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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - my question is simple.....What do you do when a guys mum doesn't want you to date him?.... Okay, so I like this guy...But there is one problem, His mum simply will not let me date him, according to her I am too young for him... Is 2 years that big...

Would it be ok to ask her out when she turns 16?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - ok this is going to sound so wrong to moit of you but its been palying on my mind for do long now i need help badly i am 21 yet i have felaing for a 15 year old i know this is so wrong as of the age gap but i genuinly have fealings for her ITS ...

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Is she hinting to me that she wants a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid! I'm really needing some help here?! I met a lady back in February. She's a really, really nice lady. She's older than me. She's 39. I'm 34 in a few days. Anyway, it was one of those 'The minute we laid eyes upon one another we fe...

He's 64 and I'm not interested. How do I discourage him without ruining the car share system that benefits us all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I am part of a car share group where one drives and the other three are passengers. We rotate who drives. It works OK. In fact it's very convenient. But two days out of every fortnight there are either one or two of the others not present. Thes occ...

He makes racist inappropriate comments. Now it seems he may have been seeing a local prostitute of the same race he vilifies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 40. He makes comments all the time if we are out and see an oriental woman with a man he immediately says "oh look it's bought your wife". He even said that my friend who was 27 and going out with a 42 year old was going ou...

Why doesn't he contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 4months now, and we can go days not seeing each other with minimal boring texting to days spent together and really happy and intense. He will never tell me if he wants to see me, I always have to be the one to a...

I broke up with her but realised I made a mistake, how do I get her back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a long distance relationship for the past 5 months and it's been a little difficult since we've only been seeing each other once a month, and recently started seeing each other 2X per month. We also have been chatting an...

I'm twice her age. Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her? A girl, 19, who I am friends with, and I am 40. We work together once a week and sometimes end up at the same events. She flirts with me about 1/2 the time. like sometimes she doesnt at all and ot...

I'm 22 dating a 16 year old and have very conflicting feelings about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I'll start things off with honesty since that's the best method of any question. I am 22 with some time to come before I am 23. I haven't dated much, only having 2 girlfriends in my whole existence, yes I have had sex but nothing spectacular to say ...

How can I flirt and impress this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Theres a girl who recently joined my college.she is also from my home town .and she even knows me because we are family friends..and i really like her.shes my junior in my college.. Problem is that i am 21 and she is 17, so she always hesistat...

Is he worth my time? Can I believe him or is he stringing me along? he says he loves me, that he would like to marry me one day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - first of all I’m just looking for advice not for people to judge me. Well I am 18 years old and there is one guy that is about 15 years older than me. He would always flirt with me and he would say stuff to my sister so she could tell me. Ab...

Being on top does not work for me. Am I doing it wrong? Why do I not like it that well, but he loves it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need some help. I have the most amazing lover ever in bed. I consider myself to be one of the luckiest ladies ever. This man's not only great to me in bed but emotionally as well. He is my soulmate for sure. However, I have a ...

40 emails between us, and then she stopped responding? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Sooo basically I'm having a crush on a girl who I don't know THAT well. We attend the same college, although she's quite a bit older than me (9 years), but aren't taking any classes together. We met at the beginning of the year at this opening ...

14 going out with a 12 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and just yesterday, I was asked out by a 12 year old boy that I liked. I'm really scared that people will make judgements about the age difference and my mum fears I will get bullied for it. He is really sweet and caring ...

Should I take what he says when he's drunk seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - hi im 27 his 41 i love him so much he once told me that he wants to marry me but he was drunk when he told me. his a person who live a private life. i dont know if i should trust him on that i got one kid and his got six not seing the mommys ...

He's older and I'm falling for him. He does flirty things with me. What can I do about his Birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - Dear higher power relationship gods and love gurus, There's this guy in my uni. He graduated already and he's in his mid twenties. he's taking only two classes here because he needs them for grad studies and he didn't take them in undergrad. Besid...

Could it be that working with so many women (aged 30 to 50s) that is causing me daily angst? Should I change jobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 October 2012 (M) - alright im a young male and i just got a job with 40 "mothers." All but one of them in there late 30's to early 50's. I've noticed that lately i have been worse. When i had just hit puberty I was horny all the time to where masturbation didn't d...

Is saying he loves me a real indication that he does really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend said I love you for the first time over a message on facebook. Since then often sends me messages saying he loves me. He sometimes says it as I am going to leave his house or at the end of a phone call But he never says it randoml...

Is my boyfriend a sex pest?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Is my boyfriend a sex pest or am I just uninterested? I am a 42 year old divorced mother of two kids. I've been told I look young for my age and I think I do too. I waited two years before I "let down my walls" and just jumped head first into a r...

He's perfect -- except that we can't have kids

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Ok - I have a slight issue... lol I really like older men - like REALLY like them. 3 previous relationships have always had a 20 year age gap. Is this normal?? Now I've started seeing a guy who is early 40's and he's everything I am looking...

I think my younger friend is trying to let me down gently. How can I expand my circle of friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi I am 61 and had a crush on a fellow half my age -and we became platonic friends and e mailed occasionally and WHEN he came to the city we met for a coffee or lunch which I always paid for-he did offer though. He is a singer and no qualms abou...

How do I get my friends and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real and that she's not a gold digger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - How do I get my friedns and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real? I am 39 and a very successful business man. After breaking off my long time relationship with my ex I started dating a much younger 22 yr ol...

Do I dump him over the attention he's giving his 'back-up women?" I no longer trust him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is around 10 years older than me and is in a rush to get married because he feels that he is of that age and his family and culture expects that of him. We're of the same culture and I definitely understand that about him but I just c...

His sleazy behaviour around young girls disgusts me. Do I tell him how I feel? Or just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is into every other female but me, or so it seems. He lost a good summer job, teaching science to high school students, at a local university because he was giving high school students rides in his van without permission and some...

If I marry her will I have to help out her family too?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - i have a Filipino girlfriend who's about 13 years younger here in the US. very worried about if i marry her , will her family also expect me to help them out financially? I've read thing that Filipino love to "show off" material things and such. a...

He's a widower in his 50s. Is there a chance for us? Should I be more patient with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I currently like a guy, (in his 50s...), we do enjoy spending time together whenever I'm visiting his city, and he writes pretty much every day, or whenever I reply him. We're not officially anything, just 2 good friends. We sometimes flirt through ...

Do I stay or go? Our relationship is one sided and there is no sex. Even though sex isn't everything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M) - Ok so been seeing this girl for 7 months first as a friend. I asked her out after 2 months. She said she needed to talk to her brother to ask if it was ok but she never did ask. After 3 months of hanging out we finally had sex Then one night wh...

Is a four year age difference such a deal breaker? We broke up. I still love her. Will this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M) - I am a man 21 doing a Degree and in my second year. I have been dating a gal a four years older than me for four years. But last year we talked about our age difference and asked if I was going to work. After sometime, I felt intimidated ...

My boyfriend's mother is undermining my relationship with my Bf. I know she's ill,but why does she do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, My boyfriend of 4 years has been nothing but wonderful to me,but things went upside down since last 4 months.. My boyfriend's mother lives with us,the reason being she's really ill and needs supervision..but I think she doesn't like...

Should I let the age difference bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I met a beautiful person and I'm so afraid to let myself go and fall harder for him. i guess im so worried about our age difference, I am 39 but get told that i look 25-28 and he is 23. We been sort of dating and talking for seven months, he ...

Keep trying to work on my marriage or just end it and move on once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 12 years, we have a 9 year old daughter. I am 46 and he is 34. In April 2012, out of the blue my husband asked for a divorce. I knew our relationship had gone bad. I gave up and settled, he started hanging ...

Illegal age difference but I like him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - I am in a play and the accompanist is cute. I am however younger than he is and the age difference is 5 years which would be illegal for him since he's 21. I like him and don't know if he is interested single or not. I have had relationships with ...

I'd like to hang out with my former teacher and be friends. Do you think this is a good idea or would it be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - In high school, we got a new teacher who I completely fell for. I never ended up having his class, as the year before I had taken that class with the old teacher. I knew him a bit from my favorite teacher who was best friends with this teacher I li...

I asked out a 45 year old woman, I am 28 years old. Where to take her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. I have met a 45 year old lady and we have been talking for the past 2 months. I didn't meet her online or at a bar. I met her because she lives very close to me. I am 28 years old, single and we seem to have and feel a tension when ...

Why am I worried about my boyfriend going off with a younger woman all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - I'm 45 and he's 39 we've been together for three years I never have been insecure about my age before but recently I'm starting to have doubts about him with younger women, why?...

Will attending college ruin my new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks in advance for taking the time to read! Now, down to business... I just started dating this guy. We had been sort of at an in between, kind of dating phase for a few weeks and then we finally decided to officially get together...

I am not interested in this 50 year old married man at work. So how do I discourage him effectively? And before he gets any more ideas please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Recently a married man at work has been flirting with me and jokingly we bantered, but nothing serious to start with as I am 22 and he 50, but in the past 3 months he's started heavily flirting to the point people have started commenting on it! F...

My mom says he and I are flirting. So is this just friendly, on the part of my professor and how we behave together? Or is it more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Personally I think we are just being friendly, which is fine with me! He is married and like twice my age, so I'd never do anything with him I'm not stupid. Anyways I meet with him every once in a while and at first we were both awkward, but we a...

I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...

Is a 6-7 year age gap really that big of a deal in dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I've recently started dating this girl. She's really nice, I get along with her really well. But there's a slight age difference. I'm 22 (23 soon), she's recently turned 30. I've only told a few of my friends about her (we've only been on a ...

My younger girlfriend suddenly left me and I cant get over it. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - She is 27 and I am 44. We met at work and were together 5 years through good and tough times. Just as it seems everything is finally settling down, as we can finally move on together,she dumps me saying its not working, a week before she moves into ...

Now that myself and the guy I like are single, what can I do to make him want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) - Hi guys. I'm a twenty year old girl and I really like this guy who is in his 30's (so much so that I think I love him). I've always liked older men; it's just who I am. Anyway, I have known this guy for three years now and when we first met we h...

Is a 13 year gap for dating really such a big deal.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I've recently started casually dating a guy who is 13 years older than me, I'm 24. We're having lots of fun, i enjoy his company and its not serious. I get annoyed when we go out because people stare and comment, with one girl actually saying it ...

What advice can you give for dating a younger man in university?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I'm a 22 year old senior and I like a 20 year old sophomore. I know age is just a number and whether or not the relationship will work depends on the two people. But does anyone have advice for dating a younger guy? Any insights or tips? Thanks! ...

A man 40 years younger than me wants to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I'm a 62 yr old black female who has a 23 year old black military male who wants to get married. I'm very fit and attractive. We are very compatible, get along great. What should I do?...