A
female
age
30-35,
*urquoise23
writes:Hello everyone Ok i meet a guy online,the site was for ''sugar dadies and sugar babies'' lol so he contacted me and we had a coffee he is wonderful,rich,smart and very nice to be around with,he is 47,i am 19 yeah he can be my dad.lol he is willing to help me out and be my friend and he wants to spend time with me.my question is how do you feel about this kind or ''ARANGMENT'' or sugar daddy sugar baby relationship? should i be with him and have my cake and eat it too? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Nadi_169  +, writes (16 March 2011):
My question is are you attracted to the man for who he is as opposed to what he earns? There is a lot to gain from a relationship that has an age gap like this one, learning from his wisdom and experience, he'll have more of an idea of what to do with your downstairs area than boys your own age (i've found most guys our age just think sticking it in does the job - girls we must stop faking for the sake of his ego!) and an older man is much more likely to open doors for you and generally treat you like a real lady. Don't worry about not being able to commit at 19, he probably doesn't expect it anyway, just have fun! After this experience you will have a better idea of what you're looking for, and better yet you will be able to teach those silly little how to be a real man!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Its ok if you like him as a person but do you only like his money?
Only you can answer that truthfully
If you like him regardless so what enjoy life
...............................
A
female
reader, AnnaW219  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 well you like this older male who's rich, smart and very nice to be around one question YOU have to ask yourself is do you like him for just them reasons or would you like to be his sugar baby because on what your saying it doesn't actually show any evidence that you fancy him or even want to commit at the age of 19 it is better to think like this and don't just go with him for his money as i am deaply sorry to say this but it is a step up from prostitution you really should make your own money the feeling of doing this is unbelievable makes you smile to realise you earned that money you put money in your pocket
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Well that depends of whether your criteria for being with a guy, is for his money or himself. In this instance, it's definitely money with you - would you consider this guy if he was a truck driver with no money? I suspect not, so it says a lot more about you, than you probably want to admit to.
Your selling yourself. Exchanging your youth for his insecurities of ageing, it's a two-way arrangement, neither very admirable or attractive, but each to their own. Don't expect a guy of a similar age will ever be impressed by this,as one day you might want to exchange money for a real relationship, and guys will see this as shallow, a kind of FWB but with money. So decide if this is what you really want and can live with.
...............................
A
female
reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (21 January 2011):
Do not do it. Make your own money and do not depend on him. He obviously has issues. Who cares about his money.
...............................
|
