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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friends want him gone. Am I crazy for trying to still accomodate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's my situation. I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2 1/2 years. We have been friends for almost 10. I thought we could make it work but we both have issues and we've come to a point where I broke up with him because we weren't making progress, and we have the... (334 words)

My fantasy of a three-some with my wife is on my mind. And it will not go away. Any advice from those who have tried to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) age 51-59 - I have a long time fantasy that wants me to see my wife having sex with another guy. I have been reading Q and A's on this forum for a long time. I have read everything that very nice folks here have to say about threesomes not being a good idea, etc. However, I don't... (385 words)

Virgin, 19, Anxious, and worried about how, when and where I'm ever going to meet someone and have a relationship. What can I do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - This is my first time trying something like this but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. Okay, so I'm a 19 year old male who is still a virgin which is one of the things bothering me. I broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago and since then I haven't so much as held han... (329 words)

Why am I still so jealous and what do I do about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Why am I still so jealous? I had a fall out with a girl over a guy not so long ago - she was seeing him, but so was I prior to that too! We made it up again later (as I knew there is no point falling out over a man) but the thing is - it's hard to just pretend that nothing ... (166 words)

Am I being pressured into commitment by this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for almost three months. He's in his early 30s. From the first time we went out he told me a bit about himself, he also mentioned to have been previously engaged. I am in my mid twenties and from that he said I should be thinking of having kids before ... (162 words)

My close male friend's behavior seems like a slap in the face. I don't know what to make of it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age - I'm a little baffled by the behavior of a close male friend who wants to be more. He otherwise is very engaging and warm but when there is any type of problem that I may be stressed, saddened or angered about and nothing having to do with him, he starts feeling uncomfortable. ... (299 words)

We got along great, one time of oral sex and now he says I'm vindictive and he treats me like a sister. What did I do wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - met a guy about a month ago. we spent a lot of time together, got along great. first time in a long time that I found someone worth trying for. everything was going so well that I thought naturally we should just take it to the next level, as there was talk about it, and plenty ... (762 words)

One year and I still think of him. Does it get easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been one year now and I still think of him. I tried to keep myself busy most of the time; I have read a lot how to get rid of infatuation( if you call this infatuation) and I understand it takes time to heal. It is less painful and less thought consuming... I left kn... (283 words)

I am scared he is saying all this to just sleep with me again and leave me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please advise. A year and a half ago I came across my teenage love on facebook. He lost his virginity to me and was really into me. I was not a nice person back then and I broke his heart. So 15 years later I have grown up matured I'm in a caring profession and I am divor... (414 words)

Should see this long distance through until my girlfriend moves back in September? or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had a very stable relationship with my girlfriend for 2 years now. We rarely ever get into arguments, I think I can remember 1 in our 2 year relationship. We also recently went on holiday together for a week, which was absolutely amazing. We met at university and I... (760 words)

Should I tell him that I was a virgin when we met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy now for some time. We've had sex, and I enjoy it but I've been harbouring this little secret since our first time. He has no idea that I was a virgin before I met him. It's been about three months now and it's not something that'll bother me, but i... (73 words)

Fiance had a drink with a business partner despite promising me that he wouldn't touch alcohol till October. Is he a liar? Does he no longer truly love me? Does he not respect me or our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i need urgent advice, as i am unsure as to what i must or should do, within my relationship. My fiance has always vowed, that since we fell in love, that he was no heavy drinker, that he was only a social drinker, which is fine, as i am too and i knew this part from ... (1424 words)

How can I modify girl on top position to make it more comfortable for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) age 36-40 - Hi guys. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about six months and we have been having sex regularly for the last few months. And yes it is amazing. My only issue is that when I'm on top I can't seem to hold him in and my legs cramp easily after about five minutes ... (122 words)

Should I forget about sleeping with her because I ccan't protect myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have sex with a girl but I think she practises safe sex and have had girls and guys before. I don't know what to do because I don't want to get anything because she's slept around and I know she doesn't use condoms. So should I try forget about sleeping with he... (80 words)

Due to have sex tomorrow, should I just accept that he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I'm 18 years old and I am a size 14 in the UK, however in some shops I am a size 12. Size 14 in the UK is now considered as plus size (even though I have no idea why) so technically I am classed as a plus size woman. I am 5"3 ... (508 words)

If a husband finds out his wife lied about multiple sexual partners, how should he deal with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - If a husband who was virgin before marriage finds out his wife had multiple sexual partners and hook ups before marriage and lied about it, then how should the husband deal with it?... (33 words)

How is it possible for him to feel aroused, when we were arguing and so angry at each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

17 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - We were in the middle of a heated argument and I noticed he had a hard-on. Later he disclosed that he was so hard he had wanted to rip off my clothes and have sex right then right there. How is it possible to feel that way when you are so angry at each other? We've had grea... (69 words)