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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

One drunken kiss--do I tell my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Please give me some advice guys on this dilemma I face, I cant talk to anyone in real life about this, so you guys are my only hope. So my fiance and I are together six years, engaged four. We got engaged very young, and we were dealing with life struggles and ... (560 words)

How can I tell him that his clothes are putting me off him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age - I met a very nice man online and we've been on a few dates and have got on really well. Nothing physical has happened between us. Before we actually met we chatted a lot online and he ticked a lot of the boxes in what I'm looking for - we share the same interests, he's kind, ... (223 words)

How do I regain my dignity back after lashing out at my cheating ex and friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discovered that actually - the a... (249 words)

How can I tell online date not to be so clingy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ,im planning on meeting my online date this weekend we get on and everything has been going good , the only thing thats 'doing my head in' is he messages me to say morning and then couple of messages through the day and a chat at night then its always a goodnight message . i ... (261 words)

I'm a parent myself but my parents are keeping me trapped and treat me like a child

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have always treated me like a child and now that I'm an adult with my own child, they've gotten even worse! When friends (the ones I have left), friends I'm trying to make (doesn't work), or guys I try to talk to see this, they laugh in my face. Either they follow ... (1591 words)

I don't like the way he treated me. Does he not have a conscience? Or did he just never care? Or is he trying to get over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - 1997- 1998: Was in David's school. He was my school mate. Wasn’t really his friend but just a classmate. Sept 2014: Started working at a local Retail store Pharmacy. Saw David there. We chatted and exchanged numbers but he was getting over a break up from someone at the time... (242 words)

Why do I feel bad about placing my mom in a home when I have done all I could for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I take care of my parent I have been doing this for some years now.My mom legs are off do to diabetes I have other sibling but I get no help.In thinking of placing her in a home but I feel really bad I feel like I am abandoning my mom what can u do.In working two ... (83 words)

He said he wants to get over me and deleted me on fb

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Help all, I was dating with this guy for 3 months and we were on and off. We were friends on fb. Evert single time I went out, I poster my pictures and he liked it and texted me how was my dinner date or Etc... He was trying to learn i guess if I was talking to someone ... (127 words)

My husband's love of porn sluts makes me second best!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

31 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband tells me he loves the 'porn sluts ' as he calls them . I am beginning to think he finds them sexier and more interesting than me I asked him what he likes and he says they look hot . I am adventurous and look after myself plus im his wife but this love of these wo... (69 words)

I want to know his thoughts about our dating future but I'm afraid to ask

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age - I have been divorced for 20 years, dating but without commitment. Seven months ago I met a recently widowed man (whose family I had known for years, but not him). I am 78 and he is 72. I want to know his thoughts about our future together, but afraid to ask. HOw should I a... (67 words)

Help me with my craziness! Its like I enjoy being angry at my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys :) I am just wanting a bit of advice about overcoming my Craziness. Recently I have been feeling more and more upset with Some things that my boyfriend does. Little things will upset me or I ll get in my head about a certain things. At the time I am positive its his ... (125 words)

All my friends are moving on, dating ect and I feel left behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Well you may not know this but this is the 5th time I wrote here in an ever increasing attempt to turn my life around. Let me start by saying...yes i have experience with women and the only reason i 'll act the way i am now because being alone is tearing me apart. Ive been sin... (276 words)

I'm 15 and in love with my 30 year old principal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 15 and in love with my principal. He's around 30. I know it's not a crush; I joined this school last year and I just liked him last year; I tried to forget him, but my love for him just keeps increasing. All the other girls in my class also like him, but I don't understand ... (73 words)

Is this man using me as a back up or did he actually like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I give this guy another chance? I recently met a guy on match, he is 11 yrs older than myself and is early 50s. We met at least on 5 occasions. The last time I stayed over at his place, we got a little intimate but we never went all the way. I was left a bit confused b... (223 words)

My neighbor and I hooked up 4 times and then broke things off. Now I feel like I need to move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my neighbor is a 28 single, bachelor, and i'm a 28 single, bachelorrette.. who both work full time...one night he came over to hang out with me, we played video games, talked and had wine..prior to that, we had gone out on one date...I really enjoyed his company when he ... (228 words)

We were taking it slow and then there was a complete 180, what do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

30 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 years ago a friend of mine showed me the instagram of a friend. She commented on a picture of us together and inquired who I was. I could tell from her pictures that she was gorgeous and outgoing. Real life of the party type of girl. Well, around February I final... (456 words)

Can a man live without sex in a marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a married man in his mid 40's stay happily married if his wife doesn't want sex anymore? And I'm talking years now? Can a man live without sex in a marriage? ... (32 words)

My fiance is a sex addict and it feels like our relationship is just about sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My Fiancé and I have been together a year. We have always enjoyed sex and have it quite frequently, 4 to 6 times a week. The thing is though I feel as though my sex drive is going down and I don't want it as much and his is going up and always complains that we don't have it ... (120 words)

My girlfriend knows our relationship is one sided but does nothing to change it. Should I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is a short question. I do everything for my girlfriend. I cook for her, drive her, buy her things, etc and I feel she does little in return. On a few occasions she has even said I know I do nothing to contribute, does that bother you? I always kinda shrug it off ... (109 words)

How do I get over him cheating? And to add to my woes he got into a better university than me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So its been 6 months since my ex cheated on me at a party and I found out by looking at his phone he didnt regret when I said I wanted to talk about it he left and I never saw him other than at school. I went to the same school he did because I was following him now he is go... (170 words)

Single Mothers: does it ever get any easier in the absence of your child's father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) age 36-40 - This is a question for any single mothers out there: does it ever get easier without your children's father? My problem isn't regarding financial support, but the emotional side of the situation. My son's father has been absent since his birth. For a while, he kept in touch but ... (170 words)

Obsessed with a girl in my class. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

30 July 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on as i don't want anyone to know. ... (80 words)

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

30 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. She knows my parents, I know ... (497 words)

Should I be concerned that my Bf is asking for ''space'' when it's all been going so well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My question: Should I be concerned about my boyfriend asking for space when everything has been going so well? Also, did I respond in a good way when he asked for space? Background information: I have been in a LDR for a few months with a man who lives about 5 hours away. We... (594 words)

Used a fake name on a dating site. Then chatted there with a great guy. How do I break this news to this great guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. In a bit of a small situation that I'm tryin to get out of and I would appreciate a little help. I joined a dating site last week. I started chatting to this guy who is great. Exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth since. Thing is I gave him a wrong name. Not ... (125 words)

I would have loved to go out with him. But was he genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Omg there's this guy who I find very attractive. He lives two hours away from me and he's a cop at the weekend. we hit it rite off talking etc he asked would I go home with him and I said I'm not into one night stands. When he heard this he was a little surprised but a... (185 words)

I can be argumentative when provoked, but I know that I'm not a cruel person that deserves to be bullied. Am I being too sensitive about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a group of friends who I consider myself very close to, which consists of 2 boys, 2 girls (including me). Both boys are culprits of teasing, but one especially, let's call him Jason, tends to go way overboard. Every time I say something, it's like he wants to ... (445 words)

Frenemies or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age - I hope all are enjoying summer and thank all who respond to my question. So some background.A couple of weeks ago I brought two friends and a woman I met recently to a girls night out.It was a good time and we decided to meet again last week. The new acquaintance had us ov... (432 words)

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who told me he loved right afte... (374 words)

We're both bisexual. Do you guys think he may fancy me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay.. so basically I am really awful at knowing when someone may fancy me and half the time if someone does like me.. I don't realize until they tell me years later, which is normally down to low self esteem, so I thought I would ask you guys for help on a particular guy I ... (964 words)

We've been together 6 years and still his ex keeps contacting him. How can this woman be discouraged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age - Dear cupid me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and his ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She keeps pushing him about wanting to know if he is still in love with her. What can we do about her ... (45 words)

I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all because we had a bad fallout ov... (177 words)

Why should I date someone who'll still be in prison until 2016?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I've been single for the past 2 years because i have lost my boyfriend from suicide. Currently i'm studying on a distance learning program. As we mostly discuss our studies online and leaving our contact details for study group. So there was this guy who got my conta... (192 words)

Unrequited love. It's been so long, but I can't get over him. Should I call him to ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me back. We continued being ... (454 words)

What's an assertive, direct, funny response to their hot and cold dating behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - A recurring situation is I'll go on a date with anothe gay guy. thing seem to go well. They'll send me a thankyou message after, and continue small talk here and there. I'm pretty direct and will try to lock off a second date, thats when they start to get flakey and non-comm... (160 words)

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently - when I found out ( through anothe... (192 words)

What choices are there for me to consider? I don't want my son subjected to all this tension any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am in a situation where my one and a half year old son, fiancee, and myself are living together with her mom and dad's house so we can save money. Of course it has turned into a complete disaster. My fiancee and I now argue over things like me trying to tell my son not ... (364 words)

How to make a complicated situation better? Do I have a chance with my baby's dad as in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy I've been into for a really long time. We always would flirt and it seems like there was something there between us. Well we complicated things by hooking up and had a baby. The damaging part is that when I found out I was pregnant I was dating my ex so he assu... (274 words)

What can I do? First he refused me. Then I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

29 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me!!! I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!! Early that night I wanted to have sex with my husband. I kissed and touched him, but he was too busy playing with his phone and completely ignored me. I fell asleep after tha... (118 words)

Are guys playing games when they first act interested towards a girl and then choose to ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, i really need guys to answer this questiom, or girls due to their experience with dating. So, ive been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I've met him at a party actually, and he said hi to me and tried to talk to me but he looked shy and nervous. A ... (383 words)

Husband on website talking about strap on sex, blood in his underwear! Am I just deluding myself into thinking he is not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no family to turn to .... so ... (219 words)

My boyfriend and I aren't texting as much. Should I be worried? What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 July 2015 (?) age 36-40 - Hi guys. Me and my boyfriend used to text everyday and it would be a mix of him texting first and then me. However lately the texting seems to have reduced. Should I be worried and what should I do? Any advice would be appreciated x... (51 words)

I really dislike my rude in-laws

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, This is more family relationship advice needed. Basically, I am really struggling to get along with my in-laws. Every single one of them are just horrible people. My husbands mother is not involved because she abandoned him when he was young, his dad is rude an... (459 words)

How do you stop making the same mistakes and actually be a better person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you stop making the same mistakes and actually be a better person? I can get so over emotional when I am angry and I literally can say the most hurtful things to the people that I care about the MOST. It's actually disgusting the things I can say and I know I deserve n... (230 words)

We've been dating a month. Am I setting myself up by thinking he's special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Five years ago I made a list of qualities I wanted in a man. To my surprise, he actually existed-right down to the blue-green eyes and hometown. This freaked me out a bit but hey, coincidences happen right? Anyway, I enjoy him a lot. We've been comfortable with each other from ... (251 words)

A request to watch over someone has turned into a big family feud!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is twisted and I'm stressing over it a lot. There's this guy who happens to be my aunt's husband's nephew. I met him a few months back and liked him. I hit him up and we started talking, but then I got caught and my mom and aunt were furious. (This stuff is frowned ... (297 words)

Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning of getting the bigger picture, so... (608 words)

I messed up with my crush, now what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3423 days ago

28 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I messed up with my crush. We've been in the same class for a few months and only recently he's started flirting...at least I think he's flirting...I have zero experience with that..but my bestie assures me he's flirting. Here's what he does -talks to me in class all ... (231 words)

Should I be cautious? I am not sure about his Tinder past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been chatting to a guy online and we seem quite similar in our outlook. He said he had a longterm relationship and then went on the dating app tinder and slept with 5-6 women as only wanted something casual but realised he wanted more. This stopped me in my tracks. ... (103 words)

Friendship only: How can I tell him that I want friendship and no more than that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age - Hello everyone A couple of months ago I met a man. We're both in our late 50s and single. We live about 100 miles apart and have met up four times and had a great time. He always gives me big hugs hello and goodbye, and he bought me flowers the first time he visited me... (262 words)