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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think spending time apart can mend this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I live with my boyfriend of four years lived together two and things the past year have been hard. He has recently told me that he does love me but he has fallen out of love with me and feels the only way to see if we can ever get back to what we were is to be apart for awhi... (138 words)

Guy sending me a girl's photo? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, so here is a guy that I saw at a party then he added me later on social media and talked to me. At first he kept asking normal question and convo lasted for a 15 minutes maximum. He talked to me again after a week or so and also did the same as before. I met hi... (416 words)

This is my first serious relationship. I need advice please on my three big questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, So my boyfriend and I are going to different high schools this upcoming school year and he's not really worried. He's confident that we will be just fine together. I on the other hand am less worried than I used to be but I'm still worried. I think it's going to... (311 words)

Is this acceptable? Recently started dating but he wants that fact to remain a secret.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - We recently started dating and he told me he wants us to stay a secret. My family knows but he is afraid his conservative dad will be upset with him. I know I need to wait to see if this relationship is going anywhere but is this a red flag? Should I not be with this guy? I ... (70 words)

It is possible that a guy doesn't know if he cums or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is rather embarrassing to ask but how does guy not tell if he cums or not? I mean is that normal? My fiancé and i wanted to try something neither of us have done before so we decided to have sex in water. He said hed pull out before he came but when he did pull out ... (96 words)

Should I make a final attempt to salvage a friendship? Or just let it die a slow death?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I make a final attempt to salvage a friendship? Best friend and I had a major falling out several months ago and the friendship just hasn't been the same. She apologized for what happened, and I told her I was going to try to accept that and move on. Problem is-I ju... (238 words)

Can I trust my female friend? I know she is lying to me but I'm unsure of why she is

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Can I trust my female friend? A friend who I thought was a friend is seeing a guy I like behind my back. I know it is none of my business - but when I confronted her she played it down and pretended nothing was going on, when all I wanted was an honest answer. I know sh... (173 words)

Does anyone have any ideas about study dates for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, So my boyfriend and I are going to different highschools this upcoming school year and he's not really worried, he's confident that we will be just fine together. I on the other hand am less worried than I used to be but I'm still worried. I think it's going to be sorta di... (295 words)

I know he doesn't want to be with me, I don't necessarily want him but I don't want to be used!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently met a man but I am struggling with how I feel. Basically he is one of those people who gets with a lot of women and is very casual, and seems somewhat hung up over his ex-girlfriend. He says things like 'It would work now but he's got a girlfriend and I am glad ... (287 words)

How can I build up the strength to NOT go back to him? His behaviour has been inconsistent and confusing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help finding out how to move on from a terrible, emotionally abusive relationship which has destroyed me. I have been involved with a guy for around eight months. When we first got together, he told me he was kind of involved with someone else but that it... (1289 words)

My older sister will need to know I'm moving out. But how do I break the news to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i plan on getting a place together once he gets done with harvest. We will be saving up before hand and are working. While living together both of us will be going to school, im currently attending already. The hard part is that isn't, i have an older sister a... (661 words)

I do not want to marry or have children. My mother thinks this is an unhealthy attitide

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am someone who does not want to get married or have children and would like to get some input on others who have made this decision. I am not anti social or anything, but I enjoy being and living alone. I work and have friends and go out occasionally, but I feel as I can ... (118 words)

She says she loves me and I know she does - she's afraid something is missing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. I'm in my early 30s, she is in her late 20s. We both live in the same city but for the past 6 months I've been traveling off and on to Asia. I am typically home for about 8 days before returning back ... (346 words)

How do I understand my girlfriend's anatomy and what she likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf and I are 18 and we have been dating for the past school year. We are considering having sex. How do I understand her anatomy and what she likes? Can I ask my gf to show me what feels good sexually for her? How can I do that? Can good sex depend on the emotional ... (76 words)

Why is my boyfriend allowing his parents to control his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So...I met this guy online about 7 months ago. We hit it off as soon as we met in person about a month later, and the rest has been history, except for a few insecurities that I am starting to have. He's my age (24..25 this year), and is graduating from college next mon... (477 words)

I want to give oral sex to my girlfriend, but unsure how to proceed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

13 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I really want to give oral sex to my girl, however I am really inexperienced. Her vagina is really "salty" and has a slight unpleasing smell. I can feel it on my fingers whenever I finger her, and it tastes salty. From doing my own research, the saltiness is nor... (122 words)

My girlfriend doesn't like me going to porn sites but she doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently my girlfriend became upset when she found porn sites in the history of my phone and she asked me to stop looking at them. I understand where she is coming from but over the last several months the amount of sex we have has declined to about once or twice a month. I ... (123 words)