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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any advice on dating Indian guys? I'm not Indian and don't want to get my hopes up if his family might be disappointed that I'm not Indian.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently seeing an Indian guy. Is there any advice. When it comes to Indian guys? Is their family strict about only dating Indians because I'm not Indian I just don't want to get my hopes up if this doesn't work out.... (43 words)

I'm single and have made a decision that I'll not become a mother. Is this a decision I might regret later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 30 year old woman who is single with no children. My family (more so my parents and 2 sisters) have been getting on my case for lack of a better word, for not having started a family by now and for have been single for so long. I made a decision some ye... (210 words)

I am having trouble giving up control and it's ruining our love making. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, now. My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half and are moving in together soon. We have a problem and it is beginning to seriously affect our relationship. Every now and then she will become filled with love and lust for me and will just drop eve... (223 words)

Am I being difficult and expecting too much? My life is settled, now I'm looking to meet a guy for a relationship with sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a first date with a guy of 45. I am 40 with a grown up son, professional and have my own place and ready to date again after concentrating on work and the parenting side of life. I work out and stay healthy and feel very grateful in that I have good solid friends and ... (269 words)

She is my ex-girlfriend's sister and I'm starting to get feelings for her. Is this my mid-life crisis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a girl about 12 years ago for 3 years, we ended on good terms, but just after we broke up, I became a good friend to her slightly older sister. I dont really speak to my ex anymore but i am still very good friends with her sister. Her sister and I have had a great... (150 words)

Sexually and romantically I prefer males. So why am I sometimes aroused by women's boobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused about things, let me explain: I am very much sexually and romantically attracted to boys, always have been, ever since I was 4 years old. But with that, I've also noticed that since I was close to puberty, I also got aroused by women (mostly boobs) but... (104 words)

Was he a jerk for flirting with her in front of me just after I told him about my crush on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Heya, Okay so basically I like this boy but the problem is so does my best friend!! So I told this boy how i felt and my best friend helped me tell him so everything was great then!! I then was talking about asking him out as a nice friend I said I wouldn't though becau... (281 words)

What is love? Can anyone help me define true lasting love? How do I recognise true love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

5 July 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - What is love? Do you have to first experience it to know how to recognise it, to understand how it feels? It seems to me as if most couples just go through the motions, they don't actually have love nor really understand it. They get together, maybe get married and have kid... (480 words)

Is it time for me to leave this marriage? He frequently accuses me of cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I came to visit my daughter in another state for 4 days. My husband is sending me text messages saying that I'm out here messing around and he is done with me, all because he called my phone, and I didn't answer. He called my daughter and she told him we was at a cookout, an... (351 words)

Chatted to two different lads. 1st one - do I wait for him or not? 2nd one: do I wait for him to set up a meet-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have started chatting to some boys. One I have met through a social networking site- we speak over the site, but says he is too busy to meet up for another couple of weeks. Do I wait for him or not? I was also on a night out and met a lad who I'm now texting. He hasn't sugge... (102 words)

Is it totally out of order for me to be feeling like he doesn't care anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm in desperate need of some help I'm getting to the point I can't cope anymore. So here's the back story, me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years. I am disabled so I cannot work. We both still live with our parents currently. He works as a chef 2p... (259 words)

I'm concerned over my father's "friendship" with a younger women.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm concerned over my father's "friendship" with a younger women. Threw his work he met a girl in her late 20s. I couldn't help myself look her up on FB she's very pretty and has a toddler. My Father looks after the property's for a landlord he works for and she is a Tennant... (207 words)

Is it a bad idea dating someone who looks the same as someone I was involved in a toxic friendship with not so long ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Met this guy recently around my age and he seems really into me. I like him too. The thing is, though, he looks like the spitting image of a guy I knew up till very recently (a few months ago) and had a lot of trouble with. They could literally be twins. I was friends with... (230 words)

Is he flirting or is he being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that behaves weird around me and I was just wondering if he is flirting? Like one time , he was giving me a tour of his house and when we got to his bedroom.. He took his perfume and sprayed it all over me and was like "I dont want your mom to say you s... (226 words)

If my girlfriend truly loves me then why does she talk to other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend said she loves me and can't live without me but talks too guys and let's them call her sexy ass and other stuff if she truly loved me would she keep talking to guys ... (36 words)

Is it fair to keep some things in your past to yourself and not share them with your partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, Do you think its fair to keep some things in your past from to yourself and not share them with your partner? I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we are already talking long term. We have a really great realationship and i love... (841 words)

He said he'd text but I haven't heard from him. Am I being too needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - We had our first date yesterday and he texted me to make sure I got home safe. I told him he could text me tomorrow and he agreed he would but have not heard from him. Is there a reason he could have forgot? Am I being to needy? ... (49 words)