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writes:why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (24 September 2008):
 I can't vouch for other people. But when I was 17, a 39 year old man who'd been an immense friend of the family for quite some time confessed to me he found me attractive. Explaining, that he knew it was 'wrong' but he was unsure what to do.
We held together a relationship for an entire year, ending it on the conclusion that we were better suited as best friends. Of which, we are.
I was a very mature teenager. I knew what I was doing and I enjoyed myself, knowing what I was getting myself in to.
Anyway, I do think a relationship with an age cap has to rely on factors like common interest a lot more than 'usual' relationships do as the struggle is a lot heavier. Me and my partner shared immense qualities. We both came from very poor, divorce and anger filled backgrounds. We both loved to discuss philosophy and learn things continually.
We wanted it, and we went for it. There's no 'why' about it. Only, 'why' not?
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Well the first thing that comes in to my mind is money either the man has money or he has something about him.
I dont see what a 19 year old girl would have in common with a 40 year old man. But then again people do make it work.
A 40 year old man would be flattered by the attention of a 19 year old it's ever 40 year olds fantasy to have a younger model.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Truthly sometimes its not about an emotional connection sometimes at 40-something want a younger gal to make him feel younger
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