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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I seeing this clearly? What can I do? It looks like my boyfriend's mother wants him to emotionally fill her husbands shoes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, This problem is like a festering wound that will not go away. I feel the relationship between my boyfriend and his mother is a bit unusual sometimes or weird. Now before I go on about what is happening I strongly believe people need to have a healthy relationship w... (1291 words)

I genuinely want a future with this man. What is a good way to pull him back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Relationship for 4 1/2 years we live together and there has been some problems. I love this man and genuinely want a future with him. Our problems have stemmed from his behavior not mine. Recently he has told me he is moving out letting his house be short sold and we are... (112 words)

Do I love him or just really miss him? Where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) age 26-29 - I was very close friends with my co - worker. We got along so well and everyone could see that. We were always messing around and everybody used to make 'lovebird' comments but I never thought anything of it. My thoughts were that we were friends (he has a girlfriend anyway). ... (366 words)

I'm not a very good talker - is an email suitable to break up medium?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years, engaged for one, but 18 months ago it became long distance of about 4 hours due to monetary issues. For the past 3-4 months, however, I've been doubting about where we're going next and it's come to the point ... (283 words)

Stuck in a rut. Looking for a job. Also have debts to pay. How can I get out of this rut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year old single mum, recently came out of a long term relationship with my child's dad. My child is 5 so I fell pregnant not long after leaving school, I have been a stay at home parent plus studying too. My studies have now ended, now I just don't know what to do wi... (281 words)

But how can I tell which applies? I know I'm either straight, bi-curious or bisexual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Kinda confused on my sexuality right now. I know i'm either straight, bi-curious or bisexual. I know i'm not a lesbian because i'm definitely attracted emotionally, romantically and sexually to men. However, ever since I was younger and could comprehend sexual things, i... (104 words)

Have I just been very naive in thinking that this girl genuinely liked me in spite of the fact that she has three or four other guys on the go or was it reasonable for me to assume that she had a genuine interest in me because of her explicitly sayin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, so this is perhaps not a very complicated situation (or maybe it is) to call but I just want feedback as to whether or not I have been a bit unreasonable or naive in the following interaction or whether I am justified in my feelings. Basically, I met this girl ... (1099 words)

How do I break up in a way that will minimize the pain he will feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Well my situation is i've ended up in a relationship that really doesn't satisfy me and i don't know if i should try to make it work or just get out of it as soon as I can. I am 23 and he is 26. I met a guy and he seemed nice, intelligent and interesting so i... (684 words)

I would love if we went out but I'm so scared to say anything especially now that I havn't seen or spoke to him since I left my job, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've liked this guy I used to work with for 3 years, we worked in different departments so didn't see each other all the time. I've since left my job a few months ago and still can't get him off my mind. He's always been nice to me etc and we do get along really well but neve... (306 words)

On our way home from our second date, we were laughing and chatting, and then, he rushed out with no touch, no kiss, no hug!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This follows on from my last question. We had our second date. He text me the night before to say he was looking forward to seeing me. Last night we chatted n chatted n laughed and I touched his arm and his back and leaned into him and we sat outside alone together. I hoped he ... (252 words)

How should I approach this girl that I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a girl that I know of, well, I know her family well- they live in the same village as me, her family knows my family, although I've only spoken to her a couple of times.. Anyway, she's a hairdresser, and cut my hair once about 5 years ago. Now she has her own ladies ... (223 words)

Am I right to be annoyed by her behaviour with another guy when we were out together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I recently went on a first date with a girl. It seemed to go pretty well and we even kissed. We have been texting ever since with relative frequency and a couple of attempts have been made to meet again but for various reasons we didn't, until Saturday that is. ... (261 words)

Am I over-reacting to my best friend choosing to be a friend to my adopted sister who has left home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So my adopted sister left home and back-stabbed my family after all we did for her. Now she won't talk to us or anything like that. So I found out that my bestfriend is all besties with her now, and I can't but feel betrayed by my best friend. She knows that after all she d... (107 words)

He doesn't want his friends to find out that he's going out with me. Why? Why does he limit communication?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) age 26-29 - At the moment I am feeling really upset because I'm going out with this boy and he won't barely talk to me, he has got a lot closer to his friend but I doubt that's the problem. He told me that he broke up with his ex girlfriend because she was talking to other boys more tha... (322 words)

How to play hard to get BUT at the same time be nice to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so there is a guy who obviously likes me. He talks with me for hours, flirts, asks me lots of personal questions etc. He asked for my number in a flirty way. I kind of refused in a cold indirect way. Do you think I should have gave him my number? Or should I wait ti... (183 words)