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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel as if I am the invisible girlfriend. What's the best action I could take to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - OK this is a bit of a difficult one, About 2 months ago my boyfriends friends bullied me badly on a night out, they were drunk whilst I was sober, and ended up shutting me outside the flat of my boyfriend and his best friend, as a cruel joke. My boyfriend was drunk talkin... (642 words)

Is going with his best friend bad? Have I put up with too much cheating by my BF?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - so, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. But over that time, I will put in order...he has: Kissed a girl Had sexual contact with a girl kissed a girl slept with a girl sent nudes to a girl kissed a girl kissed a girl sent flirtatious messages to a girl... (145 words)

Should I wait for him to message me subsequent to Tinder date? Or can I message him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a Tinder date today. Having been on a couple before that weren't brilliant, I was wary. However, this date seemed to go really well. We met for coffee, which he paid for and we chatted for a few hours. When we met he told me I looked great and made a couple of ... (133 words)

Why is my wife spending so much time sleeping, while meanwhile our sex life is non existent?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

6 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife recently went away for a few days with friends. While she was away, we chatted on the phone everyday. However, for the past few months she's been sleeping all the time and she's also put on weight and she's still gaining. Her weight doesn't bother me, I still want to ... (274 words)

His flirting with girls is driving me to distraction. What can I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend is a very flirty/charming and talkative person, thus is how we got together two years ago. However he still does it, he still flirts with girls, winking at them in person and via message. He somehow feels like he always has to start co... (188 words)

Can this marriage still work after what my husband told me? He loves me, but not my changed physical appearance

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5 years. After having two children and dealing with my weight issues this past year, my body has definitely changed. My husband sat me down a couple of nights ago and I knew something was wrong. He told me he didn't know how to say this to m... (244 words)

I wish he would mention me when he messages with his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hasn't seen his wife for two years he just has to send the papers for divorce when he gets more money. Problem is she still messages him all the time with a variety of things some asking for the divorce papers some calling him very bad names and how he is a loser ... (180 words)

What are my rights to the sex tape we made?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-boyfriend made a sex tape when we were together but now we’ve split up I’m petrified he’ll post it online to humiliate me. I’m 23 and my ex is 24. We were together for 2 years and engaged at one point. But the relationship broke down a couple of months ago and we ... (262 words)

Was it really my fault? Who was right and who was wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I had a bad split with a guy for basically seeing another woman while we were on a short 'break'. I know he was free to see whoever he wanted - but I kind of got jealous and told people he was a bit of 'player' for moving on so quick. As a result - he fe... (135 words)

Were these good or bad signs about this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with a guy who came across as very intelligent, confident etc. He was very pedantic about the fact he wanted to pick me up, and pay for everything, we had some coffee, he then took me to see a movie in which he insisted it probably isn't the best thing to do ... (354 words)

She is a newer employee. Why would our boss give her preferential treatment not offered to the rest of us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boss gave a female cowoker 'blocked days' off that were forbidden to the rest of us.. A manager refused to give her those days. Then she asked the head manager, who gave her anything. Even the better work schedule. She's newer than most of us.... (49 words)

Shall I just cut my losses? When I talk about us moving forward she just blanks me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I am a guy of 32,I have been speaking to a girl of 25 for the past seven weeks whom I met online. We have met up and get on brilliantly. She is funny and beautiful. Me being me, I can't get out of my head something she said when we started talking. She said "You ar... (157 words)

I know that our relationship can work. How do I confront him about the naked sexual photos on his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I've found pictures of a girl on my boyfriends phone. The pictures were sexual, it makes me feel sick. We've been through this sort of problem before. Last time, I found messages and one picture. I told my self I would never let anyone walk all over me or hurt ... (171 words)

What can and should I do? Feel depressed when my boyfriend isn't around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

6 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what's wrong with me. Every time I am not near my boyfriend I feel really sad. Borderline depressed. And I don't know why. We are both in our early 20s and have been together for almost three years, we live together and until recently we worked together as well... (145 words)