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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's the best way to get over someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - What's the best way to get over the ending of a long term relationship? I broke up with her almost two months ago and I'm still finding the grief hard to cope with. I think about her an awful lot still and at times I'm still very upset and anxious and uncertain about the ... (247 words)

I'm falling for him! (But cannot afford to)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Been a while. So here's the deal: I'm now in my mid thirties and very single. I've been happy about my life so far. I got out of a toxic relationship about 5 years ago and have not dated since then. I've been enjoying my freedom until the most amazing man came... (306 words)

Am I terrible for thinking about other men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I am a happily married 31 year old woman, i have been with my husband for 10 years and feel like our relationship couldnt get any stronger. However, i spend more and more time fantastizing about other men, about the romance, about that amazing passionate toe c... (152 words)

Do other people get so tired of being oppressed for so long that one day they just snap like I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the Fourth of July my boyfriend got mad at me because he thought my American shorts I wanted to wear were too slutty so I didn't wear them but I could tell it kind of made him in a bad mood for awhile. We went to a park to watch fireworks with his brother and all had a few ... (451 words)

Anxious in new relationship for no reason - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3444 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I was wondering if anyone had any general tips for helping control insecurities? I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and he is honestly amazing, such a lovely guy. It's me that's the problem! I feel like I am too attached to him already and I wi... (269 words)

My last relationship didn't end well and now I'm worried this new one may not end well because I no longer trust my judgment!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My last relationship did not end well. We were together for 6 years, the last 2 or so of which we weren't happy as we had grown apart and weren't right for eachother anymore (I was only 18 when we got together, 15 when we met). After forcing it for too long it eventually cr... (497 words)

I didn't think I liked him as more than a friend, but once he started dating someone else I changed my mind. He broke up with her and now I'm worried I made a mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known my boyfriend for 5 years and we have always been very good friends. He liked me a lot for around the last 2 years and although I thought about him a lot and cared for him greatly my feelings were mainly platonic. He confessed his love for me around Christmas time ... (153 words)

We've been talking for 8 months and still no sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help..Ive been talking to this girl for about almost 8 months and we havent had sex yet. She telling me to wait and I'll ask for it when i want too. Im really into this girl, always bring her out, pay, buy surprise gifts and love talking to her. I havent really pressured ... (98 words)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) age 30-35 - I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get the same female beauty id... (698 words)

How do I keep myself from getting attached to my female FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, Please can you advise me how to not get so attached to a girl that I'm being casual with? We speak everyday, but I want to just keep it to fwb only. Thank you ... (42 words)

What do you think of men secretly taking nude photos and videos of their wives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I've visited some forums about men secretly taking pictures of their wives while they are nude, either during sexual contact and without them being aware in other areas, such as disrobing. According to the forums some of the men do this because their wife has told them no and... (309 words)

I'm being used by every man in my life and constantly controlled

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep ending up in two types of relationships and I have no idea how this keeps happening! I either end up in one where it becomes nothing but sex, or one where the guy WILL NOT let me not date him or break up with him. The guys who DO want a relationship are complete ... (1611 words)

How do I fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I need help falling out of love. I feel very strongly for a girl and, for reasons I won't divulge here, there is absolutely zero chance of having a relationship with her. Any advice on falling out of love? Thanks in advance.... (50 words)

Partner says relationship with my son is not normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Opinions please... My son is ten and it's been me and him on our own since he was a baby. He is very much a mummies boy and we have a great relationship. I have been in a relationship with an older man for several years on and off. He doesn't live with us but visits ... (287 words)

Why didn't this man take his chance to take things further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Why did he lead me on and then vanish? I recently met a man who was 51 on a dating site! He was consistent in his chase, then the spooning pics started and on our 4th date he gave all the signals that he was thinking of inviting me to spend the night! He never actually took me... (253 words)

My boyfriend is spending time with his kid's Mum, am I right to be annoyed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - ? Boyfriend Spending Time With kids mom So basically, ive been seeing a guy for 6 months now, we both have one child each. When we first got together him and his ex (who he was with for 8 years, broken up 2 years) weren't on great terms but more lately they are on good ... (212 words)

Its been a year but I'm still stuck on her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I am a 16 year old male and a year ago I dated a girl who I believed had everything in common with me but after a while of us dating she had to move and the long distance destroyed our relationship it's been about a year now and I've tried dating other people but it seems that ... (90 words)

Do all men crave sexual variety?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) age 36-40 - Are there men who do not thinking about screwing other women when they are either in a committed relationship or married? Do all men crave sexual variety?... (27 words)

What is more person in relating to people, and why does it get awkward or at times distant when face to face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Example: you send a tweet or a social media message or a text to someone and when yu meet in person it may be: hard to make conversation a little awkward maybe they may be cold or seem uninterested why cant written communication that is warm and ok.. translat... (329 words)

Monogamous person in a polyamorous relationship. Suggestions/thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I would like to detail about a predicament that has risen within the past few weeks involving a close friend of mine and a potential relationship occurring with her and would really appreciate any insight regarding this. Let me give a little backstory. I met... (513 words)

Meeting people you admire and being disapointed, it is ok to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently a friend met a theatre actress after a stage show she admired, and though the actress took a photo with her ( and even sent a tweet the next day,)she seemed rushed when she her and others and not interested in chatting There were not many people waiting t... (236 words)

I didn't handle things well with this girl should I even try to contact her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - About this time last year I started speaking to a girl on an online dating website. We talked pretty freely and I was genuinely starting to like her. We had begun to make preparations to meet for a date, when I got an offer to move abroad for work. I decided to take the offe... (267 words)

We are both out of work and he says he is aggravated and has issues with his son. Is that enough to cause him to not want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for guys to be distant and not want sex when they are stressed? We live together and are both out of work. He is also having issues with his son.He just says he is aggravated. Not sure how to handle this. He says we are around each other all day but really we do... (76 words)

My parents will not respect my privacy and I don't know how to respond to their intrusiveness. What can I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) age 30-35 - I am an adult woman who is still currently living with my parents while I'm still in college. My issue is my parents are very nosey and are always wanting to be in my business and I don't really understand why. This has start to become very stressful for me. They bot... (197 words)

How do I inform my family I'm moving in with my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - As of lately things between my mother and i have grown increasingly more strained. It has gotten to a point where we had a very big agrument and she refused to see what i was telling her. I was telling her that her opiate abuse had taken a heavy toll on my siblings and i, not ... (320 words)

Am I the problem? Have social media issues and everything is conflict and a battle with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

7 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, social media issue unfortunately.. I have been dating my partner for two and a half years. I have been widow for over three years, he had a relationship before me that lasted around three years. Through our relationship our exes would be brought up from either my partne... (496 words)