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writes:I'm 23 years old, and have been in a steady relationship for 2 years now. However, for the last 6 months I have been having an affair with an older women. She's 45, and I know that there's no future with this woman, but I enjoy her company.My girlfriend has just asked me to marry her, and I know that I now have to make a decision about what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): Now that I am older and wiser, I fail to understand why people so young like yourself get involved so deeply. God only knows how much I regret doing the same! You oviously want to sow your "wild oats", so go and do it! This time in your life is about having fun and being a damn fool. And, in the future, BE HONEST with women that you need to do this right now. Don't lead anyone on in anyway, just go and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): I don't get it. It seems like a pretty simple decision to me: your hot girlfriend or the old hag who only wants you for sex.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 For my input, I much agree with "sappygirl" - and to some degree with the anonymous reader that you should NOT be making any decisions that would adversely affect other's lives. In other words, with your current degree of wisdom, you should not marry anyone or promise anything.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (25 September 2008):
 If you are cheating on your girlfriend, then there is obviously something missing in your relationship with her.
Just because she ask you doesn't mean you have to say yes.
Call me old fashion but isn't the guy suppose to ask the girl?
I think you still want to have your fun before you settle down, and right now you are not ready. Stay single, and date and have fun. Get that out off your system before you tie the knot. marraige is a big deal, and if you are not 110% sure of someone, then don't do it. You'll be saving yourself a divorce later down the road
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Leave the both of them.
You clearly have no real feelings for them. This older woman deserves better (amnd should know better).
And your girlfriend definitely deserve a decent man who knows how not to think with his dick.
You sir, give all of us men a bad name and a probably one of the reasons so many women are becoming lesbians these days.
I hope you you suffer for a long time beofre making amends.
Flynn 24
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