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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was ...

He's back in my life but doesn't want to make a commitment.

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31 January 2011 (F) - Me and this guy is ten years apart I am 37 and he is 27. At first we were in a relationship living together. But I messed up and one of his friends saw me at a rehearsal with my ex boyfriend. Afterwards we broke up and he started seeing other ...

He's 22 but asked if I had a boyfriend, what is he looking for from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok so this guy just added me on facebook but hes like 22, and im 16 so its kind of an age gap, and we've talked and stuff , he seems nice but then he asked me if i had a bf.. i mean does it mean hes looking for anything? im not sure whether i should ...

He gave me a hug and a kiss, but I think he was wanting more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - heeeey Right i have known this lad for about 7 months now were like friends but you can see their is something more. Anyway he is 19 and i am 16 bit of an age gap but i think thats alright! I always see him out in town (clubs)as i go often and so ...

When I try to leave he tells me I'm being selfish and to think of the kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this guy who is 19 yrs older than me for three years now and we have two small children together and we live together. he doesn't want to take me anywhere. he always have an excuse on why he don't take me anywhere ...

Why is he with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hello I'm dating an older guy...I'm in my mid twenties and he's turning 40. But my main concern is..he's much more educated...he has a career and is financially stable...well traveled (he's been all over the world!), knows so many amazing people ...

She says she's hung up on the age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hey guys. I'm having some issues I guess you can say. I've fallen in love with my friend. But as the scenario is. She told me she loves me and would go out with me but she says there is an age difference and it would be weird. I know this for a fact ...

23 and in love with a 43 year old woman....will this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I am a male aged 23 years old. I am in love with a lady aged 43 years old. Can this relationship be successful? We love each other very much....

We met through an online game but now things have gone bad, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - well im a 31 year old woman who has been playing this game online for almost 3 years, ive meet a lot of great people there. well ive been playing with this one guy for a lil over 2 years we have always gotten along really well . and back in may he ...

Am I addicted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating my bf for almost 6 months. I'm 19 he's 33. Eventho he works and I go to school we used to see each other once or twice a week. We used to go out to eat and we used to have sex every time I saw him. Now he has been busy and haven't ...

Do you think he is too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Do you think this man that is 11 years older than me is too old for me. I am 20 years old he is 31 we've been together 8 months and he's just amazing, really knows how to treat a woman. I don't have a problem with the age difference and neither does ...

I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate ...

Why is he always talking about how he likes girls with dark skin when he is in a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He is 34 I'm 19. Another thing that I don't understand is that he likes dark skin girls but I'm light skin. He likes girls with a big butt and curvy but I have boobs and skinny. He likes girls with no ...

I need to absolve myself with the truth but don't know where to begin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I love dearly and passionately a man twice my age, who is married with a beautiful child. His wife and him are separated for the time being, though they have been separated before and reconciled in attempt to make the relationship work for the ...

18 year old dating a 15 year old - would he get into trouble with the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - If some was 15 almost 16 and their boyfriend was 18 and their parents said that it was ok, would he get into trouble with the law?...

Only younger boys are interested in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, im almost 24 years old female, i have in in only 2 long term relationships in my life, one lasted about 10 years,i was 10 years old when we met and we broke up when i was 20, then when i was 21 i got involved with another guy but ...

Am I just too old for my girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 56 and my girlfriend is 40. Do you think that is okay or am I just too old. I look very young for my age. Most people think that I'm in my late 40s or maybe 50. What do you think?...

Should I stay with him and hope that they learn to accept us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Ok, major dilemna in my life right now! I'm 15 going on 16 very soon and have recently begun a relationship with a 21 year old, we are both Christians and he understands that I do not want to do anything sexual with him until I am married. I honest...

I want to date her but I don't know how

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I am in love with a woman 5 years older than me. I work with her, she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, and I just don't know how I could ever make her even want me to take her out for lunch/dinner. It kills me, because I am a very ...

Reality versus Illusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In reflecting upon a relationship I had with a girl last year, I think a source of the many problems I had was my confusion of the illusion I had of her and what our relationship was with the reality. I thought I would relate a little bit about it ...

My younger boyfriend is ruining my self esteem. Was I right to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi there. I was recently in a relationship with a guy briefly. This is someone I've known for a couple of years. I'm 5 years older than him and he knew this from the onset. The problem that i have is - during our first 'get together' when w...

Why did he marry me and not give up on his affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - the man I fell in love with has been seeing a married woman for 6 years. i have been with him 4.5. we got married l year ago. he keeps calling her and telling her he loves her. he tells me to give him another chance he wont call her any more. ...

Should I go for a sugar daddy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone Ok i meet a guy online,the site was for ''sugar dadies and sugar babies'' lol so he contacted me and we had a coffee he is wonderful,rich,smart and very nice to be around with,he is 47,i am 19 yeah he can be my dad.lol he is willi...

I have a crush on a much younger woman... should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - I have a huge crush on a girl who is much younger than me (10+ years). We met at college where I am much older than most of the other students, but I have had no problem with making friends among them. I also can tell that at some point she liked ...

Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged ...

How do I get over him if he is everywhere I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I dated this guy that was a lot older than me and he left/cheated on me for another girl. It was horrible and took me a long time and a lot of emotions to finally get over him. He did apologize multiple times to me and told me that it was our age ...

Call it off or carry on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - A few weeks ago I bumped into my friends mom in a local pub. I've fancied her for ages and she came back to mine where we ended up having sex. She's a lot older than me, 45 and I'm 22. Anyway we've met each other several times since and have just ...

Girlfriend unsatisfied with the way life turned out for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating an older girl (by a few years) for a little over a year. She says she is very into me and that I am her world, as she is mine. From the start, my girl had a lot of baggage for me to handle, which I didn't mind at first because ...

Affair: I wish I could back in time and just walk out the minute I seen him

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I recently ended an affair that I've been in for seven months. If I could go back in time I would NEVER have done it. I was bored with my husband who I have been married to for 20 years. I actually thought that I could flirt around and that ...

I surely like my best friend's uncle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - My Best Friends uncle is very handsome but he's 7 years older than me. On New Year's, we'd had a drink and shared a kiss. We now talk from time to time over text and he puts kisses and calls me beautiful and speaks fondly of me. Does this mean he ...

26 year old man 18 year old female... WRONG ?????

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - 26yr old Male, interested in 18yr old female O.k. so their is this very cute girl who works at a local coffee shop, I have been interested in her for some time now. She beat me to the punch, by friending me of Facebook. We have been talking for...

Our sex life isn't what it should be!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - im 25 and my bf is 39 so far we have a good relantionship but im concern about our sex life hes sex drive isnt where i would like it to be i wanted to know do men at that age not geet in the mood to have sex as much...and how can i get hem to want ...

What makes a man emotionally attached to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - For the first time ever, I swallowed! Will this make a man appreciate you more? Not that I did it for that reason, but just wondering since I heard that if a female squirts she can become so attached to him. I did this because 1) I like givin my bf ...

21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and...

When do age differences stop being an issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - ok i need something figured out, i know that a age difference isnt the greatest in dating and if theres even a 1 year age difference in your teens everyone goes insane. but if your in your 20's 30's 40's all of a sudden there could be a 20 year ...

How to leave my needy, clingy, insecure boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend when I was quite vunerable (just got out of hospital). I had also seperated from a man who did not pay me any attention and I have a little girl who is nearly four. I was very lonely and in a bad situation. My current boyfriend ...

Feelings for uncle, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Recently I've developed this sort of crush on my divorced uncle and I don't know why. Honestly I have had a thing for him for a while but I always put it back to the back of my mind and forget about it. Plus I've had other boyfriends in the past. ...

Electra complex. When Daddy/daughter relationships go too far?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I am 23 years old and the guy that I am currently dating is thirty nine years old(he is divorced)he has a 9-yr old daughter that is a sweetheart, he gets to see her every other weekend and Im totally supportive of him being there for her, we have ...

Is there room for compromise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation. I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we mutually decided it was time to part ways, due to lifestyle differences. I am still in school and work part time, and he is done school and ...

I want to let him know I like him, but with his mother being recently deceased it's bad timing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I am in love with this man. I know I am, but I don't think at this present moment it is the best time to tell him. Just recently his mother died. I don't think I should be telling him that I do because there is a bit of an age gap and at the mome...

How can I believe that I don't have a chance with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a ...

I'm not ready to leave my boyfriend but I can't give up my husband either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I am 26 years old! I am married having 1 child of 6 years old and my husband's age is 40 years! We were used to love each other before 6 years! But just because of some family problems we went far imotionaly from each other! Because of this gap ...

Our sex life has collapsed! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hi, im 21 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 42 and i need help. We've been having trouble with intamace for over a year. We go months without touch. We were so wild and crazy 3years ago, we'd go on websites and play we had a threesum and other things i ...

Do I choose the career I've always dreamed of over my fiance, or sacrifice everything for my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I'm Indian. I'm doing my MBA from a prestigious Indian bschool. As a part of exchange program I'd come to Italy for 4 months. I met an Italian guy within 1 week of coming to Milan (who's also 13.5 years older than me...I'm 23, he's 36) and he says ...

He admitted he couldn't commit to me the first time, and now he's telling me I'm the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I have a problem. I have been seeing this man for a year and a half now. We have a really great time together and have a lot in common. I was ready to settle down and be committed to him about 8 months into the relationship. I openly discussed my ...

He won't date me until I turn 18 and is now dating someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - Okay, so this is really complicated(then again what relationship doesn't have it's complications?). Six months before I met this guy(I'm a gay guy, by the way), I had a dream about some guy of a significant age difference. We loved each other so ...

Am I being too clingy or is there a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Here we go... I am having a communication problem with my boyfriend of a year and a few months, and I don't know if it is me being clingy and needing to talk or its something else. Our normal week consists of him driving a hour and a half to...

My boyfriend is having a weird moment and now needs space!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6mo says he wants to slow down, however continues giving mixed signals. He tells me he just wants to slow down and think about things. He broke-up with his girlfriend after 3yrs and started dating me in July. He still says he has ...

I wanna be with him so bad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - theres a boy i like, for four years i've liked him and he knows.. he's really close with my brother cause they're friends, and my mom knows him.. he's cool with everyone. well, he's three years older than me and my mom said its fine if i date him.. ...

Help I've fallen for an 45 year old man!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I go secondary school and there's this teacher I like. He doent really teach anything he's a sub, but the thing is I think I've fallen in love with him. This is a big problem on its own but the other thing is he's a bit old and when i say old i mean ...