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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 22 and female. Is it normal that I really enjoy watching porn all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a 22 year old woman to watch porn all the time? I sometimes even watch it while I'm at work. My sex life is OK I wouldn't say great at the moment. But for the past month or so I've been really getting into porn and I am craving sex way more than I used to. ... (65 words)

How can I rekindle the fire that existed between the two of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you rekindle the fire? I have been away all summer working in a different state far away from home. I left home on May 24th and will not get back until August 15th. I have been in a long distance relationship since January, but we were only 2.5hrs apart and we mad... (289 words)

I long for this other guy, but he has a Gf now. How do I accept this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3437 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happy like I hadn't in a long tim... (297 words)

Now that my former lecturer has sent me a follow request is it ok for me to approach him? I have a crush on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a crush on a college professor who is quite young. He knows that I have a huge crush on him. So after I graduated from college (maybe around a month) I got a follow request from him on instagram. I accepted his follow request. I posted an update n he liked it. I chec... (129 words)

What can I do about my unhelpful Bf who is the father of our infant son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone hope people have some useful answers here I am so stressed with my boyfriend. He is 28 the problem is he can just be so annoying. Everytime I want to do something it can be anything like going to bath our 7 month old son, or can be going into the kitchen to do te... (244 words)

I felt a spark between us. Do I have any chance with her, knowing now that she does have a Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl through mutual friends. I was attracted to her straight away and it felt like she was interested in me too, there was definitely a spark between us. However... right from the start she said she had a boyfriend so I kept a fair distance. A few days ago,... (291 words)

I don't want to cheat on my husband but don't know how long I can go being unsatisfied

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically for the past 2 weeks or so I've been extremely horny. Like to the point that I think I might cheat on my husband if given the opportunity. I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night. I am not being satisfied by my husband at the moment. I feel like I have ... (167 words)

My boyfriend is constantly talking about how gorgeous other women are and I find it very hurtful

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Just wanted to see what other people say about this: I seem to meet guys, two now that I'd really fallen for, one I dated for a few months last year but had to leave the relationship for various reasons, but the one of the biggest reasons is the other person in the re... (241 words)

What happens after we die?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (M) age 51-59 - I wonder if anybody cares about this issue , but I think about it all the time. I'm not religious, but I feel sort of not really strong in any theoeies about after life. I wish if there would be nothing after we die, but I just have this strange feeling., that i... (100 words)

My ex thinks that I want to get back together with him and I don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like a bad person right now and I feel like I just don't understand my ex or his family. We share a daughter so when she was asked to be his brother's flower girl, and I was also invited it seemed like going with my ex would be ok. I know now it may seem strange to other ... (445 words)

I want to end things. He won't take it well. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been with my boyfriend for six months but i dont think our relationship is going anywhere and there are various issues. He is very clingy, tells me he loves me all the time and texts me 24/7, which being an independent person feels very suffocating. He also has a habit of ... (240 words)

Am I over-reacting by considering breaking up with gf because she went to see male strippers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. So, let's describe the events before asking the question. Because they are lenghty, I am starting with the TOO LONG:DIDN'T READ version TL:DR: She went to a strip show while I don't nor have I done the same. Am I over reacting that she went with her daughters to this ... (523 words)

Do I apologize to guy A for making out with guy B in front of guy A?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sort of seeing "guy A" for a about a month and a half. He was great, other than the fact that he lives nowhere near me, so dating on the regular, thus creating an emotional attachment, was just not going to happen. He is really good friends with another friend of ours, ... (298 words)

He fist bumps me at least 7 times during a work day. what is his problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy i work with keeps fist bumping me for no reason. He keeps saying my name whenever I walk by. Keeps saying 'good job', in a funny way, even though he hasnt deen what I did or didnt do. I ask why he just says stuff like that, he awkwardly says "you're awesome". I've s... (166 words)

Failed my driving test again. So why do I freak out on my test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I failed my driving test 2nd time with 4 serious and 6minors!! I go pieces when I have a test. I lay awake all night on the night of my test, I just couldn't sleep:( I couldn't start the car without stalling. I couldn't even leave the test centre!! The examiner helped ... (193 words)

He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I thought we were in love, as one doe... (230 words)

How do I tell my Bf to find someone better? I don't think I am good enough for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have always had insecurity issues and body image issues since I was younger. Also living in a house with constant mental and emotional abuse can take its toll. However I have a boyfriend and it's close to being a year for us. He is the most amazing person I have ever met;... (247 words)

Do I throw away a twenty year marriage because he is more interested in porn stars than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My husbands obsession with Porn is driving me crazy . There is no desire when he looks at me anymore . Our sex life feel like he is in another world . He has his favourite porn stars saved on his computer.I've Tried talking to him and he says its just a hobby and the wo... (137 words)

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking because I always texted him firs... (191 words)

Would it be so horrible to have sex on a second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Met this great guy online, like me he's been a single a year. We have a lot in common and have spent hours laughing on the phone for the time we've known each other. Our first date was great, we were comfortable with one another almost right away. Anyway, our first kiss was ... (176 words)

My 47 year old boyfriend was texting his friend, a 15 year old girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) age 41-50 - Did I overreact and jump to a gross conclusion ? my boyfriend is 47 I am 31 we have dated for six moths I recently dumped him for texting with his best friends 15 year old daughter but let me give you some background. We having been dating for 6 months and he asked me to m... (350 words)