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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my c...

My boyfriend is always waiting for the next best thing. Why is it so hard to walk away?

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30 September 2008 (F) - well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface ...

Do I tell her I find her attractive and see what develops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi I am 46 year old who's remained married for 14 years with a wife who I still love and a lovely 7 yo daughter. I and my wife have communication difficulties and have grown less close emotionally or physically over time although we still connect ...

How do I get to know my art mentor better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and in love with somebody who seems inappropriate for me, because he's 47 years old. He's also my mentor of art performance in the school. I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. When I first met him (the year bef...

He's totally ready to take the relationship to the next level, but doesn't understand why I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Im a 19 year old girl in the usa. I have recently become involved with a 39 y.o man who is from the U.K . I greatly enjoy his company and conversation but am afraid to commit. I feel we don't have a good chance because of the age difference. I have...

I really don't know if I should continue the relationship, because I get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much. i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is th...

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...

Should I keep meeting this 19 year old, or should I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Im 13 years old, i knew this 19 year ld that lives around the corner from me, a few months now. Every one thinks hes too old for me and hes really nice, ive met up with him loads now and i really love him. I don't know weather he loves me or not, ...

My teacher comforts me about my problems, I have started to see him as a man and not a friendly teacher, how can I help this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am a 16 years old girl and is in love with my house teacher of a boarding school I live in. He is 38 years old, married, and has a 3 years old son. I was sad in my very first days in school, since I 'm not so fluent with the language of the coun...

Can a 37 year old and a 23 year old ever work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - Am I too young for this man? He is 37, I am 23. Any successes or snafus to avoid? Would this deter him from making a move on me? ...

My cousin's husband who is 31 has approached me sexually (touching me, etc) several times (I'm 16), I know it's wrong but I like it. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I'm in a sticky situation. It all started at my moms birthday when I was getting tired and went to my room to change in to pajamas. My step cousins husband then walked in an saw me changing. I tried to get away, but I couldn't. He then started maki...

My older husband doesn't satisfy me sexually.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I have a issue. I'm a 22 yr old female my husband is 34 I've been with him for 7 years married for a year. I love my husband but we have a problem sex. We use to have sex on a regular bases but now its once maybe twice every 2 weeks ( I'm young I ...

I need some impartial views on all this sillyness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - im single and i have been for about 4 months. my ex split up with me because he said he didnt love me anymore and he is now seeing another girl who i also knew at work and we got on reasonably well as she lives in the same appartment block. init...

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Cut a long story short, i am madly in love with my geography teacher. i am a 17 year old Bisexual (very nearly 18!) female and she is 25 years old and apprently also bisexual (but this has never been confirmed although i do get what some will say ...

My friendship with a late 50s man has become sexual. He's married and I am getting over sexual abuse in my past. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I'm good friends with a man who's in his late fifties and have been for quite some time. Since about April time this year, we've been seeing each other once or twice a week and been sexual. Although we've only had sexual intercourse twice, we've ...

I'm 14 year old with a 17 year old boyfriend. I just want to hang out with him, but my dad doesn't trust us.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - im a 14year old girl that has a 17 year old boyfriend that is turning 18 in two days. i really like him but my dad doesnt want me to date him and my mom think that she wouldnt care as long as she meets him. i want my dad to meet him too but i dont ...

I've been having an affair with an older woman, now my girlfriend has asked me to marry her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I'm 23 years old, and have been in a steady relationship for 2 years now. However, for the last 6 months I have been having an affair with an older women. She's 45, and I know that there's no future with this woman, but I enjoy her company. My gi...

Middle-aged guys, help! I'm 18 and he's older, but I think he likes me back... What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - One of my best friends (I'll call him Ross) used to live in a place with a few other guys up until a couple of weeks ago, when he went away to university. One of them, I'll call him Mark, I've always had a bit of a crush on. Weird thing is, he's ...

What emotional and common level would a 40ish man and 19 year old girl have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it...

I keep asking her about all these guys, now she thinks I don't trust her. Should I be worried, should I trust her? If so, how do I show her that I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend thinks that i dont trust her. There is this guy at her school that she used to like and she has just found out that he likes her. So now when she gets home and I call her the conversation usually starts off with "So did he say anything ...

My friended created an online profile of me on a dating site, I was contacted by a guy, we're in love and planning to meet but my profile lies about my age. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hello, i hope someone can help, my friend was mucking about on my laptop one night and made this fake profile for me on a dating site, she made my age to be 25, i didnt realise she did, then i checked it out one nite, and this guy had sent me an e...

My lesbian partner has no sex drive, what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 32 yr old lesbian, and i've been living with my partner for 4 yrs. We are 12 yrs apart, she is older. My question is; my partner has no sex drive, what can i do??...

I'm 17 and I live with a 44 year old, but my family don't know!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - im 17, with a 44 year old. i love him to bits and he's going through a divorce. he's got 2 kids - one just 3 weeks younger than me. im currently living with him, but my parents and freinds think im staying with a few mates i met at work. we have not ...

Is this is a good idea, or am I going to get my heart broken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Ok this is maybe gonna be a long one so here goes! When I was 16 (now 24) I met this guy, hit it off straight away and fell for him. He is 4 years older than me so nothing could really come of it and besides, he had a girlfriend at the time...

He lives in another country, he's 10 years older than me, I'm 13 and beginning to get a crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - [What is a frienemy??] Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginnin...

My younger boyfriend cheated on me. Do I put it down to age and forgive him, or do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have a question of how to move forward without torturing myself further - tips to move on. I am 39 yrs old and have been in a serious live in relationship with a 22yr old for two years. Just four months ago he followed me in a cross country mo...

I refused to give him my phone number, we often travel along and I like him, should I be friends with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i m 17,i travel to college by train.since 2 months there is this guy who travels along with me.we often stared at each other. A week ago we spoke to each other.he is working.must be 24-25 years old.he even asked for my phone number but i refused to g...

He almost never replies to my texts, but I want to know how he feels about me. What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi Cupid, So, there's a guy at school in Yr12 and I have been in love with him for about a year now, and recently I told him who I was, and that was ok, and I text him maybe once a month, because I got his phone number from where we work. Anyw...

She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}. He has been married to an a...

He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...

My girlfriend says she is a virgin but my friends say otherwise, I'm worried she is cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - iam 22 dating a girl of 17 and when ever i want to have sex with her she always refused telling me no she is a virgin and not yet time but my friends always told me that she is not and i dont know what to do cos i dont want to loose her cos i ...

Do you think he let me down gently by saying he was going out of town?? Should I go over to his house since he invited me?? He is 10 years older, by the way...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have a really big crush on my neighbor. It all started about a month ago when we started talking outside and we realized that we had a lot in common. He gave me a few signs that he was interested in me so I decided that I would ask him out. I saw ...

I'm a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - i am a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl..im also impotent but manage to satify my girl in other ways..we love each other very much..i have tried to end it with her...for her sake but she wont have it...am i being selfish in ...

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...

My 15-year-old friend is having sex with her 38-year-old uncle! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - My 15-year-old friend is dating her estranged fathers brother who is 38! They've had sex at least 10 times and she thinks she has fallen in love with him! This is disgusting! It's incest! At her party he was acting all sleazy around her, ju...

Does this older guy just want sex or could he really be interested in a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - I am interested in a older man. He is 32 and I am 21. I like him a lot and he says he likes the chase but, we have walls up between each other that we have discussed we have because we are both scared (we both told each other we were scared). I am ...

Is a massage a good way to get her to feel good about having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she might ...

Will our differences and the fact I don't miss her tear us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - My fiance and I have been engaged for 7 months now. We have been together for 3 years and haved lived about all but 9 months of those 3 years together. When we first met I told her I had every intention of moving back home (1800 miles away) soon as ...

He's eight years my senior. Advice on bringing this up to our families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - After half a year of being single and actively NOT looking for a relationship, I find myself involved with a guy again. Unlike most guys my own age, he's smart and has his sh*t together--own car, (stable) real job, etc. Here's the problem: I'm 20 ...

His older friend tells lies to get us to break up! Am I in a losing situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now. He has a best friend that is an older lady who he has known for over 10 years. He says she is like a mom to him. Every time she comes around she or he creates drama and he ends up asking me to leave. Of ...

How can he really love me if he's with someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I really need help! Jusge me if you want but I was 16 at the time and naive now I am stuck! I started to see this guy when I was 16, he was bit older than me. When we first went on a date he told me he had a girlfriend and like an idiot i carried on ...

What is your opinion on a 15 year old sleeping with a 17 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi DearCupid, I was wondering how you all feel about a fifteen year old being sexually active with a seventeen year old, just want your opinions. K, thank you (:...

I confronted him and found out he is married!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Ok Ive been in a relationship with my bf for 18 months and I love him so much, and he told me he loves me. Last night I went to give my friend a quick ring and realised I had no credit, so I went to use his (he was downstairs). I saw a message from...

Are there some ways I can make her think and feel that she is attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she migh...

My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of ...

Can I fix this relationship? I don't want to walk out on my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure what to do with my situation anymore, i am in a relationship with a 19 year old girl and i am 30, we have a 9 month old daughter, and a baby boy on the way, she also has a 2 year old son from a previous relationship. We lived together...

Can he get in trouble with the law, even if by the time our baby is born we are both of legal age and married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 17 going to be 18 in three months and have a fiance who's 26. We're going to get married in December of this year, right around the time I turn 18. Recently I found out I am pregnant and I was wondering if he could get in trouble with the law, ...

I am dating a man, who is ten years my junior, he just got custody of his two undisciplined pre-school kids, I try to help him with them, he also wants me to pay some of his bills, I feel I am being taken advantage of, please give me some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hi, please help, im dating a man that just got custody of his 2 kids, they are both preschoolers. The mom died. We had been dating almost 3 months when this happened. We were living in different cities and now he moved to my city. The kids are ...

Did I miss a small window of opportunity with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hello to all! A young lady(29) applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. She asked me if I was married and when I said ...

He complimented me on my appearance, is he playing mind games and how can I react? Ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago, went on a gap year, we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. you might recognize this ...