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*he cat's pajamas
writes:Hi, I'm 16 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago, went on a gap year, we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. you might recognize this question...update: i didn't get the chance to meet up with him so opted 'worst case scenario' and decided that nothing was going to happen and started to let it go....then this week i looked on my facebook wall and he basically said that he saw me outside school and told me i was looking fit... obviously this out a huge grin on my face. seeing as before it was private messages now my wall for the whole of facebook to see???i replied and there is nothing back yetshould i...a) send a message about... (any suggestions)b) leave itc) just go for it and ask him if he really does like me or not, if he says yes do i ask him out?this is driving me insane...i want him but he is playing mind games...please give me some advice it would be much appreciated :)
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 If you really like him, then try to play it cool.
Just respond back on his page with a simple "thanks"
Short and sweet. whatever you do, don't ask him about his feelings for you and don't ask him out.
He is older than you, so you have to take it very very slow. If he is playing "mind games", then you should play them right back. Act cool & play hard to get.
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