when he got back. When I saw him at a club he acted like nothing was wrong and asked me to dance. I told him that I was confused why he didn't call me. He said that I'm a good girl who doesn't like to drink and he's a bad boy who does like to drink. He also said that we fight too much (talking about how he was still hurt by what I said about me feeling that I was just his makeout buddy). I don't consider that fighting, I think he's just afraid to admit that it's the truth and I deserve better. But, whenever I see him I miss him all over again (I even thought I loved him at one time). Should I tell him how I feel or just let it go? It gets really confusing when he keeps flirting with me. Why do guys say that I'm a good girl and they're a bad boy and we're too different? Isn't that just an excuse to breakup? I don't want to get hurt, but I miss him. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): This guy sounds like he's using you when it's convenient (if you happen to be around). I would just stop trying to get with him. Find someone who has a genuine interest in you. Furthermore, if you can't be open with him because it "hurts his feelings" (please! what a lame excuse to avoid you) then he's not someone who seems like he's ready for a commited relationship yet, anyway. If you were only with him for a month then perhaps it's just the companionship of a partner that you're missing, and not really him.
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reader, kat14  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 omg you sure this isnt the same guy i went out with lol. The guy i went out with had already lost his virginity, drunk did drugs n everything.he ended up cheating on me n claimed it wouldnt of worked as im too innocent. I just think he was embarrassed in front of his mates n stuff wanted some who would make him look gd.i still kinda like him and everytime i see him it does hurt.He started flirting with me again n i got so confused. he told me he wanted to go out again so i was just about to lucky i didnt coz he hadnt changed he didnt care about me.if i was you i would leave him ur right u can do better. if he truely loved you he would care that u didnt drink he would liek u for who u are and respect you.
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