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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Do you think a 20yr old guy is too young to be dating a mother and become a father figure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I am a 20 year old guy who is still living with his parents at the moment ( i am currently looking for a apartment to move out). i have a decent paying job and i have begun dating a 25year old mother of 1. My parents dont think im ready to do this, ...

I am married, love another man who doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I am married for the past 10 years. I married when I was 18.My husband is 12 years elder to me. I was doing my graduationwhen we got married. Now for the past 3 years , I have a relationship with this guy who is a colleague at the instituion where I ...

I'm in love with a mature lady, the problem is that my classmates are making jokes about me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I´ve got a really big problem. I´m in love with a mautre lady. The problem is that my classmates know it and they make jokes about me. The girls in my class laugh and that makes me angry!! Why cant people leave me alone. I just wa...

What should I do? Tell her about my true age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - i met my girlfriend when i was 13 she was 18,i told her i was 16,im now 23 and she's 28 what should i do/how should i tell her? (p.s we never had sex before i turned 18) i would also like to know if iwas ilegal for me to like make out with her a h...

I met my GF 6 years ago and to this day she is unaware of my real age!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - alright i have been with my girlfriend for 6 years,problem is when we met she was 20 and i was 14 but i told her i was 16 it was still young but not as bad i knew if told her my real age she wouldn't take a second look at me.im now 18 and she's ...

Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...

We are going to soon discuss our differences face to face, how can I tell him I am ready for more in spite of my young age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - my bf and i have hit a really rough patch he is talkin about breakin up as i think the age diff between us is gettin to him (am 16 and he is turnin 22) i really dont want it to be the end but he keeps talkin about how he doesnt want to rush things ...

He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife...

He's 25 and I am 16... should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i'm in love with this guy. we're in love with eachother. i'm 16, he's 25, almost 26. we're like, almost 10 years age difference. we wanta get married n 2 years, right after i finish highschool, i wanta take a year off after that anyway, and move ...

I'm 15, he's 25, is it illegal if I am with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hello i just wonderd if u could giv me some advice really i lyk this boy and hes older than me well hes older than 25 and im 15 i jst wonderd is it illegal if i am with him?? and do u think its right?? wb x ...

I'm in love with him, but he's going to be marrying the bride his family choses for him... I don't know how to cope with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi..!! i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get m...

I hate feeling this way, I hate how much this man affects me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Please, I could really use some help. I am so in love, infatuated, or whatever you want to call it, with one of my teachers, and now i can't sleep because of it. I'm so tired all the time, but I lie awake for hours trying not to think of him, yet ...

I do not want to be with her, as I know it's illegal. I seek your advice on how to get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number...

She's only 15 and I'm 18, would dating be a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I have liked his girl for a long time and we became best friends. We even had some feelings for each other. The thing is she's only 15 and im 18. I just wanted to know if that age gap is too much to date her. and if it is, does anyone have a good ...

He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am ...

I'm 17 would it be alright for a 20 year old guy to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Well I am 17 years old and I am talking to a 19 year old guy who will soon be 20 in a couple of days..at first we were just talking as friends but later we both ended up having feelings towards each other...We haven't hung out or anything like that ...

How can I move this on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I think I'm in love. I can't stop thinking about this man, he is so sweet towards me and affectionate and calls me babes and gives me warm kisses on the face, but still I'm unsure. He is younger than me 30 but I can't help having feelings for him. ...

Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?...

Am I just an obsessed teenager that magnifies and thinks about everything he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I really like this guy and he's my best friend's step brother. I live with my best friend, her mom, and her step dad. The guy I like's name is Jack. Jack comes up every weekend from college and we talk to eachother at night for a really long time. ...

I am dating a younger guy but worried,,, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi i am a 21 yr old women who loves my 17yr old friend. He said he feels the same way and has for 1 year now but i have only got really strong feelings for him over last few months. I am although concerned about his age and what my family and ...

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

I'm 23 and my 15 year old nephew got me pregnant!

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Im 23 and my 15 year old nephew impregnated me! I want to keep the baby because I love him but he tells me he cant. Im so confused I love him and Ill love our child just as much. Advice?...

I'm 17, my teacher is 27. I have a crush...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This ...

I went off my teacher but I'm falling for him again!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hey!! Ok now i had been in love with my teacher for about 9 months and felt as if it was ever gonna end.The school had loads of holidays and i thought i would get over him but i just never!But then we had two weeks off and thought i was going to...

My boyfriend has a 45 year old female friend that he helped record erotic videos in the past. I cannot think of her without feeling repulsed and slightly threatened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Basically, my boyfriend has a 45 year old female friend. A lot has come out about her recently - namely that she is married with three kids, and she is seeing people behind her husband's back. She's obviously unhappily married. Not just that,...

I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...

Is he just being friendly or is it more ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - i have a thing for my teacher... well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used...

I have this teacher. I am 17, & he just turned 29..........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I have this teacher. I am 17, and he just turned 29. Anyway, the attention I began to receive were, in my opinion, just regular expressions of favoritism but then my friends are telling me otherwise. I will list them in order. He picks me too fre...

What's the big deal with a guy being younger than a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

22 May 2008 (M) - yeah so I'm 15 and I like my friends who's 16. I asked her out and she likes me but she thinks its wierd being with a younger guy. Most girls think this but I don't get it. I know I don't act like I'm a yr younger or she woulnt stand me. All it is ...

Age gap relationship advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, Im 26 and my b/f is 47 and we've very much in love. We've been seeing each other since I was 18, so almost 8 years now. We have a complicated relationship, he was with someone else until about a year and a half ago, which I knew ...

This is serious. I need help! How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - So he is 10 years older then me. He is a great guy. Im 18 and this would be the second time ive fallen in love. The first time it was with a guy who was 4 years older then me. We dated for 3 years. from the time i was 14. It was serious until he ...

Should I let go of all the feeling I have for her? It's very difficult and I don't think I can.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Hello im 16 years old and i am in love with this girl. i cannot stop thinking about her and she literally means everything to me. we are good close friends, and i want to go out with her. however there is one problem; she is 18! a two year gap...is...

I want so much to be more than just friends with her! Help me out please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) - Hi all i'm back again thanks all for the help on my last Q but that is not why im here i have a new problem. I have known a girl just over 2 years now, she is younger than me and we met through a friend, we get on a like a house on fire. She cou...

Is he being honest and true about me, and the possibility of a relationship between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hello there! I've been seeing this guy by now 4 times in three months and talking on the phone many times. The last time we spent together was last saturday from 9:30am till 11:30pm. He wanted me to go to his place and meet his cats, after he showed ...

We have an age gap. Will it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi I am 23 and i am living with a man who is 46. we have been living together 3 1/2 months. He and i share similar opinions, leisure time preferences, ideas, jokes, hobbies etc, even though unlike the usual "older man younger woman" scenario ...

Can I ever forget him or is this a silly phase I'm going though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi all, I worked with a much older guy (30 years older than me). A few months back, he admitted that he fell in love with me the day he met me, he said he never got this before, it was like electricity in the air. I didn't feel it at the time. ...

I need advice from a male or male teacher about a male teacher! Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Okay i have a question. yes this is one of many of those teacher student relationship questions, but this time i was wondering if there were any males or actual teachers out there that could give advice rather than women. not that girls dont give ...

So, can anyone explain why the adults seem to talk amongst themselves and ignore jazzy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - is it just me? i live with quite a few adults and sometimes i just feel ignored! i know im walking in deep water here seeing as most of the agony aunts are adults so i dont mean any offense to any adults when i say this. i dont know, can an...

Have developed feelings for a good family friend. Problem is I'm 18 and he's 42.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for years, he's a good family friend. The problem is around 2 years ago I realized that I had very deep feelings for him that fall beyond the line of friendship. I'm 18 and he's 42. Normally, this would bother me, but given th...

I'm afraid that he will cheat on me. 23 years between us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - 23 years between us, both been thru alot, and i am way way inlove, if anythings happenes to us im not afraid to say that i wud be able to live without him,we broke up for a week becuase i got drunk and kissed another bloke, i took an overdose, ...

How to make sure I am satisfying my older lover? I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - help!! there is 23 years between me n my boyfriend, we have been together for 5 months and only started having sex 2 months ago, he is quite experience, even thou he denies that he has been with over 10 girls, but we joke bout it, i love him so m...

WOMEN: Have you ever dated an older man? MEN: Any insight on younger women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Women : Have you ever dated an older man? If you have, how young were you when you first dated an older man, and what was it like? Age gap? Men: Any insight on younger women? I’m 23, she’s 19. I’ve always dated women my age or a couple ...

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was ...

My match is 10 years younger, which worries me. Share your experience please, if you've lived a similar situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - Has any woman had a long-term relationship with a man at least 10 yrs younger than her, how did it go? i have met a very mature man that is 10 yrs younger than me and it is getting serious but i have some concerns about the age, i look very young ...

I love my baby's father, but he has destroyed me emotionally, tell me what you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I am 22 year old, who had or have a relationship with a 42 year old man, and a 5 months baby boy. Since we started he has been lying and cheating on me, but i always forgive him, i feel that i can't take anymore, i am so depressed i feel i should ...

How do I get rid of my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I think i have a crush on this guy who is older than me, i hate having a crush on him because i dont think anything will ever happen, how do i get rid of it?...

Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?...

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

Are there no mature women interested in young guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - I love mature women but I am young (16). Its hard when you know you probably can't have sex with an older woman at a young age. I just don't know what to do....

Age Gap!-It is so hard dating him without friendship support

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - Okay. I am dating a guy who is 20. I am 15. I know we should not be dating but we are in love. Some are my friends are telling me to leave him but I can't. It is so hard dating him without friendship support. I don't know what to do. I wanna be with ...