New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Why did he marry me and not give up on his affair?

Tagged as: Age differences, Cheating, Marriage problems<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (21 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A female age , anonymous writes:

the man I fell in love with has been seeing a married

woman for 6 years. i have been with him 4.5. we got

married l year ago. he keeps calling her and telling

her he loves her. he tells me to give him another chance he wont call her any more. but i catch him again and again. i cannot deal with them, but why did he marry me and why can he not give her up. she

is only 45 years old and he is 80. i am 68.

View related questions: affair, fell in love

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

He is robbing the cradle.

the reason he didn't marry her is because she was already married.

Maybe the reason he married you is because he wanted someone to take care of him in declining years. He wants someone he can lean on through health problems or increasing mobility issues. But she was already married. So that's why he married you.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (21 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntYou married him knowing he was a cheater. I know you were hoping he would change, but people don't usually change unless THEY want to, really bad.

He will never break it off with her, you can count on that.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, cry United States +, writes (21 January 2011):

cry agony auntwell i would divorce him, take all the money and go on vacation . age aint nothin but a numbe honey, and we only have so long. is this how u want to live the rest of ur life? its in ur hands best of luck AK

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, thedivette United States +, writes (21 January 2011):

I hate to say it but his age might have a lot to do with it. Senility? Who knows. But I think what matters most is how the other woman takes it. If she seems receptive than you have a problem. If not, then it's just an annoying habit he has and there's nothing to worry about. But it seems like you knew this when you married him and you either have to find a way to live with it or move on.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Why did he marry me and not give up on his affair?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.125022599999284!